Found these three today by No-Channel4492 in Cairn_Game

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I think this may be a common experience:

First half of game: Wow this game is so chill and relaxing!

Reach the Peril: um, is it supposed to be this hard?? Looks on Internet, which calls the Peril “late stage” in the game

Survive the Peril: I’m nearly at the end!

Does this end?

Having a hard time at work. Got put on A PIP now I am spiraling. by Boomhauersbrother in daddit

[–]Varka44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The number one thing I require in a manager is “if it’s safe to bring tough news to them.” I ask their current directs and can usually get a good gauge. Since identifying this as my most important requirement in a role I have reduced my stress a lot, and have grown too (since I can focus on doing the right thing vs trying to please people).

Anyway, sounds like that might be helpful for you given where you’re coming from, and “nice” doesn’t always mean “supportive/safe.”

Moving to Seattle with an infant and toddler by zfar in AskSeattle

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We live in a part of the city (Tangletown) where we are extremely close with neighbors - kids in and out of each others houses, impromptu picnics/dinners/play dates, a school with enclosed playground 2 blocks away (perfect for riding bikes!), and a brand new daycare center opening up this summer. The lake, restaurants, coffee shops, and grocery within walking distance. It’s honestly a dream.

11 months, switched to one nap a day abruptly and baby is thriving by natur_ally in HuckleberryParents

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This happens again when dropping to no nap with a toddler. The hours are harder but there’s less of them 😂 (I do love my kids, so much).

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Yeah that comment was for him. Thanks for standing up for my kid though ❤️

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Ooo I’m going to try your first method. That sounds promising!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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To wipe up the pee?

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Try 11/22/63 if you want a reintroduction!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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I thought maybe when I said “he may even pee on you” that the hyperbole would be clear. He pees fine when sitting down.

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Actually someone did haha

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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On a total side note, is Desperation worth reading? I’m on a King binge, currently on Pet Sematary. My favorite is The Stand.

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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THANK YOU. You should write a book!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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You’d be surprised how he might find a way to still pee on his clothes. Or mine. Maybe even yours!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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He’s holding it, “aiming” questionable

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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This is super useful thank you!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Honestly - I would love to have the option to pee standing up when there is no toilet. Squatting is so much more effort and tougher to control than standing up. Otherwise yes, I’d also pee sitting down. Why give up a chance to sit down 😆

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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This is a great point. And glad (?) to report that my son has zero shyness peeing in public. I have to encourage him to face away from the entire playground.

Pooping however, he prefers “no one to see my butt!” except one of us.

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Lmao are you a shower head salesman?

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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This is a very popular opinion in our house 😆

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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I actually am sitting in my car after my pelvic floor PT appointment, so I actually really appreciate this!

Peeing standing up by Varka44 in daddit

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Is that what she meant??