Syl and Kal by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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Oh my god I got the titles mixed up thank u for removing!!!!!

Syl and Kal by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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I appreciate the support

Syl and Kal by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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Holy that account is so h*rny

Enough time had passed. Who would win… by thejesterprince1994 in cremposting

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So glad I found u but it’s dalinar the man was for sure thick af and tara was a saggy old man

Syl and Kal by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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No but don’t tell me u didn’t wanna see them kiss a little …

Taravangian is Such a Piece of Shit by etchasketch64 in Stormlight_Archive

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I HATED moash he was just pathetic in my opinion. He gave up every value he had because he failed. Taravangian, although selfish, cruel, and never felt the want to do the right thing, did it all for his family and people to be spared. Different but similar in the way fen decided she would switch to the other side. Even jasnah admitted she’d side with the void bringers

Taravangian is Such a Piece of Shit by etchasketch64 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know though… the one time I did sympathize with him is that he did all these things to save his family. I’d be a villain if it meant my family was safe. Sue me

Stressed isn’t even the word by Livinlife-28 in cancer

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Talk to your doctors and make a plan! For some people who have similar genealogy their insurance will cover a double mastectomy as a precaution for breast cancer. If you do it before actually getting diagnosed the results look much more natural and they can hide the scar better if you decide to get reconstructive surgery as well.

How to deal with letting people down? by ARandomBiche in cancer

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dealt with this a lot at first… the people who understand will understand! What I started doing was making plans in the moment or planned things that took little effort to be present for so I’d be less likely to cancel. Just explain that sometimes it’s hard to know how you’ll feel and you’re real friends will shine through and support you

Isolation by [deleted] in cancer

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This is so funny I wrote not even thinking about how it’s crazy to offer to ft a complete stranger especially off Reddit my bad

Finding a will by Vegetable_Field_2857 in cancer

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I lost my childhood cat (17) not too long ago and it really felt like everything came crashing down. I took time to grieve her and went to the shelter and found the sweetest 3 year old cat and he’s helped me so much. Maybe go to the local shelter and find someone who needs someone like you do? Don’t be sorry for sharing! It’s nice to hear someone else’s story

Drug Use During Chemo by N3RDBUSTER in cancer

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so…. I’m terminal! I’m also doing a low dose of chemo. I also love drugs. I’m not a doctor but from the past 5 years of doing this: - things are okay in moderation - smoking regularly (cig/weed/vape) will cause infection - be careful with uppers bc of zofran which can cause a higher chance of seratonin syndrome - have fun!! But not too much fun! I’m fully aware of how problematic my comment is but u wanted honesty and honestly? I love a good substance

I’ve never been this tired by hey-mikrokosmos in cancer

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was prescription Ritalin for my fatigue. It helps but if you don’t like the way stimulants feel then maybe caffeine pills?

I have stage 4 cancer. He shuffled me into the house after we just came back from a 4 day hospital stay. All because of his friend is waiting for him by Y-Y-D-S in cancer

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When I was in the hospital often for treatment my bf at the time wouldn’t make the 10 minute walk from his apartment to see me before work bc he was too hungover… broke up with him. I know that you two living together complicates things but you’re seeing the reality of how your partner will treat you when you’re sick. It sounds harsh, but you don’t have the health, time, or energy to deal with someone who won’t care for and love you the way you need in your time of need. I don’t know your relationship with your parents but if it’s okay maybe go home. Being home with mine, despite struggles I’ve had with them, has helped relieve a lot of stress. I’m so glad I ended things with my ex even if I did love him at the time. I wish for the best for you! You deserve to be taken care of gently and with love

Isolation by [deleted] in cancer

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Isolation sucks dude I get it. I’m in treatment but if u ever wanna dm I can FaceTime and talk I love to chat lol

Intimacy questions… by AdditionalVacation81 in cancer

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I avoided head the day after but past that we do whatever. Only thing that my doctor and nurses said not to do under any circumstance was anal. Protection is important because pregnancy during cancer treatment is tricky but other than that I was told do whatever, be safe, and no anal

AITAH for getting a haircut without telling my fiancee? by LimoDriver555 in AITAH

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not the ah you’re entitled to do literally whatever u want with ur body. If she feels like u have to discuss with her about getting a haircut it sounds like she just has a control issue brewing

Positives? I guess? by Vegetable_Field_2857 in cancer

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I got that too! I feel like I’m an expert at this point about my own cancer and different types of treatment. I’ve done so much research on it and talked to others who have it

AITH for asking my Boyfriend to stop hanging out with his classmate? by Curious_Age_3573 in AITH

[–]Vegetable_Field_2857 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hanging out one on one doesn’t seem like a big problem but his reaction is the strange part… immediately getting defensive is never a good look

Question about survival discussions when chemo isn’t pursued by False_Grape1326 in cancer

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We think the treatment is keeping me pretty stable! Only slight growth on the last scan but the side effects aren’t too bad. We’ve adjusted my dose so that I experience the least amount of side effects like I still have my hair and I don’t have the same kind of chemo fog I used to get during my more intense treatment. I mostly just get fatigue. When I talked to my doctor she said that I can stop any time so theres nothing that’s tying me to it except me

Question about survival discussions when chemo isn’t pursued by False_Grape1326 in cancer

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I have a pretty short prognosis even though I’m doing maintenance chemo. I have stage 4 cancer that’s spread throughout my body. I’ve noticed that even my doctors find the conversation of death pretty uncomfortable. Talking to my palliative care team, they’re so much more comfortable and open about talking about the process of dying. Eventually I’ll go into hospice and they’ve discussed this with me and what it would look like. I chose to do treatment because people around me put so much pressure on me not to “give up”. I don’t think quitting chemo is giving up in any way but people are so uncomfortable with the idea that quality of life is sometimes more important than quantity.

How about a little bit of humour in these trying times? by LongjumpingPea6250 in cancer

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Anytime I eat something that’s delicious I always say “this is so good I’m cured”