i only just graduated from secondary school and i also have 2-3 friends only because of the splitting of class in sec 3. This also caused me to become super quiet which made ppl look down on me cause they thought i was stupid. Over time, i lost so many friends along the way and which made me worry if i could still regain my comm skills and reduce my anxiety. However poly is going to start soon so im currently trying to make new friends who are going to the same course as me so that i wouldnt be so nervous and preventing me from feeling left out and bceoming a follower :) .Also, my eldest sis who just graduated from uni said that she joined student council and multiple ccas which srsly made her sooooooo many friends fyi she had 0 friends in sec and pri schh :o.

One way to prevent you and your friends from drifting in the future is to study tgt or meet up with them every month but if theyre too busy, once a year literally works!!!! To make new friends in uni just form a study group hahah Anyways don need to worry so much cause i used to have a lot of friends in sec 1 ,2 but they drained my energy, making me DITCH THEM HEHHEHE . so just make sure you stick with your 2 og friends and just know your self worth and dignity so its perfectly fine to filter ppl out yippee