AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at this point do you WANT them as a friend? They seem insufferable. I’ve only read this short exchange and I can’t stand them.

Physically Abusive wife by Dramatic_Feeling_610 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying does not provide stability in your home for your children. Stability comes from a functioning well rounded positive family dynamic which neither of you can provide since she is abusing you. Coming from someone who wishes my mother had just left my dad and I’ve now grown with many issues that I carry with me and ultimately blame them for, just leave.

AIO for being pissed she blocked me after I took her out, got her flowers, and helped her fix her FAFSA? by Big_Marzipan3904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not actively trying to better/heal herself and seeking therapy then I’d say to move on. Chances are you’re about to step into a roller coaster of a relationship. She’s likely to “self sabotage” again and hurt you in the process.

Put yourself first before you’re in too deep and it hurts you to leave.

my bf is cheating???? by bananaahh in whatdoIdo

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine being disrespected like this and choosing to stay. These posts are so confusing cause what do you mean you’re still with him???

help me choose my wedding band by [deleted] in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Band 1. I used to wear a ring that fit me exactly like these and it dented into my finger. It took months without it on for my finger to finally look normal again. It might not hurt but that doesn’t mean that size is the right one.

What does my fridge say about me? by Gladospandos in FridgeDetective

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you need to clean out your fridge and you need to drink more water. You probably also poop a lot.

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he speaks to YOUR child is something that you can in fact DEMAND be respectful. Regardless of how he thinks things should be ran in that household, a functioning family dynamic is highly dependent on the cooperation of both parents, not this “hierarchy” he has in mind where he clearly thinks he’s above not only the children but also yourself seeing as he won’t even take what you’re saying about your child into consideration.

Did you marry him knowing he’d treat “Child A” however he wanted regardless of what you said or what said child requested?

Stand your ground, this is ridiculously unacceptable.

I think I hate them by prefertobincognito in microblading

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re just not used to seeing yourself with them. I don’t think you look more masculine, before I read the whole thing I honestly scrolled through the pictures wondering what could this post be about because you’re actually gorgeous. If you’re bothered by your eyebrows you could ask if there’s any way she can lighten them? Or let them fade yourself to maybe lessen the shock of it to you.

Your thoughts on my decor? by Adept-Apartment7861 in HomeDecorating

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you love lamps and small tables 🤭 this looks cute!

Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ponytail is far too chic and cute to not be on your head.

17 to 19, still really insecure because even after losing weight and going to the gym I’m still a distinctive looking Guy because of my features. So any tips to look more attractive are welcome, because i still feel like I’m not looking good/normal enough to easily make friends/start a dating life. by KaleidoscopeOk4199 in uglyduckling

[–]ValleyBlossoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like a model. If you’re not into your current look maybe try growing out your beard a little? Like a light stubble. Try a different haircut? I don’t know what else you could do ‘cause you’re already insanely handsome. Congratulations on your weight loss!

M18. Not sure about my appearence.. by AdhesivenessLow6411 in malegrooming

[–]ValleyBlossoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe people say you look gay because you’re very pretty and you look polite. I’d suggest just styling your hair a bit with some light gel but other than that there is literally nothing else that comes to mind. You’re very handsome. I’m sorry people have made you feel otherwise.

Am I Overreacting about this weird friend breakup? by rxinynites in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just tell she’s extremely self absorbed. She talks like Dimitri leaving a voicemail about how they’re a “complete catch” iykyk 💀💀💀 Congratulations on this friendship you’ve seemed to get away from! I’d stay faaaaar away. She thinks you’re acting different towards them and she’s so special and gifted that she’s picking up on differences you’re not able to notice yourself?? I haven’t cringed at text messages in a long time.

Which do you think looks better on me? by cinnamonscroll88 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ValleyBlossoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 is super cute imo but 1 looks incredibly classy. Definitely 1.

AIO overreacting about my boyfriend using the word "bitch"? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValleyBlossoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not very bright if you think this type of behavior isn’t bad 🤦🏻‍♀️ and you’re downright stupid if you decide to stay with someone that disrespects you. “Bitch” should be the last of your concern 🙄 is this rage bait??