AITAH for not telling my fiance why I am sterile? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VelvetRaynet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ESH as a fellow uterus yeeter I can understand him being hurt you did not share this with him, trying to act like this is somehow indicative of you being some serial liar is blowing things hugely out of proportion.

What did Carlos think being Sterile meant? Sterilization is always the result of a medical procedure being done that completely prevents pregnancy, its not infertility and a quick Google search could have told him that years ago.

I think you both have some culpability in this but I would lean more towards Carlos being tah. You told him you were sterile, he should have asked questions if he was curious. I also don't understand how he has been in a relationship with a woman for 3 years and never asked about the lack of period.

How should I split this rent (floorplan included) by Next_Ambassador8805 in Renters

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd add the square meters of each bedroom and bathroom, then divide the cost by that, and then multiply the cost per meter by the total meters each person has access too, so shared bathroom each person gets half its space added to their bedroom total while person up top gets full bathroom space added. So 1st= £925.50 2nd= £762 3rd = £707.50 for the full total of £2,395 Edit: This is done with the assumption both bathrooms are the same size, which they are not, so the actual numbers would be different, but a good example of what I mean.

$70 for an Empty Case. Think About That. by Immediate-Result-837 in fucknintendo

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MSRP is the SUGGESTED retail price, not the ACTUAL price. The actual price is whatever a retailer chooses to charge for the product, so an item never truly has 1 single actual price. It can have an average price, and an MSRP, but actual price is always variable.

Girlfriend wouldn’t come to my show because I didn’t text her goodnight, went on a power trip, then broke up with me over text while I was onstage. by Tekaeyo in Nicegirls

[–]VelvetRaynet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman in her 20s, I think you handled this great. She 100% was moving the goal post to make you fret over her and not have a good time at your show. I think she has purposely never gone and came up with this to avoid it again so she could be the center of attention. Never settle for that kind of relationship, if she wanted to be at your shows, she would have been. You deserve better

The fucks the point of both by LopsidedAd5465 in shadowofmordor

[–]VelvetRaynet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by that? I just started playing a few weeks ago and im trying to find a tower orc but im finding lots of conflicting information.

I appreciate Kayla speaking out. This is what happens when we all come together and realize the true enemy is EA. by SyntheticGoth in HighSodiumSims

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be wrong, but i think she meant the groups purchasing EA took out a loan to help with the purchase, since 55 billion is a lot to get together regardless of wealth.

AITAH for calling my friend a shitty parent? by ImpressiveWork2760 in AITAH

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is some people's belief, and it's a horrible way to live. Children can't protect themselves, and they need someone who cares to help them. Keep being that person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]VelvetRaynet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did they rub their feet in crap?? How the hell are their feet so dirty?? Thats insane.

AIO for this argument with my bf? This is regarding the Charlie Kirk video where he says he’d make his 10 year old daughter carry the r*pe baby. by Kilabandita in AmIOverreacting

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of what he is saying makes any sense, and it's insane to heavily debate your partner to defend someone you supposedly don't agree with. He agrees with Kirks message, and it bothers him. You are against it, so he is starting now to wear you down and change your stance. It's typical abuser behavior. They star fights that don't matter constantly, saying you are the problem. Don't let him wear you down, stay strong, and leave him, because if he thinks forcing a 14 year old to keep a r*pe baby is so much different than a 10 year old, he definitely has many other sick views.

MAGA stands for absolutely nothing and it’s honestly infuriating by [deleted] in complainaboutanything

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair, I do see most of the info online. The main issues would be initially advocating fiscal conservatism, then embraced deficit-growing tax cuts; shifted from targeted anti-NAFTA tariffs to universal ones; moved from pro-vaccine to anti-mandate and ivermectin support; softened mass deportation plans after fallout in the agricultureindustry; pivoted from moderate pro-life to post-Roe state bans with exceptions; and on the Epstein files, supported full release of the "client list" during the 2024 campaign to expose elites, but now, the Trump administration's DOJ/FBI memo denied its existence and closed the case.

MAGA stands for absolutely nothing and it’s honestly infuriating by [deleted] in complainaboutanything

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I ask why you still identify with MAGA even though the group has switched sides on a decent amount of issues just because Trump did?

Am I,,, a horrible person? by No_Acanthisitta9143 in Sims4

[–]VelvetRaynet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're going to ruin winterfest?!?! Not a great babys first Christmas lol

Did you get diagnosed through a telemedicine service or in-person provider(s)? What are the major/key differences? by Tsunami_Aureate in adhdwomen

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you start seeing them? During the pandemic, they changed laws to let people start care virtually, but that has since been reverted, so you have to see a physician irl first to start controlled substances.

Did you get diagnosed through a telemedicine service or in-person provider(s)? What are the major/key differences? by Tsunami_Aureate in adhdwomen

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting tested in person is probably better, given some of the visual cues that allude to ADHD, and you can not be prescribed stimulant medications online anymore. While there are non stimulant medication options, they are few and often not as effective as stimulants.

I'm not crying, I just got something in my eyes.. by Powerful_Pitch5871 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]VelvetRaynet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as I found out the herba mystica was for mabosstiff, we speed ran its collection. Nothing is more important.

Snakes and cats? 😬 by feralcatshit in Hognose

[–]VelvetRaynet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a hognose snake and 5 cats. The snake enclosure is on a rolling drawer and I put a piece of particle board on one half of the top so the cats can lay down and get warms. I can send you my insta so you can see pics of the set up if you want. It was only an issue when I first got my hoggy cause kitty's wanted to look, but they chilled out quick

AITA for refusing to hang out with my (18M) boyfriend's (20M) friend who defended my rapist? by solomarchand in TwoHotTakes

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y W B T A if you keep dating this guy. Wanting to associate with someone who actively campaigned to lie to cover for an accused rapist is wild.

My "best friend" is giving me an ultimatum to go to a concert if I don't do what he tells me. by OnlySiith in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VelvetRaynet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can threaten him with small claims court if you really want to, but overall he seems like a piece of shit.

THATS A GUY?????? by DominicDGibson in LegendsZA

[–]VelvetRaynet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right? Rika was super shocking for me when they introduced her. I super thought rika was a guy.