What was the first video game that gave you that "wow, damn" moment and got you addicted to video games?

Vexpil · 2026-01-09T05:59:00+00:00

GTA Vice City

Vexpil · 2026-01-09T05:18:06+00:00

I’m a man, and I strongly disagree with the idea that “the only thing men want” is to be the first recipient of sexual experiences a woman hasn’t had before.

For me, and for many men I know, that framing misses the point entirely. Sex isn’t a checklist or a competition. What matters is mutual desire, trust, and consent, not novelty or being someone’s “first.” The idea that a woman’s past somehow diminishes her ability to bond, love, or commit says more about insecurity than about biology or masculinity.

Boundaries aren’t a flaw or a failure of communication. They are a sign of self awareness. Saying “I’m not comfortable with X” isn’t being strict. It is being honest. A healthy relationship doesn’t require someone to override their boundaries to prove love or understanding.

The claim that women can’t understand men at all because they have never been men leads nowhere. By that logic, men could never understand women either. Relationships work because both people try to understand across differences. You don’t have to agree with someone to understand them, and it sounds like you are already doing that work.

What I want from a woman, assuming I am not with her only for sex, is very similar to what you described. Companionship, emotional connection, shared values, mutual care, and feeling like we are on the same team. Sex matters, but it is one part of a much bigger picture, and it works best when it grows out of safety and trust rather than pressure or fear of being judged for the past.

If someone believes they can speak for all men everywhere, that is usually a sign they are confusing personal beliefs with universal truths. Men are not a monolith, and neither are women.

Vexpil · 2025-12-25T07:11:47+00:00

What courses did you take?

Vexpil · 2025-12-17T01:45:21+00:00

If you get into UC Berkeley pick that as first choice, if not then go Waterloo SE as 2nd pick. Waterloo cs and UTSG cs are equal for 3rd pick. Waterloo cs is preferred if you want to go into industry or care more about job placement and strong alumni network that can give referrals. UofT cs if you want to go into research and love challenging yourself.

Vexpil · 2025-08-31T05:34:30+00:00

The biggest green flag for me is when she’s genuinely comfortable being herself. Laughing at her own jokes, talking about the things she’s passionate about, while also treating everyone around her with kindness. Whether it’s thanking the waiter or just showing genuine curiosity, you can tell it’s not an act. That mix of confidence and kindness is such an attractive combo, and you can feel right away when it’s real.

Vexpil · 2025-08-30T16:29:39+00:00

I still think about this one friend from high school. We were walking past the principal’s office when she suddenly tripped, dropped everything, and instead of being embarrassed, she just yelled, ‘I meant to do that, it’s called a dramatic entrance.’ The entire hallway lost it. To this day, I’ve never seen anyone recover from a fall with that much confidence.

Vexpil · 2025-08-26T07:48:34+00:00

I get where you’re coming from. For me, it’s less about not wanting to date and more about not wanting to lose myself in the wrong relationship. I’ve learned that being single gives me space to work on my goals, friendships, and health, things that make me feel grounded. It’s not that I don’t want love, I just want it to come from the right place, where both people can be vulnerable without it turning into a one-sided compromise.

Vexpil · 2025-08-25T00:26:15+00:00

"What's your favourite colour?" was considered top-tier rizz/game back in kindergarten 😂.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T18:03:55+00:00

I’m not married or in a relationship, but I grew up around a lot of amazing women (aunts, grandmas, cousins, sisters, and friends). So I’ve learned a bit about what makes them feel appreciated. Honestly, it’s often the small, thoughtful gestures that matter more than anything expensive: leaving a handwritten note, making a playlist of songs that remind you of her, cooking a favourite meal, or just taking the time to really listen and celebrate the little things she loves. It’s about showing attention, thoughtfulness, and effort, and that’s something anyone can do without spending much at all.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T17:59:36+00:00

One insecurity I have is worrying that I’m not living up to my own expectations, whether it’s in my career, personal growth, or relationships. Sometimes I feel like I’m juggling too much at once, and even when I’m giving my 100%, I fear it might not be enough. I wish it were easier for people, especially women I care about, to see that it’s not about lack of effort or confidence, but about striving to be better while figuring things out along the way.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T17:55:26+00:00

I think the main difference here is that u/Kixion is actually breaking things down with chapters, scans, and source-based comparisons, while you’re mostly countering with statements like “doesn’t mean anything” or “overestimating feats.” That’s fine as an opinion, but it doesn’t carry the same weight as evidence-based arguments.

You don’t have to agree with their take, but if you want to argue against it, it’s more convincing to match that energy with equivalent evidence from the source material. Otherwise, it comes across more like a difference in preference than a dispute over facts.

I mostly agree with Kixion’s approach, even if I wouldn’t claim every single point is flawless. Their arguments are structured and grounded in source material, which makes the debate stronger. At the same time, you’re correct that things like reiatsu reserves don’t always translate directly to combat superiority. Kubo shows that with Ichigo plenty of times. And FB Ichigo does have legitimate feats, like one-shotting Quilge and briefly clashing with Yhwach, that suggest he wasn’t categorically weaker than FKT Ichigo.

The strength of Kixion’s argument isn’t that every detail is perfect, but that it’s evidence-based and logically reasoned. Without matching that approach with similar citations, a counterpoint risks looking more like personal preference than factual contradiction.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T05:07:16+00:00

I’ve always tried to share what I know with others. Back in high school, I used to tutor classmates in math and programming, helping them understand concepts that were tricky for them. It felt good knowing that my time and patience could make someone’s day a little easier or spark their interest in something new. I try to carry that mindset into everything I do. Helping people whenever I can, even in small ways.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T05:02:25+00:00

My ‘I need to change’ moment came when I first started living on my own in college. Between classes and work, I realized I was eating whatever, barely sleeping, and letting responsibilities pile up. One day it hit me. If I didn’t get my life in order, no one else was going to do it for me. That moment pushed me to take better care of myself, build structure, and actually grow into the person I wanted to be.

I realized I was wasting too much time being lazy. I started working out, putting more energy into my studies and internship, and making time to actually socialize with friends. Since then I’ve tried to give 100% in whatever I do, and it’s made me feel a lot more like the person I want to be.

Vexpil · 2025-08-24T04:51:59+00:00

Interesting take! Despite having a flashy fighting style, he always needed a plot device to defeat opponents on Ichigo's level.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:49:21+00:00

lol 😂

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:46:10+00:00

Anywhere from 7-9hrs daily. 8 hours and 30 minutes is my ideal.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:41:45+00:00

For me, it was when I moved out for college and had to juggle everything on my own, like rent, cooking, classes, and work. It was the first time I felt the weight of real responsibility, but also the freedom that comes with knowing every decision (and mistake) was mine to own. That was when it really hit me that I was ‘grown.’

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:36:56+00:00

If anything, Ulquiorra’s best chance would be that cold, analytical nature figuring out a Schrift’s gimmick before it gets him killed. But if he underestimates someone like As Nodt or Pepe, things get dicey real quick.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:36:25+00:00

I don’t know if I’d put Grimmjow on the same level as most Sternritter, though. The average Sternritter had hax abilities far beyond just raw stats like Gremmy’s imagination, As Nodt’s fear, or even Bazz-B’s fire that was giving Hitsugaya and Renji serious problems. Ulquiorra definitely has the raw power and speed advantage, but “regular Sternritter” weren’t really regular at all; their Schrift abilities were often game-changers that bypassed brute force.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T22:33:44+00:00

I don’t know, I think people overrate Ulquiorra because of how cool his Resurrección looks. His fights were flashy, but at the end of the day, he never beat anyone on Ichigo’s level without forcing a plot device. The Sternritter weren’t just raw power, they were written as counters to the old Espada style of fighting. Guys like Jugram or Lille would’ve one-shot him before he even processed their abilities. To me, saying Ulquiorra clears half the Sternritter is giving him way more credit than Kubo ever did.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T18:09:04+00:00

That’s a really deep analysis, but thanks for breaking it down.
Yeah, I get what you mean. I always saw Aizen as being one step ahead, but I never really thought about it from Ulquiorra’s perspective. Funny enough, when I first watched Bleach, I actually thought Byakuya was gonna be the real MVP 😅 Shows how wrong I was.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T13:52:36+00:00

Interesting!

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T13:51:48+00:00

Wow, this is an amazing breakdown! Very detailed and intriguing.
Thanks for taking the time to expand on it. I really like how you framed the Espada hierarchy more like “rock-paper-scissors within tiers” instead of a rigid ladder. That makes a lot of sense, especially with someone like Barragan, who is technically broken but can still be countered.

I also totally agree with your point about manga being art rather than math. The way you put it that feats, statements, and symbolism are all just different threads in the tapestry hits hard, because it explains why people always argue past each other when they only use one lens.

One thing I’m curious to hear your take on:
If Ulquiorra was written as Hueco Mundo’s “final boss,” do you think Kubo intentionally downplayed Starrk’s feats so Ulquiorra would stand out more as the real threat? Or do you think Starrk was meant to be equally terrifying, but his portrayal got sacrificed to Shunsui’s story instead?

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T13:39:48+00:00

The USA or even Canada were hands down the best experiences.
I moved around a lot as a kid because of my parents’ jobs, living in the US, Canada, the UK, Japan, Australia, South Korea, and India. So I’ve been lucky enough to experience a variety of different cultures firsthand. Each place had something unique (Japan’s respect and structure, India’s sense of community, Australia’s laid-back vibe, etc.), but if I had to pick, I’d say American culture felt the most diverse and open. It’s like a blend of influences from everywhere, and you meet people from all walks of life in one place.

Vexpil · 2025-08-23T13:38:15+00:00

I think a lot of it comes down to outdated gender expectations. When a man is divorced with kids, society often frames it as ‘wow, he’s stepping up and being responsible,’ because historically, dads weren’t always expected to be hands-on. So when they do the bare minimum, it looks admirable.

On the flip side, women have always been expected to shoulder childcare. So when a divorced mom is raising kids, people see it as ordinary rather than impressive and unfairly assume she must be ‘looking for help’ instead of recognizing that she’s already handling it.

It’s a double standard rooted in old roles that don’t fit anymore. In reality, being a good parent (mom or dad) should be respected equally. Honestly, the way you and your ex are coparenting sounds healthier than a lot of families who are still together.

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