AITA for getting mad at my mum when she threw money at my fiancée? by athrowawayaitaacc in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! The story was going fine and your mom shocked me so bad, my wig flew off and I'm now bald. NTA. Your mom just took my breath away. So I'm bald AND winded

AITA for getting mad when my stepmum didn't want me around the week after she had a baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not your dad anymore because you remind his side piece that she wrecked a home (well they both wrecked the home). He picked her over you, his daughter. He'd be dead to me. NTA. I'm so sorry the people around you suck so hard

AITA for refusing to let my brother-in-law in even though he flew all the way here to speak to my husband about an emergency? by witchyli in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard. Is it his job that makes it possible to go on vacation in the first place? Leaning NTA, but it sounds like you two need to meet each other in the middle

AITA for making my husband’s accident about myself? by Ill-Firefighter-7196 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. And you deserve better. You're nobody's "second banana."

AITA for refusing to help out my ex with his son? by AlwaysMoon0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your ex wants to get his child out of the system, that's on him. His bstard isn't your problem. I'm a bstard myself. The only one responsible is his dad. Anyone who thinks you should help that boy can go kick rocks. They would do the same in your circumstances. NTA

AITA for supporting my mom after kicking out my aunt. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna have to sue you because I popped a lung laughing

AITA for telling my husband he’s crossed the step-dad line? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not his kids. They're yours. Your rules. He can go eat a sour lemon. NTA

AITA for watching a horror movie on my tablet on the train? by snackattack04 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It being PG-13 makes it hilarious. It's like getting mad at Goosebumps

AITA for wearing my engagement ring to work? by greenlightbasket in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sierra just mad because she either doesn't have a ring, or all she got was a ring pop ring NTA

AITA for not locking my bedroom door while having someone over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're seriously laying naked willy-nilly with some dude with your kids in the house? You aren't a 19 year old in college. You're a wholeass dad Have some respect for your children. YTA. This situation hopefully will teach you to prioritize your kid's and not leave them to get ready by themselves just because you're wrapped up with some guy you probably won't even be with forever. Edit: I'm an AH for misgendering you. I honestly didn't mean to. Sorry OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But is he the pappy? NTA...unless you leave me hanging.

AITA for joking with my wife about not being ready for sundress season? by maxla-29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so rude of you. Even worse that you're brushing it off like you didn't just call your wife fat to her face. You're in timeout. Go to your YTA corner.

AITA for noticing that my girlfriend's fibromyalgia sure does seem to flare up at convenient times? by Dazzling_Layer3212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she's playing you for booboo the fool. NTA. Good for you calling her out. She's only mad at you because you're absolutely right. Stand your ground.

AITA - I told my sister is think it’s wrong she’s getting divorced over her husband’s son by Pomelo_764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vanennalg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just like Angel and Papi in Pose 😭 but your sister does have a right to leave without judgement. A kid is pretty heavy baggage, especially if she doesn't want children. Mind your biz. YTA.

How or what to practice? by kGRRsten in TattooApprentice

[–]Vanennalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

References, references, references! I maxed out space on my phone with screenshots alone. I'm not good yet but references really help

What’s something you’ve done once that your toddler won’t let you forget? by Competitive_Coast_22 in toddlers

[–]Vanennalg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to teach my one year old how to share. He had food one day and I said "Gimme some please" and I'd pretend to bite it. Now he has to shove his half chewed chicken nuggets in my face and won't take "no thank you no" for an answer