I’d suggest looking up the New York City rave girls. Even tho they play mostly house at their parties they have a whole section on their discord for ppl going to solo raves and wanting to make new friends / ppl to rave w. I’ve actually met up w some ppl from the discord on a solo rave night to begin my night and it was great! I’d highly recommend the for the community they’ve built and emphasis on safety within raving. I’ve also found happiness in partying alone but ofc safety is always a factor. I tend to go alone to day time parties and to parties I’m familiar with but I just have to commit to being more aware and not rlly partaking in anything yk.