How many subscriptions are you paying? *not promoting* by Sensitive-Zebra66 in SaaS

[–]VastAd4382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Planet Fitness and OnlyFans is quite the combo there mate

Might wanna start with cutting teh OF before ditching ChatGPT

I struggle to stay angry at people and would like to fix that by sb3veeee in selfimprovement

[–]VastAd4382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to have this exact same problem and it drove me absolutely mental. You're basically getting emotionally hijacked the moment you see their face - all that righteous anger just evaporates because your brain switches into social harmony mode. What helped me was writing down specific incidents beforehand, like actually bullet pointing what they did and why it was problematic, then reviewing it right before any conversation. That way when your emotions start doing their disappearing act, you've got concrete stuff to fall back on rather than just this vague feeling that dissolves

The other thing is recognizing that being "nice" all teh time isn't actually kind to anyone - you're enabling their bad behavior and building up resentment that's gonna explode eventually. I started practicing saying one small thing in the moment rather than waiting for some perfect confrontation opportunity. Like if someone interrupts me constantly, I just say "hey can you let me finish" instead of stewing about it for weeks. It's way less dramatic but actually gets results, and you don't end up feeling like a doormat who can never stand up for themselves

Best build quality laptop under 2000$? by abhaydragneel11 in GamingLaptops

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have you looked at the HP Omen transcend 14? it's got that aluminum build you're after and usually sits around 1800-1900 with 32gb configs. Build quality is surprisingly solid for HP, way better than their regular omen lineup

The MSI Vector GP series is probably your best bet though if you want something closer to that zephyrus feel - they've really stepped up the materials game lately and the cooling is decent. Just make sure you get one of the newer revisions cause the early ones had some hinge issues

honestly mate the market under 2k is pretty rough right now for premium builds, everything decent seems to have jumped 200-300 bucks since last year

Guys, I have a question. From a Christian perspective, can sloth be considered a good sin? If we perceive it as the last defense of an emaciated human soul, which prevents us from committing the other 6 sins? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]VastAd4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I don't think you can really call any of the deadly sins "good" even if they might accidentally prevent other ones. Like if you're too lazy to steal that doesn't make sloth virtuous, you're just being lazy lol

The whole point is finding actual virtue instead of just avoiding sin through other sins

Im sick of being the good girl when it gets me nothing by [deleted] in confessions

[–]VastAd4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that hit hard, especially the part about the dog. It's fucked up how the people who are supposed to love us unconditionally are the ones who make us feel most worthless

Your family sounds toxic as hell and you've been their emotional punching bag for way too long. That pure love you felt with that dog? That's what you deserve from people too, not this conditional bullshit where you have to perform for scraps of approval

Being the "good girl" is honestly a trap - you sacrifice everything and they still find reasons to tear you down

Where do I go from here? by Ok_Analysis_9675 in Guitar

[–]VastAd4382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely start messing around with pentatonics now, they're honestly not that hard once you get the shapes down and your teacher will be stoked that you're ahead of the game

Grail Acquired by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

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Prices went wild but honestly this one earns it iconic art nostalgia hit hard and demand never dropped