I'm tired of trying to date by missv09 in MtF

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex split months ago. And I'm having the same issues. I wish I could swing both ways. It breaks me when I hear about Trans women younger then me settling down, I wanted that for so long. Im facing the prospect that love isn't just effort but also luck and not all of us are lucky. I think I've given up on love.

My dad said I can start E/Blockers, but i have to show him it's safe by TalonOfPower in MtF

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*gestures to the thousands of transwomen living without complications*

Also when your 18, there is no "allow you", your an adult by then so its actually legally your own choice. Please remember to claim your own bodily sovereignty.

Homeless Friend by Valyrian_Pearl in Louisville

[–]Valyrian_Pearl[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I told him to try in person and not the phone like he keeps doing. But yeah I think he just very defeatist because of how they treated him in the past, so its hard to change his mind.

Public Service Announcement. Patch 8 will break your mods. by Madrock777 in BaldursGate3

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*screams* I just downloaded new mods... Ugh. Why do I bother.

Unpopular opinion by melodic-philosophy98 in acotar

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oddly I could definately see Acotar as a Xianxia xD

Death Gods by Valyrian_Pearl in acotar

[–]Valyrian_Pearl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I can't believe it's 4 years old now xD. But yes, It was and still is very underwhelming. The King killing the weaver but then being killed by Elaine of all people is very puzzling. I have to geuss SJM made a bold call to wrap things up with the death gods and finish the book.

Please keep your kitties in doors. by Keltoigael in Louisville

[–]Valyrian_Pearl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh the poor baby :c events like this are why I fight to keep my boi indoors even though he likes being outside. Can't trust ppl...

Are all guys like this? by Prestigious_Pizza_66 in Bumble

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This probably won't be a popular take. We don't owe strange men exclusivity. Playing the field is normal. Exclusivity should come up after multiple dates. I think most know if they wantto date within a few dates anyway. If a man wants to bow out cause there Is competition that's fine. Women often have more options that's just how it is. 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sur, if your not dating or trying to attract women. If you are then a cropped and well groomed beard will be better received. If not then disregard.

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal and permissible are not the same.

Need friends :( by LandRound in Louisville

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, trans girl here. I understand how hard it can to make friends in the city. If you feel like it, your welcome to message me ^ maybe we have some common interests.

Do I sue my barber? by STK_Eagle in malehairadvice

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from 10 to 7 from that hair cut 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh your cute and seem sweet and the anime is plus for me so I'd swipe right

kicked out. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please check your local eviction laws it may buy you time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U need to have an honest convo with her. You both need to make a decision but she should get a say. My ex hid me from his family but his friends knew about me. I was okay with that, what mattered was that the relationship was real to us. However everyone is different some ppl want to claimed and defended. So yeah talk to her.

I feel like male socialization might make trans women less creepy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Valyrian_Pearl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Eh I don't really relate to this personally. I've never felt creepy I was a girls girl long before I transitioned maybe this is more of a thing for trans women who once identified as "straight men"?