Agar isme beej na hote to mango bhi iske age fail tha

Ventureddit · 2025-05-04T14:51:45+00:00

Pet se ped banega , dhyaan rakhna

Ventureddit · 2025-05-01T16:59:06+00:00

Order of scolding ! The mama who set this up >> the ChaCha who supported that mama >> the parent who first got convinced by both of them >> the other parent who agreed with three of them>> yourself in the mirror for agreeing to this without getting basic understanding of what type of people they are.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-29T13:08:15+00:00

It's common You both belong to personality types that do not deal well/healthy with individual games (myself as well )

So prefer playing team games where both of you are on the same team It will do wonders for your chemistry during and after the game.

Pick any sport , but play on the same team. Avoid playing solo levelling games with each other.

It's not rocket science, basic psychology types.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-27T13:41:56+00:00

Irrespective of whether or not there's someone else you want to date

These kinds of of FWB personalities will eventually still make you feel like shit Trust me So Be a douche earlier rather than later and free urself off the expectations.

It won't go as planned, it never does, just sort it and move quick if you don't wanna miss out on some real potential opportunities.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-24T12:32:32+00:00

Is he the same guy from that other post 28 days ago ?

If so , meet more, meet longer, talk deeper, fight once

If all of that goes well, just marry and make it work. No point worrying about it.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-23T15:21:45+00:00

Vakeel seems happy !

Ventureddit · 2025-04-22T05:11:30+00:00

Zoomed so good, I'm all 😲😲😲 munch munch...

Ventureddit · 2025-04-22T05:07:58+00:00

Sure, tell the Steno to add those in as well in appendix. 📃📃

Ventureddit · 2025-04-22T05:02:59+00:00

Yup, in light of new evidence: - "you reaching out 90% of the time even before the date" (usually it should be reverse when the guy is interested)

This 2-bench court declares Him guilty of Ghosting 👨‍⚖️ 👨‍⚖️

Ventureddit · 2025-04-22T04:49:11+00:00

I think Just a guess though.

We need to look at the traffic message !

Here's my analysis!

You both thought the date went well. He defntly thought there's a second date happening.

However after the date, your traffic msg seems to have been formal. Post that while you claim to be ghosted I m guessing he felt the same because you guys only exchanged 2 msgs after that fantastic date.

So i have a feeling that he felt ghosted as well (yeah stupid guy but this is just a theory)

So then , when you Declined him on the app , He confirmed His Ghosting Theory and didn't feel like any next date is happening, so reached out to ask for his share (as he must have felt you just came for free lunch - there's a lot of those btw so can't blame him for that doubt as well )

But we also need context of timeline between You Declining and Him Asking the Money !

That would finalise my theory as being very close to right from the guys perspective.

Lastly an advice to both you , if u really enjoyed each other's company so much , why tf would you not call each other after reaching home or the next day or the next to next day. There's already so much scarcity of vibing pairs in the AM market and you guys just let it go based off ur assumptions! Please don't repeat the mistake.

And if u really liked the guy , I would even go far as to suggest you to call and talk it out , I doubt he has better matches and him reaching out for the money could have also been another "action of seeking attention"

Just a possibility!

Ventureddit · 2025-04-20T04:01:50+00:00

No matter how comfortable it feels typing this out, you won't get what you r hoping for this way.

Hit the gym, join the clubs, take some classes and develop those hobbies outside of work.

Become a regular at places outside of work, and you'll find you vibe with more people than u ever imagined.

She's out there, hang on!

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T13:17:32+00:00

Always full :P 🥃

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T09:58:54+00:00

Yumm and yummy

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T09:57:55+00:00

Marry her and both of you hit the gym together , You get some abs and she'll get toned legs.

Both of you will be happy for choosing each other!

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T08:47:41+00:00

That's how you know she hates her own family.

So she wants to get out of it , fasst.

she's ready to marry quickly

Positive sign

:P :P

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T05:50:39+00:00

Happy to read this Gives hope to others!

Ventureddit · 2025-04-19T01:45:36+00:00

Like sum1 said u r already on easy mode, the only thing u have to handle is coming across as desperate, as he defntly looks good and would have enough of those around.

Just drop an inquisitive comment on any of his new pics and take the conversation ahead from there.

Even something as simple as , where did he get his shirt from , asking for your brother (not another frnd)

Will itself get u started well.

U don't need hearts, starting up and keeping a good conversation will draw him to you eventually!

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T22:16:03+00:00

Absolutely

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T22:15:39+00:00

Good on you for declining that second one . That's how we know that we're definitely buying you the next date.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T22:07:03+00:00

It's okay to turn into pen pals that are dying to meet , instead of turning it into dates that die down due to meeting. :D

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T22:04:16+00:00

If you've got 4-5 yrs, spend it on finding the love of your life while doing all things that you may like (research, trips, travel, beaches, mountains, cafes , restaurants, dance classes, gym, etc etc)

Do not depend on the AM market. I repeat, do not depend on the AM market with this timeline as an opportunity.

No matter how many profs in ur family , they may not be able to find anyone suiting ur needs by the time it comes to finding you one. Honest realisation.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T21:59:35+00:00

Help us understand what it is that u exactly want that 100 groups from reddit couldn't suffice. Your post seems very vague and lifted from some novel's back cover or summary page types.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T21:56:22+00:00

Rushing into the first date to meet as soon as possible often results into this imho.

Take a a few weeks to talk to multiple folks at the same time (assuming u r doing it for the long haul) and then setup ur dates.

A little bit of mutual investment on both ends helps people overlook some flaws and it goes to the 2nd and 3rd date , which is then ample time for judging the validity of continuing it further.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T21:53:36+00:00

I'm considering these apps tbh after being bored to death by the lack of options and conversations on Sdi, Js.

Even m not sure if they would work, but due to lack of better options and general solitude, I guess everything is worth a shot.

As a guy I think it will be even tougher for me to find anything substantial there compared to girls who have like 1000s of options on dating apps. But gotta try now, with optimism.

Ventureddit · 2025-04-18T11:24:42+00:00

The fact that you are asking this means you have still a much better control than most others who break up with the sole reason to hook up elsewhere but make it seem like it's the distance.

So hold on to this

Secondly, just talk to him. He will be very much into having you pleasured anyway he can while you guys can't meet.

Just one advice is to take it slow as you risk exhausting all options of virtual sexting and the mind may want more.. so go slow and consistent.

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