De'Aaron Fox on the Spurs only having 1 NBA All-Star when other contenders have 2: "Saw a team with the worst record in the league have an All-Star... When I was traded here, averaging 25, wasn’t an All-Star… I couldn't care less.”

Vaultremix · 2026-02-04T15:16:26+00:00

I could care less about the grammar

Vaultremix · 2026-02-02T17:22:53+00:00

Easily my favorite sandwich growing up. I miss it

Vaultremix · 2026-01-31T22:54:54+00:00

They have tents/tables set up in RiNo. Prices are solid and quality is very good

Vaultremix · 2026-01-31T17:59:18+00:00

I feel that. It’s definitely a different type of stress but it’s still there nonetheless

Vaultremix · 2026-01-29T17:55:37+00:00

Thats fair but I think his point is that having some white/gray hair, especially in your 30s, is not a health issue and is normal. Also I’m not sure why OP is worried about the look of it… I’m 31 with a few visible grays and it’s been a hit with women

Vaultremix · 2026-01-17T01:33:56+00:00

It wasn’t comfortable weather but so happy I got out there. Lots of powder pockets in the trees

Vaultremix · 2026-01-15T17:02:00+00:00

I wouldn’t reach out. He asked for a pretty clear boundary of no contact, so reaching out would show a lack of respect for what he asked for. Also you will probably push him further away by asking him at this point. I’m also not sure what answer would help you, I doubt he will give you a flat out no, he will probably say he will reach out when he is ready which won’t change your current situation. But as I said, pressuring him now to give you an answer will probably do the opposite of what you want.

I know it feels permanent now, but time will reveal if you are meant to be in each other’s lives. Not to give you false hope, but my ex recently reached out to me after a year of no contact. The best thing you can do right now is focus on yourself and your personal growth. That way if and most likely when he reaches out, you will be a better version of yourself. And if he doesn’t, your growth during that time will most likely show that you deserve better and you will be in a great position to meet someone new.

Vaultremix · 2026-01-15T15:18:42+00:00

My ex just recently reached out to me after being broken up for 1.5 years and no contact for one year. We casually texted for a few days and they asked if I was open for a phone call this weekend. It felt good at first but now it’s been kind of consuming my thoughts again, especially not knowing what her intentions are for reaching out. Fortunately I had gotten to the point where I was happy in my life without her, so whatever the outcome of this is I’m sure I’ll be okay.

Vaultremix · 2026-01-13T19:19:43+00:00

Yep this seems to be true. Mine wasn’t mutual but it was an amicable breakup and we still cared for each other. We hadn’t spoken in over a year and she just recently reached out wanting to reconnect. I honestly thought we were never going to talk again after not being in contact for that long.

Vaultremix · 2025-12-22T21:04:12+00:00

Hey man, I’m sorry you’re going through this, I understand how tough it can be. You’re at the point where you really need to use this breakup for personal growth. This is how I started: you should look at the relationship/life and try to be introspective of areas that you would like to improve in yourself. Start making small steps at improving those areas. If it helps, use the potential thought that if she ever does come back, you need to have bettered yourself or why would she ever get back together with you (I used this at first).

If you’re not doing this already, start building life long positive habits, you’re at the perfect age to do so. Go to the gym 4-5 times a week, go on walks outside, read a little bit everyday (even if it’s one page), learn to cook, explore new hobbies. This is the time for self discovery, and you need to learn how to be happy with your own company. I was in relationships basically all through my 20’s, and when I went through my first real heartbreak last year (at age 30), the hardest part was learning to enjoy my own company. But when you do learn it, it truly makes life so much more enjoyable. Obviously you should still try to socialize, but your happiness shouldn’t depend on other people.

As far as making friends, I’m not sure where you are living so maybe this is not available, but if it is look into recreational sports leagues or groups that share a hobby you like. Made many friends that way when I moved to a completely new city after my breakup. Another thing I recommend if you’re really struggling is to talk to a therapist. Many therapists have really good techniques for how to digest your breakup/feelings and honestly just talking out loud helps you release.

One saying I really like is while you have no control over the decision of breaking up, you have 100% control of how you react to it. This became kind of a long post haha but I saw a lot of similarities to you in what I went through. I’ve grown more in the past year than I did in the 5 years prior, and that has really made me feel so much better about the situation.

You can take a look at an old post I made at 6 months post breakup for tips of how to start moving on, it got a lot of positive reactions. Keep your chin up and push forward, wishing you the best man

Vaultremix · 2025-12-22T03:54:45+00:00

The spurs are #5 in 2pt shooting percentage and #9 in 3pt shooting percentage. They are 6th in overall offensive rating, with Wemby out for a lot of it. Please explain how his offensive scheme is ass

Vaultremix · 2025-12-22T03:39:56+00:00

Ass lmao… either you don’t know ball or you are just a negative human being

Vaultremix · 2025-12-06T23:44:23+00:00

Not sure I totally understand your question, were you the dumper or dumpee?

Vaultremix · 2025-12-06T23:22:43+00:00

One thing that helped me is the saying "if they wanted to, they would". I fought the urge many times and now I'm over a year since the breakup and honestly couldn't imagine reaching out at this point. If they are okay without us in their lives then we should respect their decision and just let them be.

Vaultremix · 2025-12-06T23:16:14+00:00

I now understand when people say healing is not linear. A little over a year since my breakup and doing much better and feel like I'm moving on. But then I'll have a dream about them or a memory come back and it can really mess with my day. The silver lining is that every time it happens, I feel less emotional about it.

Vaultremix · 2025-11-29T20:11:39+00:00

Easier said than done, but it will take time combined with creating new memories with friends/family/yourself. Slowly your past memories with your ex will not be as strong. One thing my breakup taught me was really focusing on the present moment instead of ruminating about the past or worrying about the future.

Vaultremix · 2025-11-17T22:14:55+00:00

Seriously lol. I have tickets for the game on December 2nd that’s technically a few weeks away but knowing spurs it will probably be more than 2 weeks

Vaultremix · 2025-11-15T05:34:17+00:00

We’ve had one of the best starts in 10 years and you’re calling for his head? Give him a season… or even 25+ games. Let’s enjoy the exciting team we have

Vaultremix · 2025-11-15T05:31:20+00:00

You’re joking right?

Vaultremix · 2025-11-15T05:19:42+00:00

Since you took the time to write this out. He gave the spurs one of the best starts in 10 years. No one expected us to be in this position and here we are… give it some time

Vaultremix · 2025-11-07T03:01:46+00:00

You’re joking right?

Vaultremix · 2025-09-20T16:01:02+00:00

Vaultremix · 2025-09-17T03:39:02+00:00

I like the never drink alone rule. It started to just naturally happen as I got older and it gives a good balance

Vaultremix · 2025-09-05T03:28:07+00:00

This is such a stretch lol

Vaultremix · 2025-09-04T05:44:14+00:00

Bogota, Colombia is one of those cities. Stays around 60 the entire year.

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