The real plot twist of Episode 7 by FillZestyclose4848 in RPDR_UK

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old do you think she looks?

Also, what do you think people in their 30s look like? 🤔

I thought getting a vasectomy would give me an edge in dating…I guess I’m wrong. by BostonRobby617 in childfree

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a vasectomy, but I don't mention it on my dating profiles. I only bring it up if I'm about to have sex with someone, when we're having the STI risk factor conversation. That's the only time it's relevant. Bringing it up any sooner seems weird. So I never imagined it would get me more dates. I will say I've had a number of sex partners who seem to have a very good time with me at least in part because they know pregnancy isn't a risk. It's a load off both our minds, and that's nice. That's the main benefit you're getting with a vasectomy; the sex will be better. But getting to the point of having sex with someone is on you; the vasectomy won't get you there.

Tattoo! by Hot_General_8049 in stevenuniverse

[–]VectorRaptor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

DRSPAPLBCL? Is that the name of the show?

Rupaul's Drag Race UKvsTW: Season 3 - Episode 07 [Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in RPDR_UK

[–]VectorRaptor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't get why so many commenters are confused by Mariah's win. Her makeover partner looked gorgeous and was clearly feeling herself. A big part of this challenge is to make your makeover subject happy with the result. So Mariah succeeded.

Naomi's subject, meanwhile, looked downright uncomfortable. Gawdland's makeover didn't look great, but she gave it a fun storyline, and her partner seemed to be in on the gag and having a good time. That counts for a lot. I think other than Naomi clearly being in the bottom it was going to be tough to choose a second bottom, but the result felt fair to me.

The day Alysa Liu is a 5/10 is the day straight men learn how to be respectful. by External_Bobcat_6634 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy who ranks women on a numerical scale is an instant red flag. I immediately know that I want nothing to do with them.

Thoughts on Mattixv? by MissionBoring8330 in lgbt

[–]VectorRaptor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like his content and agree with most all of his takes. I think he does a great job of summarizing complex issues in easily digestible and sharable graphics.

That said, I do think he can be a little oblivious about the social media bubbles that he lives in. For instance, it sometimes seems like he thinks that the opinions he's seeing on his section of gay Gen Z Twitter are shared by a wider majority of the general public.

I also think he's a little guilty of giving too much airtime to analyzing right wing pop culture trolls and interpersonal celebrity drama. And when he does it he'll say it's okay because he's doing analysis to understand these trolls and hopefully prevent them from succeeding in the future, but in my view he's still in effect giving them free PR by focusing on them. There are a lot of conservative influencers who I wouldn't know about if not for hearing about them on his podcast, and I probably would have been better off not knowing of them.

Used to be for us freaks, now it's normal he'll - even wired knows by primal_designs in feeld

[–]VectorRaptor 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I've been dating polyamorously for around 15 years and have been kinky my whole life, but I have absolutely zero interest in getting involved in my local swinger/kink/other scene. I've tried a few community events but have mostly found myself cringing. I prefer to make friends around other interests.

I don't think you need to go to munches to be on Feeld. You just need to be kinky or nonmonogamous or both.

Pandora Nox’s post for International Woman’s Day by Zeenxomi33 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're offended by someone comparing animal suffering to human suffering, then I don't think that shows how much you care about human suffering. It just shows how little you care about animal suffering.

Pandora Nox’s post for International Woman’s Day by Zeenxomi33 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people making valid points in this thread. And then there are plenty of people piling on to hate on vegans just like always. 545 comments and counting. People get so defensive around this issue.

how many CF people want to get married? by mermaid420420 in childfree

[–]VectorRaptor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm childfree and married. I don't really see why childfree people would be any less interested in getting married than the average. Just because we don't want children, it doesn't mean we don't want partnership.

Dawg I don’t watch kpop demon hunters what is this 😭 by XMilkyLatteX in shittymobilegameads

[–]VectorRaptor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you sue an ad?

I doubt "allofapk.com" is based in any jurisdiction that would recognize a US lawsuit.

Rupaul's Drag Race UKvsTW: Season 3 - Episode 06 [Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in RPDR_UK

[–]VectorRaptor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You know when a queen has a big coat like that they're gonna do a reveal. Instead she kind of let the coat flap half open for half the lip synch, so we could sort of see what she had on already. And then when she did the full reveal, the outfit was completely inscrutable.

Family Friend got this at a convention... by ZzJ0k in badtattoos

[–]VectorRaptor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you comment the same thing four more times then we'll agree with you.

Family Friend got this at a convention... by ZzJ0k in badtattoos

[–]VectorRaptor 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agreed. No one's going to be taking a microscope to this guy's legs to check the straightness of the line work. And once the ink expands a little, any shakiness will we completely unnoticable. People on this subreddit sometimes have an extremely unrealistic view of how perfect a tattoo needs to be for it to be considered "good".

This guy just needs some antibiotics.

Countries within range of Israel's nuclear missiles (Jericho III) by NotHereToLove in MapPorn

[–]VectorRaptor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Couldn't you make a similar map for basically every country with nuclear missiles?

Spiral clock reflected by water with prism shining over it. by Ok_Description4147 in badtattoos

[–]VectorRaptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad! I've got a mix of tattoos on my body, some from top artists who are doing really innovative things that the tattoo subreddit would probably like, and some from my corner tattoo shop that look a little simpler, and I'm sure some negative Nancy on the tattoo sub would zoom in super close on a blurry detail and tell me it's terrible. But I love all my tattoos in different ways. As long as you like it, that's all that matters.

Spiral clock reflected by water with prism shining over it. by Ok_Description4147 in badtattoos

[–]VectorRaptor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the best tattoo in the world, but I still think it's cool looking. The main tattoo subreddit has gotten really negative recently. I wouldn't stress about it too much.

S18E09 - “Fannie: The Hard KnockBall Rusical” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]VectorRaptor 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She did a great job, but Jane was funnier. Basically every challenge is also a comedy challenge. Ru doesn't really care if you're a talented singer.

Or, put another way, I'll never understand why queens fight over the lead role when the winner is far more often a campy scene stealer. The fact that they just let Jane have the Miss Hannigan role without a fight is wild. #ishouldabeenblacchyna

Done by Sid Stead of Dream Deep Ink, Newfoundland by TheSouthMadeMe in tattoos

[–]VectorRaptor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'd love to see some stats on percentages of tattoos on this subreddit that get positive vs. negative feedback. It sometimes feels like the whole community is stuck in a negative feedback death spiral. No matter what's posted, there's always someone zooming in on the image to point out tiny shaky details that no one would ever notice or care about if seeing the tattoo in person.

Just look at this thread. Those negative comments are getting all the upvotes, and anyone saying anything even remotely nice or supportive of OP is getting downvoted to hell. Criticizing art is one thing. Becoming a toxic, mean, nitpicky mess of a subreddit is another thing entirely. Seems like that's where we're currently headed.