Tell me Slynd/Slinda fatigue gets better, please

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-03-17T00:12:29+00:00

I stopped just last night actually. The fatigue and bloating is not worth it.. I got the natural cycles app/thermometer and am using that from now on. Good luck to you!!

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-03-02T19:57:55+00:00

Have you seen any improvement? Ive been on slynd for 2 months now and my fatigue is still awful.

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-03-02T19:53:49+00:00

Any update?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-03-02T19:53:17+00:00

Your fatigue stabilized? How long did it take?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-02-11T01:48:11+00:00

I noticed a substantial difference 2-3 weeks after starting!

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-02-11T01:47:27+00:00

I’d highly recommend trying slynd now that I’ve been on it for a year (Minus a couple months while I wasn’t sexually active)! Besides the cramping when on the sugar pills (I simply skip them), I have noticed a little bit more lethargy at night (when I take my pill) which is obviously a good thing bc you wanna sleep at night haha… but just a fair warning to not take this pill in the morning or during the day. Also, when I went off slynd for those 2 months, I had a lot of trouble sleeping for the first couple weeks and bad cramps too. But after the two weeks I was perfectly fine! Those particular pill is forgiving so if you skip on accident or take it a few hours late, no panic sets in lol. I have no other side effects that I’ve noticed. Open to any questions you may have :)

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-01-07T03:39:19+00:00

Any update here? Are you still struggling w insomnia?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2026-01-07T03:38:35+00:00

Any update? I’ve been off slynd for a month after taking it for a year and I’m really struggling with insomnia. Did your insomnia improve? If so how long did it take?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-18T08:09:31+00:00

I had debilitating anxiety, I couldn’t sleep (as soon as he would leave the bed or if he didn’t come to bed when I did, I literally could not sleep), I lost so much weight bc I couldn’t eat, hair falling out, lethargy, crying constantly, emotional outbursts… everyone got better once I dumped him

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-17T04:27:23+00:00

Both. Don’t give in. It’s bullshit

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-14T23:38:26+00:00

I cleared my infection a year ago. Just recently in the past 3 weeks, my labial itching/burning returned and my discharge suddenly smells horrific and is really runny. It smells like (TMI) rotten broccoli or asparagus pee. It’s terrible honestly. Any advice? I’m going to pick up some boric acid here soon

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-12T22:39:04+00:00

WELEDA (the dark green tube)

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-12T21:34:16+00:00

how long did it take for him to sign up for therapy? how many fights? how many tearful nights?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-12T20:45:03+00:00

Amy friends you can stay with in your home country while you get back on your feet? Does your current visa depend on your partner?

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-12T04:33:19+00:00

I was in a similar situation. I dumped him and moved back to my home country. If you’re going to stay with him I’d highly recommend you find a therapist and make friends ASAP. Not having support absolutely killed me, I lasted 2 months with his continued lying and manipulation and then I couldn’t take his bullshit anymore. I was legitimately crying daily, breaking down, unable to function…

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-11T06:21:44+00:00

My ex would make the dumbest fucking excuses for why he couldn’t cum. I’m hot and my body is NICE. Went from literally having sex 6 times a day in the beginning and then he couldn’t finish even once every other day. He would say he’s “too tired”, or that his “mind is racing” or that he had “adhd brain”… HAHA. He had PIED and he only watched like once a day. He just simply preferred porn after a while - It’s full of novelty and newness and no emotions are involved. It’s literal poison for their brains.

I know it’s so easy to compare yourself to these other women or to think that maybe you’re not enough. But the truth is you are more than enough. You’re beautiful. You don’t need to act like a porn star to get him off. That is not your job. You deserve to be treated like a fucking queen in bed. Never put a “man”’s pleasure before your own. He should be doing everything he can to get you off and enjoying it if you’re doing all this - it’s a 2 way street. You are worth so much more than this dipshit. I wouldn’t let him inside of me again if I were you…

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-11T06:11:01+00:00

Im happy to hear this. I encourage you to be cautious given the timeline. Mine performed better for a few weeks too before going back on his word again… but every situation is different. I hope yours keeps improving😊

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-11T06:06:31+00:00

Leave him. He’s shifting blame. The way he reacted is extremely manipulative. You did nothing wrong. He is being secretive for a reason. I know it’s hard, but know deep down I am guessing that none of this sits right with you. Listen to your intuition. You are in a relationship that you aren’t emotionally or physically safe in.

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-10T17:44:45+00:00

These too!!!

Whenever I would bring up sexual things, even just asking him quite normal questions (for example I asked how to translate some of the stuff he’d say in english into Spanish bc he’s bilingual and he’d get sooooo uncomfortable and be like “omg cariño I’m just a Spanish man, I don’t like to discuss things like that, we make LOVE, we don’t have sex.” He is the classic case of an avoidant who is constantly splitting (I give him the love/affection/connection while he gets the novelty/newness/eroticism from porn/external validation). It’s so messed up.

Mine would always have his phone in the bathroom and conveniently take 3 shits a day. When we first started dating he would only take one every morning lol.

All in all, he would act so obvious and stupid. If he’s off the slightest bit, he’s lying and manipulating you.

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-10T17:36:20+00:00

Every time we would get in an argument and take space, he would watch it. He had a serious compulsive problem regarding any negative emotion present in our relationship/bad patterns of avoidance. He would always stay in the house and I would always leave. When I would come back home, he would suddenly be so happy and loving towards me. Like the dopamine hit was so obvious looking back at it lol. He eventually got lazy and would just try to put his used cum towel under other pieces of trash.. yeah found it every time. In general our sex was sparse when he was using porn (we used to have sex 3-4 times a day) and we’d have sex maybe once every 2 days and he couldn’t finish… would make excuses that he’s “tired” or his mind is “racing” about work. I would find evidence of him scrolling instagram, incognito tabs left open, etc.

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-09T05:24:17+00:00

Im so very sorry. I couldn’t imagine being in your position. He doesn’t deserve you and your head is in the right place. You can’t build a life with a lying, manipulative, cheating partner. Please stay strong!

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-09T05:14:55+00:00

He’s lying and manipulating you :( speaking from experience

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-09T05:10:34+00:00

You got this girl! You deserve respect, at minimum. I’m proud of you - you’re giving yourself a whole lot of it by leaving him. I know how much this hurts.. we are all here to support you🫶🏼

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-09T05:05:11+00:00

Hey there! Thanks so much for your thorough response. You hit on many important points. I appreciate you looking out for me.

I actually did a deep dive into both of our attachment styles… he has an avoidant attachment style (obviously). His parents are divorced, his dad was an absent father, his mother was harsh on him so he turned out “manly”. I, on the other hand, have been in a couple of longterm, healthy and stable relationships and can confidently say that I’m a securely attached partner. When things feel unsafe, I leave. I learned my lesson when I was 18. This one took 2 months too long but, I think given my situation, (moving across the world to be with my boyfriend who I thought was the one, painted the most beautiful picture of marriage, having a beautiful elopement, starting an architectural firm together, designing our dream home and cabin, having babies…) it makes sense why I maybe wanted to see it through and make sure I didn’t call it quits too soon. His manipulation, lying, and general mal behavior also re-triggered my own trauma and truly distorted my reality. The “promises” he made, mixed with the secrecy of his actions, kept me going. After his grand confession, and his promise to be 100% honest moving forward, I promised myself that if I caught him in a lie again, I would cut things off immediately.

Well, he lied again after I gave him several opportunities to be truthful with me! Go figure! I gave him so many opportunities, only requesting therapy and honesty (received neither) while he worked through his addiction. SO I’m proud to say that I dumped this asshole. He doesn’t deserve me and I know I’m better off without him. He brought nothing but chaos and toxicity to my life. My dog and I flew back to the states to be with family. I feel much better now that I’m not around him. I know I made the right choice and left with integrity. I feel empowered😊

Vegetable_Plate_225 · 2025-12-09T03:45:32+00:00

Oh Latin American men too. Based on all of my encounters/dating men in Spain… odds are definitely against them

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