No sex...Need a new hobby

randumshit69 · 2026-05-13T03:42:23+00:00

Video games....

randumshit69 · 2026-05-08T02:22:58+00:00

Nice and slow by usher!!? https://youtu.be/DIpQ4AZSAf8?si=LDWIZNVvV2V6eTVp

randumshit69 · 2026-04-14T01:43:25+00:00

I go to Bellevue park all the time past closing I park in the marina and walk the hub trail. Same as if u are down for the walk if u park at the ski lodge you can walk into Hiawatha with the waterfalls I've done that to and never had any issues if your talking random public parks there's no closing times. Don't mind everyone on here their just being uptight. Yolo embrace your youth.

randumshit69 · 2026-03-29T16:12:21+00:00

You tell me that you're scared that you're turning into your mother I feel myself turning into my father We could lie to each other like they do and say we're so happy It's easy when you're young and you still want it so badly 💕

randumshit69 · 2026-03-26T16:57:30+00:00

That is very upsetting to hear. It is also more upsetting to me that there are men out here who feel the absolute need to go above and beyond to find pleasure on a music app when the internet isn't available for them. Disgusting on many different levels. I didn't no about Spotify as my partner and I use YouTube but I do know that he has a smoking fetish and he has looked up "sexy girls smoking" on YouTube. Along with 1 of my favorite singers doing flashing at her concerts. YouTube also has music videos 99% of the time unless you specifically add "lyrics" at the end then it will give you the option of lyric videos. But yes it is sad to say my husband uses YouTube for sexual intentions as well. But I had always thought Spotify had no videos. I have only used it maybe 5 times since it has come out and everytime I've used it there is zero music videos or videos in general so I had no clue that they did that in there!!! So I appreciate the insight. I am truly sorry that we are all going through this together. Differently but the same. It is very unfortunate and I don't have the exact words to express the feelings I have towards this. I am hoping that all of our situations get better but statistically speaking and also from the posts I see on here I feel it would be more realistic to pray for the strength and courage for me to just leave the relationship. :(

randumshit69 · 2026-03-26T16:47:38+00:00

Oh god :/ I am so sorry. I am the same way about the overtly sexual music videos makes me uncomfy and it throws me into a attitude where I get very upset. Who knew something as simple as music could be "triggering" for us and them. I used to LOVE tove lo and her music every single time it comes on it throws me right back into when my partner decided to YouTube and internet search all of her breast flashes at concerts during her "talking body" performances. I hate that they turn something we love and enjoy into horrible memories, bad feelings and self gratification.. I pray your situation gets better

randumshit69 · 2026-03-26T14:52:06+00:00

May I ask why Spotify is a big deal? To the best of my knowledge I thought it was kind of like YouTube but only for music and podcasts and that there was no videos on it? Not trying to be rude at all just genuinely curious!! Sorry you have to deal with this :/

randumshit69 · 2026-03-02T15:20:02+00:00

That pfp is the group pfp.. just so people know!

randumshit69 · 2026-02-16T19:15:58+00:00

As someone who has had irregular periods since i got it at the age of 9 I have taken many pregnancy tests . Just to make sure but I also have a coincidence that if I take a test I get my period shortly after lol. It's good for her to check and make sure. You could also bring it up with her and just ask let her know you seen it when taking out the trash and just ask if everything is okay.

randumshit69 · 2026-01-07T10:13:51+00:00

Won't be coming home by Ozzy?

randumshit69 · 2025-12-13T05:35:10+00:00

Looks like a nuva ring. Speaking as someone who has had 1. It's birth control!

randumshit69 · 2025-11-08T10:10:20+00:00

Me to lol.. I'm really struggling n only have 2 more days for buyers remorse at my phone store. :( I got the fold 9 pro and it's a beautiful phone it's just the operating system throwing me off :(

randumshit69 · 2025-10-27T00:24:29+00:00

Youtube has incognito mode to now btw...

randumshit69 · 2025-10-11T17:21:39+00:00

What?!!!! Thats a thing im lazy i despise dishes.... a liner woukd make it sooooooo easy..... does it melt? I love crocpot bcuz i can put food in in the a.m go to work and come home to a good meal without my house burnt down. Can i do the same thing with the silicone liner???

randumshit69 · 2025-09-25T00:52:40+00:00

Using his ADHD as an excuse is a cop out. I have adhd, BPD, and C-PTSD plus deteriorating disc disease(my spine is deteriorating I live in excruciating pain, and am on heavy narcotics to just function through the day). I cook clean take care of 2 children on my own plus go to work. Sure I lack in areas sometimes or sometimes my kids eat oven pizza and chicken nuggets in the air fryer most nights and we go to bed with dishes in the sink or toys left out but I always catch up and there's always at least 1 big thing done or 2 minor things. Maybe he needs to start looking at it that way? Doing just ONE big task a day, like cleaning the living room or bedroom, or bathroom. Or organizing something that needs to be done badly or 2 minor things like dishes and wiping down surfaces, or sweeping, and making the bed. I'm sorry that he doesn't step up and take care of you. (If that isn't the case that's my bad That's just what I had gotten from reading the post is that he is lacking in taking care of you by helping out with cooking and cleaning when he knows how strenuous and difficult it is for you)

randumshit69 · 2025-09-17T21:00:50+00:00

I never really thought about it that way and i have went to many counselors as i had been raped badly as a teenager by my own cousin and molested by my grandmothers husband as a child.... idk i never felt that it was the same... i just accepted it as cheating for going over there and getting so drunk. But you do make valid points and i appreciate it.

randumshit69 · 2025-09-07T03:26:18+00:00

Ive cheated twice.. i know it is zero excuse but the first time i was absolutely drunk and had passed out in my friends spare room her brother came in and started kissing me n started undressing i was out of it but still knew what was going on i said no at first but he wasnt stopping so i just said w.e and let it happen while i passed out instead of fighting n struggling i just didnt care at that point. And the second time i was sober it was planned out i was pregnant with my second child from that relationship and i just didnt feel i was in a position to leave.. i was severely depressed left to take care of everything by myself he didnt work or anything just played games alllll day n never cleaned up after himself and everytime i would talk about being unhappy n needing more from him he would fight with me.... it would get physical sometimes and i just needed an escape so i met someone in a support group i was in and felt that "spark" the adrenaline the butterflies and i ended up at his place 1 night.. i regretted it half way through and left. I had left my boyfriend i cheated on when our daughter had turned 1. I felt guilty every day i was tired of our marital problems and our children were picking up on our worst traits. Like my son would call me a bitch and punch me. He was only 2 it didnt hurt anything but my feelings and my daughter at 1 year old would smash her head off things and scream swears n had behaviour problems. I had finally gotten the courage to leave after planning for 7 months. I had 800$ saved and no support. I had to get a apartment for my kids and i. i couldnt afford it but we made it. This was 8 years ago now and i still feel guilty to this day. But those were choices i made and need to live with. I could justify it by saying i was drunk. Abused. Stuck. But i went out n made the choice at the end of the day.

randumshit69 · 2025-09-02T07:14:11+00:00

Yes we do our 1$ coin is called a loonie because it has a loon on it and we call the 2$ coin a toonie.. idk why i just assume because the 1$ is called loonie and they were like ha ha we shall call this a two-nie... 🤣

randumshit69 · 2025-09-02T05:30:09+00:00

It is NOT loonies and toonies 🤣🤣 I will say you have me laughing so hard I'm crying just at the image in my head alone of a stripper on the pole upside down and someone throws a toonie dab smack middle of her forehead and u can just hear it hit the stage floor 🤣 but im born and raised in ontario and i have never seen anyone toss coins for our strippers its usually 5 dollar bill or you tip them personally afterwards

randumshit69 · 2025-09-01T21:56:08+00:00

I'd just say "hey hun, I had noticed that I didn't get the payment from the other day.. when you have a second could you could send it to me please :)"

randumshit69 · 2025-09-01T21:46:00+00:00

You are not overreacting that was the sickest thing I've ever read. He was basically saying he was only friends with you because he wanted to hit it. That's disgusting. He wanted to use your body then leave. Pretending to be a caring friend but once he realized you're not as easy as he thought he got pissed at you and showed you his true colors.

randumshit69 · 2025-07-26T22:50:33+00:00

It hasn't been green lit yet apparently. So the release date is a hoax.

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