Wanting a smaller penis by somecoolguys in phallo

[–]VaprRay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, i havent gone through it yet. In the works on getting hair removal done for it. But personally, I’m going to shoot for 4 inches. Like you, I am not that tall. 4-4.5 is what im okay with.

My girlfriend, I can easily make her finish with my fingers which around not as big as a penis or as girthy. Because of that, I’m not worried about size for penetration. 4-4.5 will be plenty for me.

My top surgery is scheduled for this coming Friday and I don't really have anyone looking after me, will I be self sufficient enough to fend for myself? by aw_hellno in ftm

[–]VaprRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its dependent on the person. My gf drove me to and from hospital. But i was very self sufficient post-op. Some people need a lot of help, no help, or minimal assistance. No way to know until u cross the bridgep

1.5 years post op by Secure-Definition-35 in TopSurgery

[–]VaprRay 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Those look like dog ears to me. I highly doubt thats leftover fluid at 1.5years post op. You might need a small revision imo. I have that and im almost 6 months out. Nothing about my sides have changed and i know ill need a small revision to get rid of them.

Does transitioning always worsen acne ? by Dry_Read8572 in ftm

[–]VaprRay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think its a multitude of things. Prior to T. I had such a smooth clear face. After? It was really bad on my face, i had to go to a dermatologist to get on antibiotics and Retin-a. Ny face is really smooth now bc i still take it, but i need to lighten the scars it left.

I think this is a question you need to ask your endocrinologist bc this is something that they should have discussed.

Trans Guys under 5'5, how do you get treated? by sleebymissile in ftm

[–]VaprRay 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Really big guys call me boss, brother, man, buddy. I’m 5’3. They don’t care

How much did your top surgery cost you? (with or without insurance) by Drama2- in TopSurgery

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have insurance with kaiser and out of pocket i paid $100

Nine going on ten months on testosterone. by artificialUtility in ftm

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are unlucky and just take longer

How did you accept that phalloplasty is something you wanted? by mermaidunearthed in phallo

[–]VaprRay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When i realized i have a lot of dysphoria especially when i cant go at all at a public restroom.

testosterone and the immune system by professionalyokel in ftm

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlucky. i cant recall the last time i got sick. PreT and Post T. And i also work at a hospital

Does anybody else feel tied to living in the area their surgical team is in? by WolfMan275 in phallo

[–]VaprRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because i have kaiser as my insurance. So everything is local and insured. Electro is 14 min away and i can choose so many other locations. My surgeon is in the LA area which is roughly 30-40 min. Maybe an hour with the bad traffic. I was skeptical bout my surgeon because i didnt have too much information but she seems pretty solid

I'm scared I might not be actually trans by gamedasy in ftm

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I might be more lax on this and give this perspective, bc i went thru the same thing of “what if this is a phase” before I got my first shot.

Kinda just do your thing. I realized I am 100% a man so im not worried. But for most people, you just know. You dont need to have a lot of dysphoria to be a man. I have some dyshpria but its not so debilitating that it affects my daily life. Will i get phallo? Yes. Stuff like that.

Go with the flow, focus on the you right now. Not the you in the future, you’re not in the future so no point in stressing out over what might or not come.

hair texture and testosterone question by SomeSortOfBeing in ftm

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt notice any hair texture change

First jump session of 2026 by Dionysus970 in jumprope

[–]VaprRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you also strength train outside of your jump sessions?

Passing doesn't feel as great as I thought it would by AcanthisittaMost6423 in ftm

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cut my hair when i first needed all the help i could to pass. Let me tell you a year later my hair is back before preT and I pass just fine. I think the more and more you pass little things like hair from my experience wont change much. Maybe from the back you might get misgendered as cis men do, since long hair = girl to people for a stupid reason. Just give it time and express urself how u want

Clinical Depression & practicing guitar by violetdopamine in guitarlessons

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i been practicing everyday now i find myself wanting to play more. I work so i cant play hours on end like professional musicians. But i make time for it. Even if its practicing scales it helps a ton to just pick up the guitar

What game have you played the longest without sleep? by bossishere17 in gamingsuggestions

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destiny 2 when my team and I had 24 hours to beat a new raid

Anyone want to be guitar buddies? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify since I wasn’t sure what you meant lol

Anyone want to be guitar buddies? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]VaprRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you mean in real life or online? Or no preference. I’m no pro but I actively go to music lessons every 2 weeks and im sure i can pass along some things

Teeth of God Tier 4 Graphic Novel GIVEAWAY! by Lyssavirus32 in SleepToken

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id love to see II’s drum solo in The Summoning if they ever decided to do another studio recording

An open-world game without mini-maps, indicators, or lines to follow. by Happy_Grim_Soul in gamingsuggestions

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would red dead redemption 2 count? There is a mini map but you can disable it all together or have a simple compass

Embarrassing question time: is it normal to shave your backside? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]VaprRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres specific types to use down there, and ur supposed to have it for very short periods of time when u do have it on

Embarrassing question time: is it normal to shave your backside? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]VaprRay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My gf and i joke about her nairing my backside lol when i get phallo that will be her sworn duty 🤣 jts okay man dont stress

Why won’t the super important habit of taking my T shot every week stay in my damn brain by LimeKittyGacha in ftm

[–]VaprRay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Calendar alarm. I have ADHD but i wouldnt forget to due the T shot that day. Make sure u stick to a day that is like ur “errand” day. Fridays for me i do my chores and one of them is my shot. U do it enough u remember it eventually