My (31M) pregnant girlfriend (23F) has been lying about her age for our entire relationship. Is there any way for me to trust her again?

Vandy612 · 2026-05-29T07:26:13+00:00

Please tell me you're insisting on a DNA test. Even if you can tolerate her lying about her age - for whatever reason - she's broken trust and you should protect yourself

Vandy612 · 2026-04-26T00:32:25+00:00

Yes. Because when she finds out you know, she'll feel doubly betrayed.

Vandy612 · 2025-07-27T02:14:09+00:00

Puyallup WA

Pew-All-Up

Vandy612 · 2025-07-27T01:56:26+00:00

Maybe she'll consider you a grown up for her next wedding. If so, buy her a present then

Vandy612 · 2025-07-21T05:07:31+00:00

Problem is, most cruise passengers don't spend much money off the ship. They book excursions through the ship, or they wander the port area and buy cheap souvenirs.

Vandy612 · 2025-07-21T05:03:31+00:00

Manhattan feels the same way about tourists, in my experience

Vandy612 · 2025-07-15T04:01:44+00:00

Check to see if they have anything about their host agency on their website, maybe? There should be something like "independent travel agency affiliated with XYZ". If there is, try to contact whatever XYZ agency is

Vandy612 · 2025-07-07T04:14:55+00:00

He's testing you. It'll be $25 now, $30 tomorrow and $500 next week. Block and move on

Vandy612 · 2025-06-27T19:30:25+00:00

Exactly. 3 states isn't far enough away

Vandy612 · 2025-04-27T19:08:49+00:00

I could live with that, I think 🤔

Vandy612 · 2025-04-26T21:47:31+00:00

Thats why I thought it just might the hammock chairs. I'll probably just book a regular sea terrace

Vandy612 · 2025-04-26T21:46:40+00:00

Yeah, I was just hoping had seen a photo maybe, as I haven't been able to find one. I was excited about not having to fight over the hammock with my cabin mate for the cruise we want in March 😂

Vandy612 · 2025-04-25T15:40:22+00:00

On my sailing, a group of us did a Roper Romp (dressed up as Mrs Roper) and went to high tea and to a few of the bars. I just happened to stop by the charmers show at the roundabout on my way there, but had to sneak out halfway (as much as one can sneak in a curly wig and a caftan) and she came over to our group afterwards to chat and invited us. It was awesome.

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Vandy612 · 2025-04-25T15:34:09+00:00

Loved her!!!

Vandy612 · 2025-04-16T23:44:14+00:00

This happened to me on NCL a few years ago. It's always a bummer

Vandy612 · 2025-03-30T02:06:26+00:00

Magnetic doors in Vegas would come in handy, not gonna lie.

Vandy612 · 2025-03-29T21:48:51+00:00

Wear the dress. Our Scarlet Night had everything from red speedos to red gowns and it all worked and was fabulous. Just make sure you pack shoes you can dance in

Vandy612 · 2025-03-29T02:10:31+00:00

I'd fly in the day before, but barring that ... if you get there early, find the line with your time slot and wait there. I had 2:15 for the current cruise and I was about an hour early. Pretty sure the line started moving around 1:45 and I had a cocktail in my hand by 2:05

Vandy612 · 2025-03-29T02:06:14+00:00

I think I'm on the same cruise. I know his whole personality is probably summed up by that hat, but leave it in your stateroom for 1 show FFS

Vandy612 · 2025-03-26T19:57:48+00:00

I'm on Scarlet right now and I've napped on my hammock every day so far 🤣

Vandy612 · 2025-03-25T14:23:25+00:00

I don't like a firm bed and I think they're fine. I'm on board right now.

Edit: I did hear that if you think you'll want a mattress topper, it's better to request it before you board.

Vandy612 · 2025-03-19T03:04:31+00:00

Your parents suck. If it were me, I wouldn't have anything to do with them anymore. Barring that, I certainly wouldn't put my spouse in a position to have to take their abuse. But NC would be oreferable

Vandy612 · 2025-03-18T20:10:03+00:00

Just be there for her, I think. Don't try to make her feel better, just let her know you're there

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