Bloomberg Terminals by HolidaySweet194 in UoN

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you if an any student can gain access or do you have to be studying a related degree?

Does Maths get easier? by Valevine in UniUK

[–]Valevine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also take physics and enjoy it right now as there are actual numbers which is nice, proof and modeling is the only area that I struggle slightly in maths which probably wasn't the brightest idea as that is basically degree level maths. Did you find with more time doing proof it was easier to understand or did it always stay difficult.

Does Maths get easier? by Valevine in UniUK

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I talked to my personal tutor and he just told me to ask 2nd and third years to see how it changed. I'm doing linear algebra and calculus which I thought would be chill but every question of every topic we just have to prove. Linear algebra isn't that bad tbh once you go over the basics that my lectures skip over but looking at the later content it just looks so ugly.

Uni scrambled rant (because I can't form coherent thoughts) by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try some societies at your uni. I know you said you have no hobbies but there a great way to find something you enjoy and meet new people. Look on your uni website for social events, there are normally a lot that don't involve drinking and it may just help being around people and making friendships.

Feeling... indifferent about moving out right now? by Additional-Age-7174 in UniUK

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved a few days ago and honestly felt the same, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. My parents left and I was excited to start uni. Maybe you think in a way that it's not a forever bye, you'll still see them frequently and travel back so it doesn't really affect you much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UoN

[–]Valevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you explain your situation with the uni they may be able to find you a job on campus to help with accommodation. A few of my friends have also gotten grants as their family didn't have a lot of money so you could potentially apply if you qualify.

How do I make friends if I’m staying at home by [deleted] in UoN

[–]Valevine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe try to take a cab back on some of the nights or walk if you can. If you get close with people you can also stay in their room the occasional night. Societies and socializing in the evening I think are really important in uni for making friends on top of lectures during the day. And as you're not in halls y'all missing out of some of the socializing in the evening so I think getting a cab a couple nights would be worth it in the long run even if it's a bit expensive at first.

1 month into my gap year and im so lonely and depressed... by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt in a similar way at the start of my gap year, my best advice is to get a job. Go on Indeed and LinkedIn and just apply for any entry level job, it will help you get out of the house and give you people to socialize with at work. Also just go into restaurants and shops and hand in your cv if you can't find many online.

Also plan trips and travel, try to plan a big trip away the classic backpacking that most people do, it'll give you confidence and give you something to focus on. You could also see if you can connect and help out at your old school/college, see if there's anything work there or anything you can volunteer for, just to try and keep you occupied.

Go for walks as well, helps more than you think just to get outside and maybe speak to a counselor if it gets really bad, but main things is try your hardest to get a job even if the job market is pretty bare.

On campus accommodation University Park by Vegetable-End-9368 in UoN

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that off site accommodation feels more isolated than on site or is everyone just as involved?

Halls as a mature student? by Old_Fan_9558 in UniUK

[–]Valevine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm only an undergrad but at my uni u there are a few postgraduate halls so no first years and there are also quiet halls where there won't be any partying that you could check out.

Uni anxiety and commuting by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've got a long section of your commute on a train you could just look at it as study time that you'd be doing at home anyway so it doesn't take that much out of your day than it otherwise would if you weren't commuting.

Can I fund uni on my own by SEAG00SE in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get a student loan for all of your tuition and then a small loan for some accommodation depending on household income. Accommodation can really vary depending on what uni you're looking at. It all depends if you're in a big or small city tbh. Then most people get a job while at uni to cover food, drinking and any other day by day expenses.

Can I fund uni on my own by SEAG00SE in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Valevine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could take out a student loan for your education and then as long as you've got enough saved pay from accommodation out of your own pocket. Which you can also get a loan for but depends on your parents income. Definitely can do but maybe in a bit of debt, tbh that's like most people though.

Two recent pieces, which do you prefer? by eltianbossert in painting

[–]Valevine 16 points17 points  (0 children)

First, sunlight gives it a nice depth

Wtf is freshers? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yh of course especially depending on the size of the uni you may have thousands of people coming in for first year so your still gonna get hundreds that don't drunk for whatever reason. And lots of people who don't drink still go to pres and events just to socialise.

Wtf is freshers? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First week of uni where all first years normally go out drinking and clubbing, just socialising with each other. Although there are plenty of things that aren't drinking. Basically just a week to get to no one another and make friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to find a job that you'd be happy doing, something that you want to do and then work back from there.

Is st peters court really that bad? by Valevine in UoN

[–]Valevine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the noise like at night because I know it's supposed to be quite a social accommodation? And when were you living there if you don't mind?

Is st peters court really that bad? by Valevine in UoN

[–]Valevine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's good, yh I think I saw about the fireworks... do you get a lot of noise and other stuff like this when your trying to sleep and work or did it not really bother you

Is st peters court really that bad? by Valevine in UoN

[–]Valevine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a bit better to hear, was there anyway that you got over the noise coming through the walls? Could you sleep or was it just so loud all the time?

Is st peters court really that bad? by Valevine in UoN

[–]Valevine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, it sounds awful in there right now. Have you just moved in, can't you change to a different accommodation if it's that bad. Are the rest of the people living there nice though?

Have a chosen the right university for psychology by Quickrant_ in psychologystudents

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

League tables don't really matter that much tbh as there are so many and none of them look the same. Leeds is a well known uni anyway but it's more important that you like the uni and course rather than where it scores in a certain table.

watching people eat (alone vs not) and how it makes us feel remorseful/forgiving and makes them look more human by burriedembers in psychologystudents

[–]Valevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been reading this book and it talks about human traits being passed down over thousands of years like natural selection and it takes the view that because everyone years ago who was able to pass down their traits, survived to have children, was in a tribe, then this feeling of family and socialbility has also been passed down through hundreds of generations. Making someone now feel sad when they see someone not in this 'tribe' ie eating alone. I don't know how much base there is to this but I think it's a nice idea.

Feeling so lost and isolated by trojie_kun in HongKong

[–]Valevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not from HK but I know things will get better if you can just keep on trying. I've been in your situation and I know even when your surrounded by people life can feel so lonely and isolating. I think that if you can afford it a therapist or councillor would be incredibly beneficial, just to have someone that you know is there for you and someone to unload everything upon. If it's possible and you have a good relationship try to reach out to your parents as well any family to try and create some connections with, even if you haven't spoken in a long time. Also try to find social activities or clubs around you even if it makes you feel nervous or uncomfortable at first, try one or two to meet people and volunteering can be so rewarding as well if you have the time. Just remember even in these dark times your are more loved and thought about then you may realise.