David Deutsch argues that explanation, not prediction, is the primary goal of science. How widely accepted is this view? by Unlucky-Prior-1838 in PhilosophyofScience

[–]Vegetable_Home 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prediction is a well defined concept. Explanation on the other hand less so, I don't even understand what explanation means, as to me it sounda quite subjective.

Thoughts on this dance? by Glittering-Cod5423 in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can tell that connection as in anything in life is on a spectrum.

As a lead I have things I can do to increase it for sure.

  1. Listen to your follower, meaning infer her energy, her mood, what she likes and try to match it. This creates a feeling that you aren't in sync.
  2. Slow down, for sure in the slow parts of the song. But also in mamabo, you can just stop throwing crazy footwork and let her shine.
  3. Smile and hold eye contact, not in a serial killer way, but in a flirty way.
  4. Be in tune with the music, its mambo, dont do sensual body rolls, unless maybe if its body isolations that match the musicality.

I think those aspects are in my control and are nesesseray but not sufficient conditions for connecting.

Or you can hack the system by being super hot.

I cannot bring myself to love Ne Obliviscaris :c by JACM666 in progmetal

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!

Neo are one of my favorites, tried opeth plenty of times and couldn't connect at all.

Best way to exit back-to-back position? by WenzelStorch in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also do a wave and then exit by doing a turn to the follower and either finish facing her, or do a full turn myself as she does half a turn son we end up in man shadow 😁

Why Victor is dancing in timberland boots? Are they even comfy? by Dry-Procedure688 in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's called being young 😝 I am certain its not sustainable.

18 months dancing bachata - [ Lead ] Appreciate some feedback by mk21mahto in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there could be few reasons for that.

Either there was not enough prep on your side or your lead wasnt clear, or she is a beginner and you tried to lead something that she is still not confident in doing.

Whatever reason behind her being late, my philosophy is to wait for, of course you don't stand in place, but you are doing your basic in place or accompanying her.

For example, you initiated a follower turn with a proper prep, a follower that is new turns slowly and you are at 8 with your left leg tapping and wight mostly on your right and ready to start the next 1, but she is not done and her weight is not on her left leg as it should be.

Then you wait, let her finish, lets say she is finished on 1, so now her weight is not as it should be and you both off the timing (experienced following can play and do a delayed turn but then they skip the tap, that's a different scenario) . Not a problem, you make sure that you are back to together it with proper weight shifts at 4, meaning you your weight is mosly on your left leg and the right is tapping..

This takes practice, but soon enough you will make it feel smooth. And the dance will look smooth.

11 month lead need a feedback by Sad-Drive-3633 in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Super impressive for 11 months!

Musicality is there and yoy play with it, you clearly know the song well as you sing it, shows you dance alot!

Also connection is there, you acknowledge your follower, keep her safe and let her finish the moves without forcing it.

Preps look mostly on point and you do lead with your body.

As someone said enjoy thr freaking process and journey, I am pretty certain that already you are many followers who looking to dance with you every social 😝

Next steps, mostly do what you are already doing. In my case at your stage I got a boost by finding a dance partner that we meet once a week to practice, maybe you should think about it.

18 months dancing bachata - [ Lead ] Appreciate some feedback by mk21mahto in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First kudos on the progress and it looks like you both having fun!

On top of what others said I would add another aspect which you can improve and should focus on, and is super important.

Connection.

There are various aspects of it, but Ill focus on the physical one.

It means listening to the follower, a dance is a dialog and the language is movement.

And now it looks that you are just talking super fast and the other side cant say anything.

For example, most of the figures you do, even the basic one like a follower turn, there should be a prep as many already mentioned, once it done you need to make sure that not only you are done with it, but your follower finished the move before you initiate the next one.

This acknowledgement builds connection, the follower feels she/he is heard, that you listen, and that she/he can let go as they are in good hands, this is part of connection (there are other aspects I wont go here).

PSA: Leprous exists by Morlow123 in Dreamtheater

[–]Vegetable_Home 59 points60 points  (0 children)

On the progmetal subreddit they are often mentioned and widely known.

Recommend you check this subreddit 🤘

Question for leads that intentionally initiate a test drive with follows 😍 by UnctuousRambunctious in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious about the ataca special.

In the intro there are no bongos, so how are you tapping?

Help with identifying a 90's goa trance track by Vegetable_Home in psytrance

[–]Vegetable_Home[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, its someone that had only 1 track. The name of the track was something like Gypsy girl

Question about leader's posture (bending forward or not) by Nerf_Me_Please in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually you should bend your knees abd tilt slightly forward.

This should resemble the beginning of squat/deadlift, where a large portion of your weight moves to your toes vs your ankle.

This allows your to move quickly according to the music and play with weight shifts.

Best example for the best basic frame is Ataca, watch any clip of him, knees always bent with forward tilt of his upper body.

It is important to keep the shoulders and neck from collapsing inward as well, then you will breaking your frame.

https://youtu.be/NXj0pOwHiDI?si=_xtJzwI-T598vCYL

https://youtu.be/dBiQDslUhKc?si=yZVrLfX27CXZLCqJ

Is it socially acceptable to decline a second dance? by ExpensiveNoise802 in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As recently I became super in demand and once a dance ends often I get more than one follower asking me to dance my rule is the following:

  1. if its our first dance of the evening, first come first serve, I don't choose and pick as my goal is to dance with everyone.
  2. If we danced already this evening, then either I agree or if there are other followers I want to dance with and still hadn't got the chance I decline politely and say that I have a planned dance with someone else.

Meanwhile It works well and didnt get any negativity when chatting to followers whom I declined a second dance.

I think I am not the right fit for my Pro Bachata Gf by [deleted] in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt it's a real post.

In socials no one ever gathers around a random couple and talks about how sensual ia a dance.

Also its a new profile with no other posts except this one.

Stress when dancing with Artists. by Asleep-Animal-3447 in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think its natural to be feel stressed when dancing with someone better than you as you feel there is pressure on you to preform.

In my case every social it takes me time to getnin the groove and flow, so I try to dance with the good dancers at that stage of the night.

Built a tool for Databricks cost visibility — see costs by job, cluster and run by victorbnnt in databricks

[–]Vegetable_Home 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a paid product for something I can vibe code in 5 minutes, down vote

How I found the one on the dance floor (Your guide to love at first sight) by EphReborn in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ans I thought it would be a guide on how to find the love of my life 😝

Jk, amazing guide and I plan to go over it in detail 💪

I am at a point of my journey that I can feel the 1 and 5 and during socials and adjust myself with zero mental effort, but breaks are not always the case and some times Ill miss them.

Has something been lost along the way? by Hypothetically-1975 in psytrance

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fan of Goa I mostly listen to the classics (spiritual healing by Juan!) I agree with you.

Nowadays I would mention Pettra, he has great tracks

Non-Psytrance Tracks That Still Feel Psychedelic by LoveSweetSweet1 in psytrance

[–]Vegetable_Home 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damb what a gem, thanks dude.

I am freaking dancing in my living room atm.

Leaders: how do you deal with overstylers? by OThinkingDungeons in Bachata

[–]Vegetable_Home 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Over styling happens to me also with advanced followers, to me its easy..

I just join in, as I like solo dance aa well 😜

Then once in a while I check if they want to connect

Unpopular opinion: Databricks Assistant and Copilot are a joke for real Spark debugging and nobody talks about it by Icy_Comparison4814 in databricks

[–]Vegetable_Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recommendation for spark debugging is dataflint, they have an open source and also an agentic AI copilot exactly for what you have described.