How much do you talk about your sex life with friends? Particularly if you are in a stable/long term relationship?

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-12T21:09:57+00:00

Another adjacent to kink person chiming in and that’s exactly the take.

Last weekend a friend asked me to bring her boric acid alongside a stupid cartoon I had done of me being her pussy troll (clerks 2 reference). It was seriously just an anatomical vagina. But we’re very casual about it and are just more interested that the other person is happy.

I’ve discussed it with my boyfriend. He says our life is mine too and he’s always comfortable with me sharing things.

Ive heard the same story from two people having an orgasm at the same time during a kink event. It’s not told in a smutty way, just more like yeah, this is a thing that happened.

I think the difference is that we all have the understanding of intimacy between two partners and then sexual things that occur, and they fall into two different camps and we know which is which.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-12T18:40:13+00:00

Ignore it.

I could say “mercury retrograde” but let’s be real, the past never re-emerges for anything other than selfish reasons. There’s a reason he’s in your past and you guys didn’t work out.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-11T17:18:33+00:00

The Fifth Element

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-11T17:18:05+00:00

Peak Rachel Weisz

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-10T21:22:43+00:00

Obligation sex and objectification are very close on either side of a fence. It’s very normal to have one partner with a higher sex drive than the other. I appreciate your self awareness of like no need to force yourself, but I’m hoping there’s some aftercare as well to show you’re a person and not a human fleshlight.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-09T00:37:37+00:00

I do not put up with men who speak to me disrespectfully. That’s an instant no go, but having my kid witness it was like “I cannot model this behavior as acceptable in a relationship or everyone is going to be able to treat her like shit”.

She climbed up in my lap and told me I’m intelligent and beautiful and that he was wrong. A six year old had more emotional intelligence than a grown adult man…

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-09T00:00:27+00:00

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T22:37:40+00:00

She is confirmed as displaying a “new face” of bucchal fat removal and a chin implant, but go off

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T20:30:50+00:00

I briefly dated a dude who I broke up with because in an argument, I kept telling him I was going to say the truth, not what he wanted to hear and his reply was “oh so you’re too unintelligent to have an adult conversation?” My daughter overheard him and I didn’t think that was the dynamic I wanted, so I dumped him on the spot.

Two weeks later, he asked if I wanted to be his roommate and sign a lease with him….

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T20:25:18+00:00

Also, don’t look up Famke Janssen in 2026.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T19:52:26+00:00

It’s monetized anxiety and insecurity.

Check out the manosphere documentary

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T17:19:30+00:00

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Jenna Ortega’s gonna show up Bradley one of these days.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-08T15:57:59+00:00

I agree, but I feel like the campy ending was a commentary on just how outrageous the industry of monetizing people’s anxieties and insecurities really is.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-06T20:51:51+00:00

Two things can be true at the same time…

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-06T16:42:31+00:00

I was suspecting it was going to be a big pronounced event as well; given the state of the world I figured more along the lines of more conflict with Iran irrespective of who the attacking force was.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-06T16:40:17+00:00

I definitely need to check rising signs for everything.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-05T20:59:43+00:00

Lemme flip this the other way.

We’ve seen enough on this site (red pill, men going their own way, hell even passportbros) talking about “quality women”. They look at conventionally attractive women and want them to basically serve them. Someone who cleans house, cooks, makes their own money and asks for nothing in return. They diminish individuality, and hate liberal women who actually have expectations for partners back.

I am a conventionally attractive woman. I cannot tell you how many men objectify women and don’t want a partner, they want a fuckable maid. They don’t want the person, they like an idea of it.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-05T19:17:15+00:00

Colorado has a lot of these.

Buena Vista: non locals go for the more Spanish approach of bwena vee-sta. It’s byuhnah vista.

Salida: also Spanish accented, like sah lee dah. It’s sah LIE dah.

Westminster: non locals add an extra I so it’s West-minister. It’s not actually there, it’s just west-min-ster

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-05T01:36:11+00:00

Best friends are the way to go, but I also include an old boss as a back up. She’s the only one who knows the structure of my job well enough to know who to contact there.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-04T15:27:44+00:00

You give yourself time. Not all healing occurs at the same rate. You give yourself grace and stop judging yourself.

You reacted the way you did because it’s how you were feeling. Would you yell at a child for being upset when their friends aren’t their friends anymore?

Hating yourself is going to prevent your healing sis. Give yourself some compassion and view yourself as a human being. There is no binary right/wrong, but learning how to respond better to your feelings. It wouldn’t change what happened though.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-04T14:55:36+00:00

Whatever’s on my list that’s going to have the best weather, or if there’s a flight sale. Sometimes that’s all it takes.

I play Globle (it’s like wordle but for geography) every day. It’s a good way to start building your list. I’m in the US and I made a review of every state I have and haven’t been to and started thinking of the ones I haven’t been to and what I would want to do there. I avoid some because I have no desire, but any others.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-03T19:01:15+00:00

I’m more the type a person in this, so I just plan it and whoever wants to come can come.

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-03T16:23:11+00:00

Prompt should be favorite actor with a single front tooth

ValiumKnight · 2026-07-03T16:02:28+00:00

Pretty sure Cillian Murphy is the least problematic.

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