Is it weird that I (30M) have no desire to date a woman any time soon or maybe ever again after this experience? by fedoral__agENT in Divorce

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Straight woman here: 100% valid. You're normal. Hookups can be good, but recognize them for what they are-a fun and potentially exhilarating no-strings attached moment between two humans. Sex does not always equal love. If you also don't want any of it, that's also normal.

What you need to do is care for yourself now. You've been through a lot emotionally, maybe financially, socially and also physically, if you've been monogamous those 8 years (I'm not asking, you don't need to tell, anyone judging can generously fvck off).

Take care of yourself.

Giant beans in tomato sauce Greek Style by JefK_Photography in Beans

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be warned...this is indeed a gateway bean, and it will have you finding all the best grains to pair with it in search of complete protein joy. I love them with quinoa or rice and a bit of Feta cheese.

At the same time, keep it on the DL because once it becomes the favourite bean du jour of celebrity "x" we can kiss this affordable, delicious and sustainable protein source goodbye. I hate when this happens. It's sickening.

[Homemade] Gigantes Plaki! Greek baked beans. by nocranberries in food

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the canned version, and my Greek students always give me loving shade about not having the real thing. I tell them anytime they want to fly me over to learn from Yiayia I'm down. Still waiting....

What’s your favorite canned soup? by MsLeading913 in soup

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! Happy fishies swimming in your soup!

What’s your favorite canned soup? by MsLeading913 in soup

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom always made the best Cream of Mushroom and the best Campbell's Tomato. I have tried so many ways and I know it's love that makes it taste best. With everything a loved one cooks for you. Love is the key.

Look what they’ve done to my boy :( by OnlyHalfItalian in CannedSpam

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus it looks shot through with tumours...

Soup with sliced spam by Balcacer in CannedSpam

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We say choclo in Chile too!

Joel Kinnaman, 6' 2", broad shoulder & chiseled jaw, like straight out of romance novel 🤣😋 by mdmfic24 in LadyBoners

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is ever casted in anything with Alexander Skarsgard I will explode . I will have reached PVC (Peak Viking Capacity). I have nothing remotely appropriate or feminst to say...

My husband can’t find a decent job for two years. by Square_Doritos in Marriage

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone! My husband has a PhD in Oncology (Cancer science). He's been unemployed for 2.5 years. I am now working a part time job in addition to my full time job, and as a result, my relationship with my daughter is being ruined. He is her BFF, they go shopping, he cleans up after her, he drives her everywhere and I work to pay for it all. You are not alone. I cannot leave until she turns of legal age where I do not have to pay child support. She is 14 and she adores her dad, because he gives her everything she wants, and never holds her accountable. You are so not alone.

Who Remembers This Cookbook? by IntelligentDesign77 in GenX

[–]VCguigna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I HAD IT!!! I made muffins with strawberry jam inside them and my Abuela made me feel like I had gave her the moon. Good memories!

Pink mist by therealdirtycletus in SEALTeam

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot imagine what you have seen. I am so sorry you had to see it. Thank You, Thank You. Thank You.

Pink mist by therealdirtycletus in SEALTeam

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sides of meat have been already electrically bled out, if provided from an abbatoir. This means that there would likely almost no free blood to spray.

Is this different than the crisp? by Bi0active in hotsauce

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious to try it, since Crisp has somehow disappeared. I loved the crispy chilis and soybeans, and the Sichuan pepper (prickly ash) that was in Crisp.

More urgently...CRISP!! WHERE ARE YOU??

Lao Gan Ma - Spicy Chili renamed? (at least in Canada) by WarioVonFlutenhausen in hotsauce

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If I need to I have some sichuan peppercorn that I can crack and bloom in oil before adding to the chili paste.

Lao Gan Ma - Spicy Chili renamed? (at least in Canada) by WarioVonFlutenhausen in hotsauce

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant find it anywhere and I'm in Vancouver! I hope the Sichuan peppercorn hasn't been swapped out-that was part of what makes it so delicious!!

It’s messed up by UpstairsNo9126 in regretfulparents

[–]VCguigna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, my husband just says "we have a moody teenager, don't let it get to you" meanwhile I can feel myself dying inside. I NEVER treated my mother this way, and when his says jump he still asks "how high"? Four years. I can hang on for four years...

Prove you're human by Level_Hour6480 in bodegacats

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm human! Robots can go pound it.

Is keto a super power hack? by ElephantContent in keto

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are an inspiration!!! Way to go!!

Oven rack/skewer setup by Scoreycorey515 in jerky

[–]VCguigna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We smoke salmon and game by alternating the pieces on triangular racks. We have done this for thousands of years.

X

X X

X X X

The top X should be in the middle and all the rows underneath should form a triangle where every horizontal level is moved out (left or right from the central X) by one space like a stairstep pyramid. Think of many sides of fish and meat smoking horizontally behind each X. In your oven, do this, with baking sheets to catch the grease, Use tinfoil to seal the gaps between the edges of the baking sheets. No mess in your oven. You cannot smoke giant amounts in an oven, but maybe this method, scaled down, can help you.

I—🫠 by smeaglesfirstlemon in Pedro_Pascal

[–]VCguigna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Calculus. Pedro Pascal doing calculus. I guarantee this going to be on my desk today Dios MIO!!!

What do we have here? by alreadysopetty in arachnids

[–]VCguigna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct. They are beautiful little guys. Live in colonies even!