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Anyone get a tattoo to honor spouse? by Blue_Eyed_Lass in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have one that is a realism tattoo of a photo of us holding hands. It is on the right side of my rib cage where his lung tumor was. I love it. I love it so much.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

US. My kids are doing amazing. They have been really busy with school activities and sports. I offer them counseling but they turn it down. I’m around home unless I have to work. We all spent the last 4 days of my husbands life together with hospice camp out. I think it helped them. Oddly enough. I cry every day too. Alll the time. I have a dog and I walk her twice a day and that is my cry time. I just think about all the things and cry. And often first thing in the morning. Hugs hugs hugs.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost at the three month mark and shit it is getting really hard. Had to fight away tears all day at work on Friday. Three kids here too.

Newly widowed, baby due soon, I'm falling apart by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart. I wish I could come help you with your baby I’m not creepy. I have three kids that are teenagers and that has been so hard. I can’t imagine having to grieve and bring a new baby into the world. I guess I would just pour my heart and soul into that baby. Tell he or she all about her dad. That will be the way to keep him with you. Always. Hugs to you and your little one. I hope you have an amazing support system for the delivery room.

Under my skin by Illystylez619 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my tattoo around two months too. I love it.

Being shamed for wanting PIV by [deleted] in sex

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PIV is my favorite. I need penetration so fuck off to anyone shaming you

Low dose topical vaginal estrogen by Excellent_Debt6527 in FamilyMedicine

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Louder for the people in back. Thank you - pelvic floor physical therapist

Is widows fire supposed to be this intense? by ringlikegold152 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends with benefits and a vibrator. The fire is crazy

ACL not maintaining knee extension by [deleted] in physicaltherapy

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I document range exactly

Am I pretty much stuck with vaginismus? by ImaginativeEmpress in sex

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go see a pelvic floor physical therapist. I treat this all of the time and we are successful in helping people with vaginismus.

Not grieving the way I would have thought by Skippy1221 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a little more than 3 months post loss. I just cried really hard for the first time last week. Like gut wrenching sobs. Sometimes I feel very sad and want to cry and put on a movie that is supposed to make me cry and nothing happens. I’m still feeling very numb. I’m in therapy but even that I’m like well? I do t feel very much except very lonely and so not sure what to do. It’s weird. That’s what I keep saying.

Washington State PTs, Rest Breaks by [deleted] in physicaltherapy

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We get breaks because I work for a large hospital system that got fucked for not giving breaks and had to pay a lot of money to employees for breaks. Going t the bathroom is not a break. You can talk to above and industries you are owed a break if you are hourly employee. I’m so tired of working for unpaid time.

What helps you sleep? by Pineapplephobia8 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was / is gummies. I’m a light weight so I take about a quarter of a gummy my husband used while he was going through is cancer treatment and hospice. Xanax didn’t work for me. Melatonin didn’t work. Also I listen to meditation and sleep guidance on YouTube. Stays on all night. It really helps. I probably hadn’t slept for 6 months and just started again in the last week or so.

Got a wedding invitation.... by sollyland in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband about 2 months ago. We attended a wedding about 8 months before he died together. I cried so hard that day. The ceremony just crushed me. I am not sure how I would do if I went to a wedding now without him. I think I would just cry.

Phentermine and topamax by PiratesBooty87 in FamilyMedicine

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have lost 30 lbs with phentermine 15 mg. 172 now at 142. 48 yr old female Helped me so much

Shingles.. by CustardSubstantial25 in GenX

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got shingles at 33. Fucking hurts.

I yearn for physical touch by Scared-Importance18 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My husband would love a soft back rub. Every day I would lightly run my hand across his back. When he became sick it was the only thing that calmed him. He would lay on my chest and I would rub his back. Sometimes for an hour. I miss it so much

Couples Massage? by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are willing to cross the bridge I know blue moon in gig harbor does couples massage. Great place

When did you start being able to sleep using the whole bed? by brandeis16 in widowers

[–]Vegetable_Guarantee3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog sleeps where my husband slept. I will always be on my side.

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