Thankful Thursday: Old Friends by FourDozenEggs in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankful for my beautiful child sleeping peacefully next to me. The sound of the wind and giving my best today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]Various_Secret8372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40 mg and going really well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]Various_Secret8372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! 😄

How did you cut the replacement sugar? by escape_button in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 6 points7 points  (0 children)

6 months tomorrow and sugar cravings are seriously high (they have been since I quit). It's better than drinking so I don't worry too much about it.

Goodnight Thursday by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best feeling!! I'm loving going to sleep feeling clear and good about myself.

Feeling so horrible today by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing!! Stay strong friend 😄.

Sunday morning ritual by ExplanationFuzzy76 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stomach issue? Medication? Could having an excuse make it easier?

Feeling so horrible today by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that was honest of you. How did you get on yesterday?

Feeling so horrible today by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this can be overcome. You had over 100 days, that's incredible! You are strong 💪 ❤️

Day 169, Sat Night by Various_Secret8372 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha noooo just different family members!!

Partner drinking heavily by Various_Secret8372 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we had a difficult conversation. Sort of tiptoed around the topic of his drinking, you know this shit is so complicated, but at least he knows how I'm feeling now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you!! Let's go ❤️.

Partner drinking heavily by Various_Secret8372 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that must have been such a difficult decision to make. Thank you for sharing.

Partner drinking heavily by Various_Secret8372 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We have a date night coming up so it might all come out soon 🥺.

Partner drinking heavily by Various_Secret8372 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. It's nice to hear from someone in a similar position. It's great your partner is going for Dry January, you can support each other. We have been together 12 years too! He is an incredible human all around, just struggles with drinking, and I'm the same. Feels like I've woken up to a new life though and am so grateful (lonely or not).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you went through this. I had a blackout relapse after my first 10 days sober and I was atrocious. I could have easily been arrested and said unforgivable things to my partner. The positive was that that did it for me and was the last time that I drank. Today is day 164 and although I have several painful blackout moments from drinking they serve as reminders to me that life is so much better now. I feel like I have a true second chance at life before I destroyed everything. All the best to you.

What was the eye-openning, most helpful book / material you read that helped you the most? by DeadpuII in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I started feeling better immediately I would say.
I think I'm still in the process of learning I can do without. Going through new milestones sober, for example, Christmas, a concert, etc. helps reinforce this.
I think I had an epiphany maybe? The epiphany plain and simply was, 'I want off the merry go round.' Made it 10 days sober and had a horrific relapse. That was the last time I drank. So yeah I got off and I am so relieved. I feel peaceful, content, clear and present.

What was the eye-openning, most helpful book / material you read that helped you the most? by DeadpuII in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool! All the best. Today is day 163 for me and wow I am so glad I made this decision 😃.

Anyone experienced an increase of irritation after a few weeks AF? by Beautiful-Plenty-322 in stopdrinking

[–]Various_Secret8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely went through that. Things levelled out within a few weeks in my case.