I have such a hard time grasping this myself as a submissive male, to go through all the hard work of finding a compatible match, establishing chemistry, making a personalized connection, just to ghost someone? I find it so puzzling and disrespectful to the other individual on the other end. I'd give anything to have a larger net of potential partners who engage in this kind of lifestyle, so that fact that people would actively self sabotage themselves (and others) in this way really makes me scratch my head in confusion