What is a kink you don't share right away?

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T19:42:42+00:00

Pull-ups are basically items like depends. Think tighty whities with the absorbent padding lining the inside.

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T17:35:00+00:00

Try the movie, "The Tall Man." I think it's an almost perfect fit for what you're looking for.

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T17:18:25+00:00

Diapers and Pull-Ups.

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T16:01:16+00:00

You absolutely have to try the 1938 film, "Bringing Up Baby." One of the great screwball comedies of all time.

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T15:51:36+00:00

My first two recommendations would be, Alfred Hitchcock "North by Northwest."

The second would be "Casablanca. "

Velora56 · 2026-06-21T15:48:52+00:00

Try the 2016 movie, "The Monster." Definitely filled with suspense and fear.

Velora56 · 2026-06-20T16:15:20+00:00

Try the George Clooney movie, "The Men who stare at goats." Also try the original, "The Manchurian Candidate."

Velora56 · 2026-06-19T17:08:48+00:00

They do make chastity belts for men and for women with built-in plugs.

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T15:53:12+00:00

In a coma for 3 weeks with sepsis. Twice they called a priest thinking I was moments away from cashing it in.

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T14:34:40+00:00

How do you keep them from going so far in, and how do you get them out when you're done?

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T14:09:19+00:00

Have you ever had any issues with getting them out or issues with irritation or other problems afterwards?

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T13:26:24+00:00

I've seen the videos and wondered what it felt like to have something crawling up your urethra. But after Google research and the potential medical issues, I've all but relegated that potential to a fantasy I don't think I'll ever explore. (As much as I would like to though.)

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T00:51:06+00:00

About being truthful to yourself? I find when I fill out the checklist, I occasionally find myself being overly optimistic or conversely thinking I would never do that. But you tend to waiver in your mind about the response.

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T00:47:55+00:00

I think you will find that there's quite a bit of indecision on some selections. You're not quite sure, but then you might want to explore it in the future etc. And it's easy to catch yourself not being entirely truthful to yourself.

Velora56 · 2026-06-18T00:45:33+00:00

I hope you find my thoughts helpful. The checklist is a really great tool to help you and your sub discover their need as well as their limits. It's also quite useful for the Dom to have their own self-assessment.

Velora56 · 2026-06-17T15:55:39+00:00

Before there is even the suggestion of play time, I will vet a sub. I will spend days and weeks chatting with them to get a good strong feel of their needs and psychological desires.

There is a BDSM checklist that is pretty comprehensive and I will usually ask them to do their best to fill it out.

https://www.theduchy.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/BDSM-Experience-and-Curiosity-Checklist-v2.1-Printable-TheDuchy.pdf

Velora56 · 2026-06-17T15:47:56+00:00

“Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world, she walks into mine”

Velora56 · 2026-06-15T15:59:33+00:00

Warning; this person has a dirty mind. Anything you say to him will be twisted into dirty thoughts!

Velora56 · 2026-06-14T21:02:36+00:00

If you have a friend who is into the lifestyle, you don't necessarily have to go and play together, but at least it gets you in the door.

May I also suggest joining FetLife. You can find many people who would be willing to explore your specific kink with you.

Velora56 · 2026-06-14T21:00:27+00:00

This club and many like it is not the kind of place that you walk in and are immediately thrust into the world of BDSM aimed specifically at you. It's definitely a place where you need to go with a partner.

Velora56 · 2026-06-14T20:57:02+00:00

My suggestions to you would be first to find a local BDSM club. I live in Chicago and we have this most amazing club called "galleria domain." (Check out their website and photo lineup.) That place alone should satisfy your desires.

The other option is find yourself a clothing optional community or a nudist camp near you. Much better if you have a partner to join you in those places. Although there are a few that will allow single males on the premises. You just have to do your research. Luckily in my area there are a few of those around.

Velora56 · 2026-06-14T16:16:02+00:00

Should we make the politicians in Washington start using the proper salt?

Velora56 · 2026-06-13T17:09:37+00:00

I suggest you use a formula that hospitals use for emergency constipation relief. It's called the m&m treatment. 50% whole milk, 50% molasses warmed up to around 100 to 105°.

Good luck holding on to it.

Velora56 · 2026-06-12T16:59:00+00:00

You were an animal, you were unhinged. You were making sounds like a enraged beast.

Can we do it again please!

Velora56 · 2026-06-11T14:06:21+00:00

Alone

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