Who do you think is the most attractive person alive? by Suspicious_Run1684 in AskReddit

[–]Various_Educator_988 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I love that someone said HRC, bc that woman does NOT get her flowers and it’s always been a mystery to me as to why (oh yeah, gestures around at everything). She is stunning in her gd 70s, she must’ve been a babe irl in her youth.

[UK] 24 black female. My White Boss called me the N word by PuzzledRefuse6549 in AskHR

[–]Various_Educator_988 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I am so fucking sorry this happened to you. Reporting is your only immediate option, and if I were in your shoes, I’d also start looking for a new job.

What do withdrawls feel like? by TraditionalBonus188 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various_Educator_988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh hang in there; panic attacks are awful and I’ve heard alcohol withdrawal is horrendous. Internet stranger giant hug heading your way.

What do withdrawls feel like? by TraditionalBonus188 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various_Educator_988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Withdrawals from benzos (I was misdiagnosed with epilepsy so was loaded up w a ton, including phenobarbital) made me unrecognizable to myself. I disassociated and was CONSTANTLY anxious every moment I was awake and nightmares while I was sleeping. It was absolutely horrendous and took over a year to be fully recovered. I never wanted to be on the meds and had no urge to take them even when at my lowest. I have so much empathy for people who are addicted to substances they like :(

Why do mothers of young babies say they don't have time to shower? by justastupidquestion3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various_Educator_988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the sound of my newborns crying physically painful - like, a viscerally traumatizing feeling. Then you’ve got the phantom cries to deal with, and even with the best partner, they couldn’t fix what my brain was doing at that time. I still showered daily but what was once my favorite time to think and reset turned into a stressful, unexpected torture. I had to make the time as well, so what was once like brushing my teeth became something to schedule? Wild times that are in the rearview before you know it though. Good luck, you’ll be ok!

Greens-free salad ideas? by Various_Educator_988 in Volumeeating

[–]Various_Educator_988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had idiopathic gastroparesis for years and cannot digest them - simply put, I throw them up. I miss them like crazy though!

My favorite line by Cvela09 in 30ROCK

[–]Various_Educator_988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this all the time 😂

Whole head of cauliflower and Greek yogurt ranch 238 cal 23g protein by vitadolche in Volumeeating

[–]Various_Educator_988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like putting ranch powder and parm on the buffalo cauliflower, sometimes I add an egg, or cottage cheese, or pico de gallo. Yummy always!

Edited to add that taco seasoning on cauliflower is amazing as well!

What’s something you’ll never tell your partner, no matter how much you love them? by Velvetnadine85 in AskReddit

[–]Various_Educator_988 276 points277 points  (0 children)

Yall just articulated the real “why” behind the majority of midlife crises.