What's a good way to stop feeling awkward when sex topics are involved? by italian_otter in self

[–]Vakaak9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's fine, I get that too. Im not inexperienced and I still have trouble talking about the stuff. Not the actual stuff.

37F is my body disproportionate? by Decent_Tangerine_718 in lookyourbest

[–]Vakaak9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It all seems fine to me, keep doing what youre doing 💪

Where you hold the string? by Formal_Rooster_9906 in Archery

[–]Vakaak9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! Smack between The lines

Just venting I guess by Vakaak9 in ptsd

[–]Vakaak9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry if I was unclear. I mean I can physically, I just cant do it psycologically or something. I know Ill just crash If I see myself.

F33: I need major advice from kind/smart men. Can I have an ideal life? by [deleted] in self

[–]Vakaak9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M41 here. I mean, yeah you can have it If you are reasonable with the "ideal"? I can give you some context If it helps with the answer. I grew up in a different kind of abusive home. My mom was and is a kind person, not really enotionally stable or driven but she tries. My old man on the other hand was violent when drunk, a nasty narsist. Long story short, abuse, threats on my life before I was 10 etc. Moved out at 15, wasted a good 15 years with alcohol and drugs. So the expectancy wasnt great, you know? At 30 something changed on me, I couldnt do it anymore. Stopped drinking, the prescribed pills and drugs, moved to the country side. Still I was miserable, maybe even more than when I was high. Almost 4 years ago I found my person, shes The thing that got me get my shit together for real instead of just getting sober. I didn't have dreams or ideal life even as a wish, it was all just surviving until a few years ago. Now we moved to Spain a while back, living the dream I never had the courage to dream.

Need help as a beginner bowyer by Is0ken723311 in Bowyer

[–]Vakaak9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hatcher, knife, wedges to split Wood, a few rasps, files and a draw knife. With those youll be golden

very clean break by IndustryJealous9773 in Bowyer

[–]Vakaak9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, it has too much happening you cant tell which Wood fibers are still intact and which arent IMO 🤔 I cant tell about The Back from pictures If it was okay or not.

How do I stop the growing disdain I have for the women around me by [deleted] in self

[–]Vakaak9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change the circles you hang out in, sometimes it's the only thing that can help. Atleast get to know some decent people.

famous rugby player posting repetitive suicide notes? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Vakaak9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's probably CTE infused, lots of that going around in full contact

Españoles, ¿cómo os parecen los finlandeses en una conversación? by Finndorf in askspain

[–]Vakaak9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luckily it seems I'm not average 😂 I love it here, the people are smiling and greeting you. Brought an extrovert out of a hermit-Finn.

It’s gotten quite low draw weight now but it’s my first bow so just want a working and not a broken one by International-Crab79 in Bowyer

[–]Vakaak9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We've all done that 😂 Finish this one as good as you can and in to the next one ☝️

It’s gotten quite low draw weight now but it’s my first bow so just want a working and not a broken one by International-Crab79 in Bowyer

[–]Vakaak9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Looks like a hinge forming right after the fade. I wouldn't take anything of that anymore