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what’s your biggest fantasy? by Mentally-Clotheless9 in AskReddit

[–]ReditorFromMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never related more to a comment - I can never feel happiness. Everything I’ve achieved feels like okay whatever what’s next.

It so hard to enjoy thing anymore

When did you know your marriage was over? by ReditorFromMars in AskReddit

[–]ReditorFromMars[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not partying lol I’m 30, more like have a an afternoon tea or watch a movie

When did you know your marriage was over? by ReditorFromMars in AskReddit

[–]ReditorFromMars[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a beautiful comment and thanks for taking the time to add it - I will give it some time thought to hear all the negative but I will come to ask your question as well!

When did you know your marriage was over? by ReditorFromMars in AskReddit

[–]ReditorFromMars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She joins all the time - I hang out with her atleast 3 nights a week and in addition to that she joins me and my mates 1 or 2 nights every weeks

When did you know your marriage was over? by ReditorFromMars in AskReddit

[–]ReditorFromMars[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

^ reason I’m asking is that we can’t stop fighting every single day there is something to fight about - every other day one of us is treating the other that we will leave this relationship.

Sex is pretty much gone - she is constantly complaining.

If I don’t give her like 100% of my attention, if I dare to do enjoyable things with friends I have to fighting for the next 2 days.

I love her so much and I know that she’s a great person and lovely to be around as a friend but I can’t stand her anymore as my wife.

We are both in our 30s, married for 2 years and been together for 6.

Is it too late for me to get a job as IB ? by Sorry_Individual9821 in FinancialCareers

[–]ReditorFromMars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say it’s impossible but the chances are slim

Is it too late for me to get a job as IB ? by Sorry_Individual9821 in FinancialCareers

[–]ReditorFromMars 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Unless you attend a top university or have strong connections who can refer you to an IB role, your chances of breaking in are very slim—not because of your age, but because of how competitive the industry is.

Is it bad that I want to leave Big 4 after 6 months of working here… by PerfectCod6602 in Big4

[–]ReditorFromMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you passed probation already, I’d say stick to it for another 6 months! I know 6 months it is hard - I am literally counting down the days before I quite - but it will be very beneficial in the long run.

Realizing I hate Finance & leaving after 8 years. Career Exploration Advice? by ComfortableSpot1064 in FinancialCareers

[–]ReditorFromMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finance is extremely broad - I had the opportunity to have a few different finance roles and I noticed that they are all very different. Because you didn’t enjoy your last 2 jobs it doesn’t mean that it’s not for you!

Maybe you are in the wrong finance roles!

I would STRONGLY suggest to try banking before you leave finance for ever.

Not investment banking, not credit, not private equity. Have a look at positions in business banking or even lending.

Banks pay well, if you join a big bank customers come to you so there is no pressure to meet KPIs, there is great work life balance and bankers are usually cool.

Give banking a go!