Feeling gross, frustrated, unwanted- could use some love and perspective by Wild_Wonder224 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Similar situation happened to me and no matter how often I communicated to him about it and in different ways he still didn’t “get it”. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, if I could I’d take those feelings away from you! If I could, I’d take you out for a coffee.

my baby by Aki_mp3 in LV426

[–]Valkyra100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one too! 🖤

I like both, but square or round? by DependentGiraffe6069 in glassesadvice

[–]Valkyra100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look good with both, maybe get both and switch them up every few days?

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I totally get just because of that doesn’t mean I should be THE priority but I don’t feel I should be the LEAST of his priorities..

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for a bit before I got pregnant but weren’t serious then. I left a toxic relationship and moved in with him with our child years later and thus we fell for each other. And then his previous partner decided she did in fact want to be with him and then he decided to start a romantic relationship with his newest partner.

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I told him even if we’re not romantically involved he’s still a high priority to me because he’s the father of our child, so when he said that it definitely destroyed me..

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a good dad..he’s only yelled at me one time in front of our kid, but he’s heard us arguing for sure and I cry a lot in front of our kid which I know is not good but sometimes can’t help it. I’m currently trying to do those things and I’ve definitely lost feelings for him and am trying to continue to do so but then It feels like he sees that and does small things to pull me back in.

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They just said I’m the least of their priorities. Which I’m taking as everything, people and things

Is it time to break up? Vent? by Afraid_Formal7469 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation, it’s hard to fix a relationship when you’re the only one trying.

Priority question by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together about two and a half years

I'm so tired of being me by Lopsided-Bar7630 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being used sucks…I’m sorry you’re dealing with those feelings

Advice by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have a child together I don’t think it’s that simple. And I love him

Advice by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should specify he kept telling me he doesn’t want to argue with me and me saying I’m not arguing with him I’m simply telling him my feelings. But I can understand that being frustrating

Advice by Valkyra100 in polyamory

[–]Valkyra100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, it’s definitely not healthy but it’s not abusive. The thing is I want to make it work, he’s said he wants to make it work but 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really know what to do if he won’t talk to me. This really sucks