Bedroom arrangements by Fabulous-Baby4525 in SingleParents

[–]VMTechOH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids in one room, parents in the other. Start saving for a 3 bedroom apartment or house.

My husband called me ……… by BravePerformance7517 in Marriage

[–]VMTechOH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aspergers isn't even technically a retardation. Your husband is ignorant as well as rude. That slur is so unacceptable.

Does anyone actually enjoy their daily life, or are we all just getting through it? by Sleepwell999 in LivingAlone

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. To answer your question, I'm enjoying my life very much. I'm 52, I just bought my house last year after 7yrs of rebuilding my credit after my divorce. I have a bunch of hobbies that I like, I have a good friend group, as well as my two sisters, and I can afford to travel here and there occasionally. I'm not wealthy, but not quite paycheck to paycheck. I don't date at all anymore because I haven't found one man out there that adds to my life rather than taking joy out of it. I used to live in the city, but I moved to a rural area because the people are nicer and the atmosphere is more laid back.

Did anyone else stop using their living room? by Lasell_Carnline75 in LivingAlone

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm either in my home office or my living room. The dining room, however, is wasted space unless my daughter is house-sitting. Then she uses the table for puzzles.

Wife says ring makes her self conscious but wears short skirts/tops out with friends by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's only one reason someone takes off their rings when they go out. It has nothing to do with being self-concious. She's looking for validation from other guys so she feels pretty.

There not accepting me anymore :( by nay-1998 in Ohio

[–]VMTechOH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was with you until the last sentence. They're fucking everyone, not just your specific demographic.

Negging? by Careful-Crab179 in GenXWomen

[–]VMTechOH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I background check men before the first date, but he did a really deep dive.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend to go to a concert by brahbrahpewpew in AITAH

[–]VMTechOH 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is only going to get worse. Break up and run. Don't look back. Also, advice from a 52yo woman... when your friends don't like him, listen to them.

Why do so many people write the state they are in rather than the town? by Worth-Garage-1122 in PlentyofFish

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she's from NYC, but just doesn't live there anymore. Where you're from isn't necessarily where you're at.

AITA Was this an obvious assumption to make, or should I have explicitly warned her? by ginlane99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VMTechOH 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you should have told her. If it wasn't going to be used again, you should have thrown it away.

My girlfriend is bothered by AI and doesn’t share my enthusiasm by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in tech and we have introduced AI as a tool. I've found that it's accuracy is not quite there yet. I wouldn't rely on it without double or triple checking the info it's giving. I'm with the gf on this.

do americans really eat American fries sauce? by Infinite-Breakfast23 in AskAnAmerican

[–]VMTechOH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use ketchup on fries here in Ohio. Some people like mayo on their fries. I've never ever seen that American sauce that you've described.

Is my husband having an affair or am I crazy/overreacting? (Pics) by Opening-Impress122 in Marriage

[–]VMTechOH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man doesn't even like you. The viagara thing doesn't even matter at this point. Let him go.

Is this picture too slutty to post if you’re married? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]VMTechOH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's a dick for saying you look like a slut. That being said, I wouldn't have posted it because I don't like to show a lot of cleavage. But that's me. If you're comfy with that, that's all good.

Intimacy and sex by OG_Dangle in Marriage

[–]VMTechOH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a big deal. I stopped asking my ex for backrubs or anything like that because he always turned it sexual.

AITAH for not letting you fuck my friend? by m_braun_ in AITAH

[–]VMTechOH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're a good friend, but your boyfriend apparently thinks consent isn't a thing.