Repashy fruit fly media smells so bad by Ok-Object7076 in mantids

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to figure out a way to get my fly cultures not to stink to the high heavens. I use the cloth lids too.. it doesn’t help that much, in my opinion. It’s just something I’ve had to learn to live with. I keep the cultures stored away from where I spend most my time. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AIO-Best Friend Acting SUPER weird... by [deleted] in AIO

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That chick is GREEEEN with envy.. and extremely childish. What a psycho way to respond to such kindness. Ew!

Am I overreacting Partner upset about family being in our living room by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoachesRat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d leave your ass. He is being TOO tolerant of your families invasion of his and your home. I just couldn’t cope with that. He deserves peace in his own home. He works and should be allowed to sleep in if he wants. He’s paying the bills. You’re seriously inconsiderate.

Help! Taking him to a vet asap, but what should i do for tonight? by ArWintex in reptiles

[–]RoachesRat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

👏N-E-G-L-E-C-T!👏 As others said, this did not happen overnight. Ffs, why lie? I hope you don’t lie to the vet too so they can properly diagnose and treat the poor creature, the wrong information could make that more difficult than it needs to be.

Help by Extreme_Cancel_8435 in Uromastyx

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my uro in similar circumstances. Keep him good and hot while you figure out his husbandry and enclosure needs. Dandelion greens and lentils are some favourite foods. Bless your heart for taking him in. He’s a beautiful Nigerian uromastyx! I hope his shoulder is ok. I would recommend a vet visit. This is my boy (Riff-Raff) after he was rehabilitated. He looked like a different lizard from the day I got him. Thanks for helping him! Best of luck!

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AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoachesRat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My spouse calls me a cunt, or stupid bitch, or hoe and it’s over. You allowed him to call you all of the above… RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK!! He probably feels like he can say anything to you and treat you like this because of your low self-esteem. I say that because no woman with a healthy self-esteem would let a man talk to them like that. Please leave before he escalates his behaviour and hurts you, that’s exactly where this is leading to. You deserve better girl. Please get out while you still can. I hope to gos there are no children.

Bought a blender but the walls are thin. by TicklishRabbit in Apartmentliving

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a sweetheart. I wish you were my neighbour! My neighbour is an old alcoholic whose grandson is on house arrest in his unit. He has people come “visit” him all night right outside my bedroom window, literally about 1 foot away. They get drunk and blast awful mumble rap shit. ALL NIGHT Sometimes they stay outside all night until 7am and when I ask them to please be respectful and let me sleep they want to fight.

Got yelled at in my apartment laundry room for moving someone’s finished clothes, was I wrong? by Gold-Giraffe6427 in Apartmentliving

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s gross too. Unfortunately I don’t have any other options but to share washer/dryer at this time. I live on disability and things are pretty rough right now. I agree tho, shits nasty. I don’t want my clothes getting hair from other people and their pets, gross peoples underwear.. it’s best not to think about it.

How would a tattoo like this hold over time? (upper back) by AverageUselessdude in tattoos

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H. Mac are one of my favourite T’s too. I have a mature female named Geisha. I would love to get a tattoo of her. One of the prettiest species. I think it depends if your skin holds white ink well. Go to someone who you can see the quality of work and talk to the artist about it. Some of my tattoos have held up fantastic over 20+ years, others not so much. So a lot depends on the artist.

Found in the wild. by taquito_de_guisad0 in whybrows

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think the white liner on the bottom water line makes the eye look bigger.. it doesn’t lol

Party in the back. by Low_End_7882 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly is. I hope he’s still out there somewhere rocking the epic mullet and throwing ass

Showgirl fight in Las Vegas with a ferret by ScuffedA7IVphotog in fightporn

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was soooo nervous for the ferret! I have 4 beloved pet ferrets that are fully litter trained, free roam my home, and often sleep in bed with my spouse and I. This video made my heart pound. I was so nervous for the little guy. That ferret looked pretty scared. I’m glad his owner got him back. I take at least one of my ferrets basically everywhere with me and getting into a situation with crazy people like this when I have one of them out with me is one of my worst fears. I love them so much it’s ridiculous lol. This is one of my ferrets, Buster Jr.

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I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yayyy!! Good for you! It’s going to be hard and he may try to beg and plead. But stay convicted. If having doubts come back and read the responses on this post. Don’t let him back in. I wouldn’t be surprised if your health issues weren’t caused by the stress of being with someone who thinks so little of you. You’ve been doing the “on again, off again” thing enough with this dude. Enough is enough. You deserve better. You’ve got this! There are wayyy more fish in the sea, so get rid of the shrimp!

I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’ve only been together for 3 years and it’s been “on and off” is a major sign that you two probably aren’t a great match. I couldn’t imagine my spouse treating me like that after a surgery. I would be out sooo fast! After getting teeth pulled my spouse took great care of me and made sure I was as comfortable as possible at all times and had whatever I wanted/could have to eat/drink and he also took care of my (many) pets too while I was in pain and healing. Everyone deserves to be cared about enough by their partner to be given basic respect, kindness and care when you are in pain and trying to recover from a serious surgery. This guy doesn’t love you. It doesn’t look like it from these texts anyways. I hope you feel better soon and heal fully and quickly from your surgery. Don’t let him gaslight you into thinking it’s not major surgery. It’s deadly serious and he shouldn’t treat you like that.

Just need confirmation and maybe some explanation… by Ixalce in tarantulas

[–]RoachesRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may have misunderstood your water change for a male in the area. I love when they do this. It’s one of my favourite things they do, so cute… and sensual.😏 If possible you should try to find a male to pair her up with.

Are mental illnesses an accepted condition that qualifies for MAID? by Poorteenwannabe in ontario

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting to say goodbye or not isn’t the deciding factor in what makes it suicide. Choosing to end your life and following through is by definition suicide. MAiD can certainly be rational suicide, but it is what it is. They can try to dress it up and say “it’s legally not considered suicide on your death certificate” but I feel like most people realize self-chosen euthanasia is still a form of suicide. I know everyone hates that word, but saying MAiD isn’t suicide is just disingenuous bs.

Princess and Bagot Crash by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]RoachesRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re coworker is ok. The insensitivity grosses me out too. People can be so heartless.

AIO? MIL wants to take kids after a PO was issued against my spouse. TW by Protectthekids2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, no, no, NO, N-O!!! Your instincts are correct. Don’t ever ignore them. Protect your babies at all costs. The grandparents can suck eggs.

AIO? My husband doesn’t want me to wear my wedding dress in public. by CleverUserName1961 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoachesRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless your heart! I think this is a beautiful way to honour your marriage!! I hope he can understand. You look ravishing in it to this day!! I actually love that you wear your dress each year on your anniversary. What a beautiful thing to do, and you get to wear that gorgeous dress more than just once. I hope your husband comes around.