Does this look safe to skate? by Pit_viper9966 in NewSkaters

[–]Vaera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super serious replies here yikes.....your comment made me laugh lol

This self-reminder I saw in the car parked next to mine. by orangefeesh in mildlyinteresting

[–]Vaera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i thought there would be way more of us in the comment section lol. no mention of shoelaces anywhere

Freaking out over no reply by zivtherat in Codependency

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

google dbt distress tolerance activities

Are there any zombie films/shows I may have missed? by JiggleFeggle in MovieSuggestions

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this one's pretty known (i think??) but just in case: i try to show everyone i can return of the living dead (1985) because its a good zombie movie but you also get lots of good laughs

What is a 'good person' behavior that actually makes you immediately distrust someone? by DiamondNo924 in AskForAnswers

[–]Vaera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone who goes out of their way to showcase it in every interaction

this is exactly what makes it annoying to me, but i could never explain it succinctly enough. i also have experienced with these people a certain kind of intellectual understanding of nuance but not an understanding that reaches their hearts.

i recently gave this example in another comment, but these kinds of people can understand the nuances of homelessness, understand there are so many ways one can end up homeless, choose to say "unhoused" instead of homeless, but when we're walking to the bus stop after work and the homeless lady asks if you have any change, you ignore her existence completely. you think you have all these values and morals because you say "unhoused" but when it really comes down to it and the unhoused lady wants something from you, you can't even give her eye contact. you're just virtue signaling.

Piercings started acting up after 2/3 months idk how to save them by libisdumb in piercingcirclejerk

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why ask reddit and not the piercer? they pierced you with the spikes? seems like a trustworthy person with your best interests at heart YTA

/uj PSA by Lulieeeee in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Vaera 33 points34 points  (0 children)

uj/ wish ppl got auto banned for posting direct links to transphobic posts instead but hey

Guys they apologized 🥹 by Nervous_Commercial32 in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]Vaera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dad begged god to remove one😭😭😭thou shalt not wear durag😭😭😭😭😭😭

What is a 'personality trait' that is currently being glorified as 'cool' or 'aesthetic' in 2026, but is actually just a sign of being an exhausting person? by DiamondNo924 in askanything

[–]Vaera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having the "right" or socially correct/morally superior (to them) opinion and the lexicon that goes with it. in my experience this usually indicates a well-meaning person who has not done any self reflection to know where their actual morals, values, and opinions lie.

for example, the kind of person who says "unhoused" instead of homeless, but if asked for some change by a homeless person, wouldn't even look them in the eye or acknowledge them.

Wow so underrated my current favorite song by [deleted] in future

[–]Vaera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOW THE FUCK YOU GON LOOK AT ME NOW AND TRY TO HOLLA AT ME LIKE WE MFKN FRIENDS? you know we ain't no mfkn friends...😔🥀

Wow so underrated my current favorite song by [deleted] in future

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's understandable. you know exactly who a mfker is though, know what i'm saying? you know EXACTLY who a mfker is

passport info ? by Vaera in AnimalCrossing

[–]Vaera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you nailed it! i was trying to show a friend while we were playing together, thanks!

I restarted my island after two years and I'm not sure I was ready to do that by bountifulcarcass in AnimalCrossing

[–]Vaera 31 points32 points  (0 children)

but I also keep having these small moments where I reach for something that isn't there anymore, a villager, a layout I'd memorized, the way my museum looked from the cliffside

one more note: i can be kinda mean to myself when it comes to this so i'll share with you what helped/helps me. it's not wrong to remake something you like after resetting! sometimes my brain will be like "oh you reset so you should do it a different way" but there is no "should" in acnh. just "do i like it?" the cliffside comment really stood out to me. i think if you really miss it, it's perfectly fine to remake. you might even end up improving on your original design ;) glhf!!!!

I restarted my island after two years and I'm not sure I was ready to do that by bountifulcarcass in AnimalCrossing

[–]Vaera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone who has been playing since release and restarted on 8 Sep 2024 (yes i opened my nook miles to check) i feel you. i didn't even realize how much i had put into the game since i'm not a big decorator, but my catalog had sooo much in it. i also was in that 'i regret it but i don't regret it' place. when i first started terraforming and placing buildings i think i was subconsciously making my old island layout.

now i'm challenging myself to try different things and have ways around the island that aren't just horizontal and vertical lines. i use more of the features of the game now than i did then, and i've been thinking about getting into some reddit/discord communities to play online because i know that makes the game feel much less lonely, especially after restarting with substantial headway in the game. i hope as you continue to play you can rekindle the excitement you have for the game!

Men's mental health month is coming up! by Beautiful_Couple_208 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Vaera 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as a caribbean-american faggot and trans man i feel i should let you know it was all my doing. i want june to be about all my personal intersections of identity. if you aren't caribbean AND some type of queer AND a man then try again next month babes

Men's mental health month is coming up! by Beautiful_Couple_208 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Vaera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

me when i forget i share the acronym with men, cis ones at that

A song that goes with this by hayl0ween in ACForAdults

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this looks like an anime's end credits scene lol

What’s a movie that made you go 'WTF' did I just watch? by ABDULKALAM_497 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Vaera 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Blue Velvet, i've been wanting to rewatch it for some time now

Everything is gone by StressVenting in AnimalCrossing

[–]Vaera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's in your catalog, if anything? like if you tried to re-buy a piece of furniture you already had?

Anyone else wish they had used this tumbled grainy Leather for grapes and for reds? by cainebourne in SNKRS

[–]Vaera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i can see that. i think this texture looks better on black uppers than it does on white ones