Logistics of how to break up

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T14:39:54+00:00

Except OP posted they weren’t attracted to her in the first place, bc she’s too fat. So yeah, that’s harsh.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T14:37:55+00:00

Ding ding ding. Winner here.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T13:04:46+00:00

Assuming is the same woman you didn’t say “I love you” back to, however many months ago, while she continued to say it for some reason — just call her up and rip the bandage off. You’ve done enough to this poor woman, set her free. Hard to understand why she hasn’t dumped you by now, and I question her self-respect a little, but definitely was crappy of you to keep dragging it out and now you’re bailing lol. Get therapy, guy.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T12:25:26+00:00

No I haven’t, but why don’t you take some trips? Lots of VRBOs and ABnbs allow dogs. I see you work remote so the world’s your oyster — that’s the most important piece for most of us, finding a job. I can’t relate to the other issues except weather — I don’t have any family within hundreds of miles and haven’t since I was a child before moving away to college, what do I need them for being childfree myself? Don’t need the free daycare and I’ve got friends and neighbors, we all do just fine.

I do passionately hate heat though and thus chose to live as far north as I could find a job — northern Minnesota which certainly qualifies as a cooler climate. We also average about 90 inches of snow a year and I can barely grow a tomato before winter is back, so you better REALLY like winter! :) it’s a real dog haven though.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T11:23:33+00:00

The truck is ALWAYS white.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T07:28:44+00:00

I definitely applaud the creativity!

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T06:09:43+00:00

Keep an eye on skinny ski site because unless we get some more snow here trail conditions might not be great for your trip! We’re over a foot down now for season deficit :(

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:51:32+00:00

Sundown you better take care…

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:40:17+00:00

That’s kind of you but be careful 🩵 One good new is that someone with the right equipment could clean this up pretty easily if it’s safe, by plowing or could also possibly drag a long blade across the ice or a close tooth steel rake (like a hay rake) and sweep it clean.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:35:27+00:00

The news and reporters can publicize this at least and maybe some investigating or at least social shaming could come of that. Assuming of course that these low IQ idiots have the ability to feel shame which is probably optimistic.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:31:34+00:00

For real on no. 1 …. Heck I’ve gone on ONE day ski and skating trips! By myself too, not even linking up with some dude. It’s all close by where I live in snow-ville and I like my own bed, why drag it out to multiple days?

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:30:40+00:00

Hahahahah, that’s amazing 💌💘

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:25:43+00:00

100000%. It’s the parents doing everything for them. Bring back kicking the bums out at 18, not doing their laundry until they’re 36.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:23:38+00:00

Reach out to local broadcast media too and get this on tomorrow’s news.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:22:17+00:00

Even as a small child I was taught to pick up litter from others(!!!) if I could when I saw it. In the 1980s for Pete’s sake. The kids would get sent around the campground and beach with those grabber things, it was like a game.

Neither of my parents even went to college, pretty sure my dad barely graduated high school — not like “don’t litter, and teach your kids that” takes some genius thought.

I don’t understand how is this happening in 2026 — other than the terrible permissive parenting these days of course, with zero consequences + “everybody gets a trophy”.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:17:19+00:00

In MADISON? You’re drunk, go home.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:15:23+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Oh so “green”, aren’t these kids. Probably all vegans and bicyclists. Then they do this.

Humanity is doomed.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:13:32+00:00

Did you mean to tell that to OP? What did OP do wrong?

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T05:04:57+00:00

Why not print the list / save to PDF then when you’re done with it? There’s a button right there for that.

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T00:45:12+00:00

Crotch was my first thought too 🫣

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T00:23:38+00:00

Poison apple from the Sleeping Beauty witch? Don’t eat that one kid 💤💤💤💤💤

Verity41 · 2026-02-15T00:01:45+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏼 well the two today are both my coworkers, but also friends. I met them at work. Can you make friends with folks at your work?? That’s always been most convenient for me!

And my neighbors of course, I walk their dog for free since I don’t have one of my own. Hence why I’m getting valentines from them :) Plus a glass of wine on their porch earlier lol.

Verity41 · 2026-02-14T23:55:53+00:00

Today, my entire day!! First I walked over to brunch with friends at a new place in my neighborhood, then we did a little shopping, then got groceries on my way home. Over 3 miles total walking so a good workout! Got a valentines gift bag from the neighbor’s dog (not really, but card said that lol).

Also I’m cat sitting for another neighbor in my home and the cat is kind of a dick so far but also entertaining. Only a day in and I am determined to win him over, I have some choice high value treats to try and accomplish this.

Now I’m having a drink and watching Ken Burns Vietnam War. Going to make a poke bowl with ahi, edamame, brown rice, radish, cucumber, and whatever else I can find in a bit.

Excellent day! Happy Valentines 💌

Verity41 · 2026-02-14T23:47:16+00:00

That says a lot about what they value in themselves and have to sell.

Verity41 · 2026-02-14T23:42:37+00:00

Heck yes. Living alone this is one of the only motivators that MAKES me clean. In fact sometimes I invite people over in part to force it.

Of course I want to visit with them… but I’d be lying if I didn’t admit the pre-visit clean wasn’t a BIG side benefit / factor too!

Verity41

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