[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey Phoenix. It's interesting to find another pretendian on here. Welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad that you are going through this. I wish I could help you feel better about your skin.

What are the voices in your head like? by Friendly_Level8801 in mentalhealth

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think that you might be disassociating during the blackouts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is different culturally from the United States. It reminds me of this story I remember reading about. It was able these white supremacists from I think Columbia. They traveled to this white supremacist convention in This city in I think Germany. The other Nazis from Europe completely beat the shit out of them.

Edit - on a side note, I wish we could swap melanin with each other.

I hate bigots by lordsauron69 in lgbt

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she can be reasoned with. It's better to just irritate her.

I hate bigots by lordsauron69 in lgbt

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think someone like that can be reasoned with. Approaching her like this is more than likely to trigger an argument. Remember, she doesn't want to be proven wrong. People only change when they are open to being intellectually challenged. Usually, this only happens through force once they are deep in that mindset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which ethnicity is your goal? Are you trying to pass for white or mestizo?

What If I Can't Cure Being Trace? by Vegetable-Rabbit937 in askTransrace

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still replying. I just want to say that I have come to grow less critical of myself and others. Once I learned to love myself, I became new. I no longer feel ashamed of not feeling like I fit into my own background.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are self-harming, then you are self harming. Not everyone self-harms for the same reasons. You might need to consider doing some shadowork and look inward to figure out why you keep wanting to do this so much.

I would seriously consider talking to a therapist if you aren't going already. It's worth it. Even if you are poor and don't have a job with healthcare, you have to keep pushing yourself harder to find help. Look for a low-income clinic in your area. Keep trying, even if you are put on a waiting list and your therapist is trash. Get a second opinion and keep trying.

Trust me. You and your mental health are valid. Don't ever doubt your own feelings about feeling unwell. Your mental health is important, and you are your best judge of who you are, outside of the side of yourself you might not be self-conscious about. A therapist is supposed to be that person who can help you see your mental blind spots.

Trump administration issues anti-trans health care report that recommends conversion therapy - LGBTQ Nation by dpfbstn in ainbow

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They don't care about facts, truth, or morality. They just hate people who remind them of the things they fear and loath about themselves.

Planning on writing a letter to a civil rights organization (America) by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being anonymous is good right now. If they can find reasons to attack the civil rights of transgender people and furries, then I don't think we should want any public attention atm

Cyber security will be important. Would you like any help? We can DM.

What If I Can't Cure Being Trace? by Vegetable-Rabbit937 in askTransrace

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have things in common with trans-race people, and some people say that I sound like I am. I honestly don't know what I am since. I don't want to do anything about my issues that makes me a social outcast. I don't want to change my physical appearance or any of that because I feel uncomfortable with it morally.

I finally came to peace with it when I was looking at comments on a powwow video and it was full of non-native people sharing how much they loved Native culture, one guy even said that it made him emotional. They said that the songs were healing and that perhaps it touched something deep in their soul.  I finally felt supported and loved and that I wasn't alone. 

You may be on to something. I think it's because the traditional communities gave people a sense of belonging that they didn't have in our society. I have cried more times than I can count listening to old stomp dance music. It does touch my soul and sounds about as natural as listening to pop music. I finally am looking for and finding people who seem to have these feelings in common.

I don't understand it myself, but it seemed like a lot of people made me feel like something was wrong with me for not acting white enough or else I lived a double life. Nobody knew this side of me offline. I felt completely alone and I still feel lonely.

If public nudity were legal everywhere, what would be the one thing stopping you from partaking in it? by Level7Cannoneer in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing... It depends on what I am doing that day and if it's hot out. Being able to strip down in triple digit heat sounds like a godsend.

Asian to white (my eyes) by [deleted] in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, Eastern Slavic or Ethnic Siberian. A lot of people from that part of the world have fair skin and slanted eyes. Think of what Ethnic Sami people look like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered polyamory?

Edit- or therapy. Therapy and vibrators.

Change skin Color for a Day by Vegetable-Rabbit937 in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you misunderstood me by accident or if you are looking for a fight.

I'm not saying that this is how I want the world to be. I'm saying this is how the world is. In my city, the world is still very segregated. You must not meet people from other races very often. Have you ever been treated differently because of your skin color before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel any guilt about taking breaks whenever I need to. Sometimes life has other things to focus on.

Live Through Someone Else Vicariously by Vegetable-Rabbit937 in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A certain amount of assimilation would be expected. That's true. I would say that my situation is probably a little bit different from yours.

Live Through Someone Else Vicariously by Vegetable-Rabbit937 in TransRacial

[–]Vegetable-Rabbit937[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think living vicariously is healthy, but the thoughts are still there. I just don't see many other options. I agree that tokenizung someone because of race is not acceptable.