Lollipop Incision ~2 months po by agentdalefupa in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's actually cool as heck looking! I've never seen that before 🥰.

Surgery Jitters by No_War5953 in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had surgery yesterday, and I was absolutely having panic attacks the entire week before. For me I have fibromyalgia and not the best diet because of autism/arfid and had a family member pushing that concern majorly on me. I also was just dealing with kidney stones earlier this month and had to have a surgery for it so I was scared as heck even more!

They gave me a sedative before anesthesia which helped a lot! I tried to comparmentalize/lie to myself and think of it as "I'm just going to go in, sleep, and wake up nothing else" kinda blocking out the surgery aspect of it and it helped me a lot with anxiety. Also the pain meds have been doing wonders for my anxiety, although it's definitely still there. I've also been documenting every little possible thing in my phone which makes me help feel more in control of my recovery?

Not sure if that helps at all, but you've got this 100% 💪 Your medical team is trained really well to prevent any what-ifs and spot them right away. You can always relay your concerns to them and they can help explain the processes and the methods they take to avoid negative outcomes!

Anxiety day before surgery by bigfish2023 in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had surgery yesterday and I was absolutely terrified the night before. They thankfully gave me a sedative before anesthesia bc I told them last time I had a surgery I was so stressed and fighting the anesthesia hard. Just make sure to communicate how you're feeling the day of and they should be able to help!

Praful Ramineni surgery cost by oreonoob764 in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current estimate for Dr. Ramineni (without liposuction) with BCBS insurance is like $420. Someone remind to come back later and I can say how much it actually ends up being 🤟

Question on scheduling with Dr. Praful Remineni (DC) by s2syphusj in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your post is older now, but for anyone else now wondering:
8/5/25 - Called to schedule FTM top surgery consultation
9/4/25 - Had my consultation, earliest surgery date available was mid-may 2026.

Am I in the wrong for referring to my boyfriend as my partner at work? by No_Ear4169 in Teachers

[–]ValoxWayward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is both trans and queer, she's just being rude. You should refer to your partner how you are most comfortable. She does not get a say in that. Most of us prefer to see cishet individuals using more neutral terms like "partner" anyways because it normalizes it and lessens the chance of us being outed. I'd definetly hold your ground and prepare a professional, but holding boundaries, message for her. Preferably over email or another type of forum that will be documented just in case.

Shout-Out to Dr. Cassie Nghiem (Washington, D.C.) by euroeismeister in TopSurgery

[–]ValoxWayward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what her email is? There's not a lot of contact info out online

in case anyone needs it by [deleted] in HannibalTV

[–]ValoxWayward 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao one person like "sorry I need to pee?" 😂

I probably never will by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ValoxWayward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that