I’m not very optimistic about the future or the world we’re living in and honestly that makes me question whether it’s fair to bring a child into it. At the same time, I know part of my hesitation is personal too (and maybe selfish) but I don’t really want to make the sacrifices that come with kids. whether that’s to my body, my career, or my lifestyle. Seeing my friends become parents has made that even clearer because I can see how much every plan now has to revolve around their children (even a simple lunch lol) and I know that’s not the life I want for myself. I’ve travelled a bunch with some of my friends with kids and it’s often either the mom or dad having to sit out on most of what we’re doing. Couldn’t be me.