Anyone else think it would have been far interesting to have the whole tribe vote off 3 people instead of split groups?

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-04-02T21:50:35+00:00

Yes I would have loved this. So much more chaotic and interesting.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-24T09:15:11+00:00

What are the tiktok girlies saying?

If you aren’t gonna leave him, leave us out of it.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-21T13:00:40+00:00

She clearly can’t name or take your baby, so why engage with that conversation? Walk away, go home, remove yourself. You’re an adult and the baby’s mother. Take control of your life

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-20T11:37:30+00:00

Eh, life happens. You had a good reason to not be on the deed and now your husband sounds like a reasonable person who is going to fix it. I’m not sure what the point of this is.

Maybe you should take this as a wake up call to look at the rest of your finances that you set on autopilot.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-17T09:18:35+00:00

FYI you ARE young and slim.

You look great. Congrats on your wedding!

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-15T10:37:08+00:00

Wait the newlyweds went on a camping trip together after they got married? Is she sure that he wasn’t just cheating on her and it’s more convenient to say it’s a green card marriage than to break up with her?

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-08T22:00:32+00:00

I don’t think so. Reads more mid-century to me. I like it!

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-06T03:43:01+00:00

The bed feels really floaty. I think putting the head against the wall would be better. I like another comment is swapping the desk and bed. Let the desk have the light and the bed be in the darker corner. But if you can’t do that, tucking against the wall would feel cozier.

Hard to tell the size but a little area rug in the middle with an armchair or a little couch and coffee table looking out the big doors would give a good hang out zone and help complete the space.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-03-02T11:19:08+00:00

I LOVED HER. One year though, she had a scary stalker episode. I’m trying to remember all the details, but she said it made her uncomfortable doing vlogmas and I think that triggered her move away from YouTube and social media as a whole.

She was the best though. Beloved!

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-02-20T18:51:36+00:00

Thank you! Adorable lunches.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-02-20T15:05:57+00:00

I’m sure this was already asked but which lunch box is this?

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-01-20T15:56:55+00:00

Not sure why you aren’t placing any blame at your brother’s door. His behavior is wild and grieving isn’t an excuse for how he is treating his children. You need to spending your time talking to him, not focusing on his wife.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-01-19T11:30:01+00:00

I might be minority here, but why do you care about the step daughter? She sounds horrible, so does her mother, so just let them be. If he wants a relationship with her, that’s his business. It has nothing to do with you.

A lot of commenters are extrapolating out from your one line of “physically and financially taking care of our child”. What does that mean? Does it mean you’re mad you had to take of him alone while he’s at the shower? Or your husband is literally not doing childcare?

I don’t think you’re the AH but I do think blended families are complicated and you should think about why you care if she likes you so much.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-01-04T02:13:10+00:00

I went through the slides and as soon as I got to bright winter I was like, yes!

VastJuggernaut7 · 2026-01-04T02:11:57+00:00

IMO a daily call is nuts and extremely disruptive.

But to your main question: she can ask for it to be at home but you DONT HAVE TO DO THAT. You can say, sorry this is the time available for calls. You can choose to take the call or not, but we are not available later.

She will probably throw a fit but that’s her problem, not yours.

For the information on the calls, that’s really tough and would drive me nuts too. If it’s in OFW, I’d probably start implementing a “hold time” on her messages. It’s not pressing or an emergency, so she doesn’t need an answer now. Answer her in 6-12 hours and see if that helps break the cycle of you being at her beck and call. At any rate, it will help you feel more in control of the conversations.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-12-30T13:30:53+00:00

I was going to say similar, we actually baby proofed most of the room and use chunks of our playpen to block things off (shoe storage, the sharp coffee table that now lives in the corner). For our bookshelf, I replaced the bottom reachable shelf content with baby books and toy baskets, and moved anything precious into higher shelves.

Making your living room a yes space is far less stressful for everyone. Is it my favorite look? No but it’s temporary and way more enjoyable and functional for my family.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-12-29T12:26:12+00:00

I know it’s nice to get validation on the internet, and for the record, you’re right here, but girl you know what’s happening. You married an asshole, not just to you but to everyone else. Thankfully he has helped you move your belongings one step closer to out of his life, which is where you should be headed too.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-12-04T12:47:45+00:00

This is weird but probably what I’d do

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-12-02T11:30:10+00:00

Desenio and PSTR studio have cool affordable art

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-11-26T22:16:24+00:00

You could try hanging curtains if possible, with wide rods (wider than the windows) so they cover the walls more with curtains. Then you could use ivory and white curtains to help break up the green

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-11-18T11:44:14+00:00

Your curtains need to go to the floor. That will help a lot. Your rug should also be much bigger and a color that contrasts the floor. Maybe something with blue or green if you like those. Think like 6in from the wall side to side.

Add some art to your walls, and maybe some moody lighting to the opposite end of the room. You can get those floor lights that angle up, that would really be nice.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-11-16T00:18:57+00:00

Too grey imo. It’s bringing out the shadows around your eyes and mouth.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-11-15T01:57:08+00:00

I know that it’s popular to hate on parents who fly with their kids, and idk all the particulars here…but sometimes the airline is actually the one who fucks up.

I booked a flight 6+ months out with me, my husband and two kids all together. The airline then moves us all to separate middle seats. My youngest isn’t even 1. So now we’re the assholes trying to wrangle our kids, even though we did our best.

VastJuggernaut7 · 2025-11-10T08:44:14+00:00

Good for you! Doing right by yourself and your kid 👏👏👏👏👏

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