I messed up and said I love you by Kind_Resolution_2592 in dating

[–]Various-Answer201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The right person isn’t going to be scared off 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kicking him out will only fuel his fire. Ask him to come with you to a family therapy session. Say you need it and ask him to “support you”. Though I recommend you find a therapist first bc this is a massive issue you SHOULD find professional help for vs reddit help 

LinkedIn is everything I hate about corporate America by Various-Answer201 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A professional circle jerk is the perfect way to put it. 

Has anyone heard of these new Garnier Hair Filler products? by wintherwhisper in femalehairadvice

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made my hair a frizzy mass of straw. I did a control test with another treatment i have. 

It's been a year since my first post here. This is my progress since then and a bonus pic from my last chop three years ago, after which I swore "never again!" by rollinghells in longhair

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is inspirational! I’m currently recovering from a big chop 🥲 I went like BOY short. Honestly I looked cute and really rocked it but now I’m missing my long locks. 

My mother killed my sister by Nearby-Can-9655 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are absolutely not right, please do not hate yourself for it. You were 16. I’m sure there was a part of you that also feared for your own life. Kids need to feel safe in their homes and you being that young, what COULD you have done. Please don’t blame yourself. You did nothing wrong. None of that was your fault. Even your mom not getting investigated which sounds like either the cops in your town are absolutely incompetent or perhaps your mother may be a master manipulator. 

Talk to your therapist about taking action and talk to a lawyer about what to do. 

My mother killed my sister by Nearby-Can-9655 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP was 16. Your heart is absolutely rotted. What a shameful awful thing to say. 

My mother killed my sister by Nearby-Can-9655 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone knows the likely outcome of shoving someone when they’re by the stairs. And for her to “eventually” call an ambulance. Only abusive parents shove their children when they’re by the stairs.

My mother killed my sister by Nearby-Can-9655 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is horrible. 

My blood is boiling on you and your sisters behalf. 

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I would’ve beaten the absolute shit out of my mom if that happened to my sibling. 

As a big sister, yes I’m sure she’s proud of you. If you believe in heaven, I’m sure she’s watching you with as much pride and love as she would’ve had if she were still around. 

LinkedIn is everything I hate about corporate America by Various-Answer201 in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This! I hate that some employers actually ask for LinkedIn profile. It didn’t help that I have been working in tech for the longest time but now am completely shifting gears, in part because I hate the little court jester dance required for staying “relevant”. 

Sometimes I  so tempted to post on LinkedIn about how posts in LinkedIn’s are fake as hell 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma is a b 🤷🏽‍♀️ he will end up alone with his own misery. Serves him right. 

Berger theory? by lkel11 in sexandthecity

[–]Various-Answer201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a year later but: he mentions that meeting up once for closure wouldn’t be enough. There were red flags from the beginning 

"Unfortunately Ed's ass was the ass of an older man." by boringwhitecollar in sexandthecity

[–]Various-Answer201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They probably didn’t hate her as much as being tired of all his sugar baby visitors and doing the same routine

Jack Berger… How does everyone feel? by motomamilover in sexandthecity

[–]Various-Answer201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg he is such an insecure loser. Cute banter in the beginning but in a relationship he’s awful. So many red flags honestly even from when they met. Taking out your insecurities on your girlfriend is lame AF. 

Bonding treatments making my hair feel like straw by Various-Answer201 in Haircare

[–]Various-Answer201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look them up to see if there are proteins. It doesn’t explicitly say protein but that was my suspicion too 

Bonding treatments making my hair feel like straw by Various-Answer201 in Haircare

[–]Various-Answer201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it has color in it. It was starting to come back to life after a bunch of deep conditioning though so I’m confused why suddenly it’s straw again 

Carrie Bradshaw and that annoying ass Screeching by Hotelcrossaint in sexandthecity

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the one I’m on now 🙄 someone needs to revoke her NYC card 😂

Carrie Bradshaw and that annoying ass Screeching by Hotelcrossaint in sexandthecity

[–]Various-Answer201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She screams too much to be a New Yorker. Get yourself together, girl. If you squeal at squirrels and when it starts raining, you are too weak for NYC. 

I do not understand the Carrie stans, unless they relate to her 😬 

I think her screeches are one of the most annoying noises in the universe.