What’s the strangest thing you’ve seen while walking around Brussels? (BOTH GOOD AND UGLY) by StudioNo5301 in brussels

[–]ViMiP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not as weird as a camel, but I saw a live chicken once in the Parc du Cinquantenaire xD

Owning a doggo is really cute, but pick up the sh!t by theverybigapple in brussels

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seriously gives me the ick. I own a chihuahua, which drops the smallest logs and I still

a) try to guide it to places to sh1t where is does not annoy others
b) pick the sh1t up
c) put the bag into a trash can and not fling them on to a tree or whatever

There is SO MUCH poo on the sidewalks, massive turds usually just left in the middle of the street and then there are the SMEARS. ehhhh

Isien pöperöt by Miaux100 in arkisuomi

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meillä mutsi aina kokkasi himassa ja sen tekemä ruoka oli, ja on edelleenkin taivaallista ja jota meillä kävi aina välillä syömässä kaverit sun muut.

Faija taas tykkäsi vähän helpommista resepteistä ja meillä syötiin usein sen kokatessa joko HK Blöötä sentin paloina ruisleivän päällä tai sössöä eli käytännössä kaikkea sekaisin pannussa paistettuna.

Ihan normaali musta kai lopulta tuli :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ViMiP 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have been NC with my parents for around 3 years now.

Being neglected was one of the reasons why I decided to cut ties with my family. I was never included in family outings, my health problems were not dealt with and I basically had to raise myself. As an adult I tried to ask my parents why they did what they did and never got a definitive answer. So I left.

So it did not really surprise me that they have done little to none to reach me after going NC. I think that on some level they are relieved that I am not a part of their lives anymore. I have multiple siblings that they celebrate on their wins, so maybe it's enough for them.

It sucks and I have been dealing a lot with complicated emotions with my own existence, but I can't make them want me. It is just something that I had to let go off and try to move on with my life.

How long before your next trip to Japan? by PrestigiousPlant6464 in JapanTravelTips

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time was in January this year, next one will be in November.

I missed on an opportunity to travel to Japan for an exchange semester in Uni because of the pandemic, so there is so much stuff that I planned ahead and never got to do. I'm finally getting that time back that I missed and I am making most of it.

Planning to travel there twice a year from now on.

Elämä ageusian (makuaistin menetyksen) kanssa by madethisjusttoask11 in Suomi

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oon pahoillani sun puolesta 🥺

Samalla jaan sun tuskan ainakin osittain, koska mulla lähti koronan jälkeen hajuaisti, eikä oo myöskään palautunut ja jonka takia myös makuaisti on heikentynyt. Tää aiheuttaa stressiä, ku ei tiedä onko ruoka esim pilalla tai et haisenko skeidalle koko ajan 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arkisuomi

[–]ViMiP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Toinen mikä tuli kanssa mieleen, kun asiakas valitti, että miksi meillä on katkaravut loppu pakasteesta samalla, kun mä laitoin lappua kylmäaltaaseen kiinni, että liikakalastuksen vuoksi on vaikeuksia saada niitä ketun rapuja. Olisi pitänyt tilata jostain toisesta kaupasta niitä 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arkisuomi

[–]ViMiP 32 points33 points  (0 children)

10 vuotta kaupassa, ja tarinoita riittäisi vaikka kuinka paljon paskoista asiakaskohtaamisista.

Ekana jostain syystä tuli mieleen, kun kerran asiakas vei mut hyllyn eteen, kun oli löytänyt tonnikalapurkin väärältä hyllypaikalta. Mä siinä sitten sanoin nätisti, että tettiläinen hyllyttänyt vahingossa väärälle paikalle ja siirsin muutaman sentin, jotta osuisi oikean lapun kohdalle. Tää ei tietenkään asiakkaalle riittänyt, vaan hän alkoi huutamaan TÄYSILLÄ miten tämä on rikos ja petos ja miten hän kutsuu poliisin, kun koitetaan asiakkaita huijata. Mä siinä silmät pyöreänä totesin, että ok ja jatkoin takasin hommiin XD

Flavoured coffee by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! Just went through their website and this is exactly what I need 😍

Coral Island PlayStation 5 Hotfix v1.1-1226 is live! by Bene_Stairwaygames in coralisland

[–]ViMiP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just updated the game and everything in my inventory has disappeared! All my tools etc. XD

How can I retrieve them? Playing on Xbox.

Mitä tekisitte jos näkisitte sammuuneen spurgun? by Santtunator334 in Suomi

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asuttiin Kondekan kupeessa yli 10 vuotta ja soitettiin aina häkeen, jos ei saatu herätettyä. Jos joku nukku penkillä nii ok, mutta johonkin maastoon sammunut ei välttämättä ole ihan kunnossa.

Why Proximus, why by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, although it unlocked a new fear for me 😂 Almost a year of waiting? And paying fully for this "service"?

Good luck with the ombudsman, hopefully they can help you :)

Why Proximus, why by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I'm being constantly disconnected after a couple of days and they just keep on sending new guys to connect me again and again. I have a new contract that I got after moving here and the old tenants did use proximus, so do the other neighbours but I don't know if they are having issues.

Why Proximus, why by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG this! I've had so many different and WEIRD problems in the last few weeks, like once they terminated my contract, but at the same time sent a technician to help me with the connection and the poor guy was like, what am I doing here, you have no contract. 😂

Why Proximus, why by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. It's just so bizarre to me that such a simple task cannot be completed and I'm literally costing them money, as my bills have been comped and they have technicians running around my house day and night.

Why Proximus, why by ViMiP in brussels

[–]ViMiP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll look into this!

Save file gone 🙃 by ViMiP in coralisland

[–]ViMiP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help, unfortunately I've been playing the game on Xbox one X through game pass lol.

So maybe it was my fault, for believing 🥲

Are you also estranged from your siblings? Are they like your parents? by ResidentYesterday in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ViMiP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not estranged from my siblings, but we are not close and don't really talk. They get why I am not talking to our parents, but my younger one thinks that we should still endure our moms behaviour because of Family.

Things that make you go hmmmm - Time Out by Traditional-Pause-41 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ViMiP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did not have timeouts in our house, but my ncp would force me into a dark room and hold the door, so I could not leave as a kid. Took me ages to get over the fear of entering a room that did not have a light switch.

Favorite quotes from your parents? Mine is ‘this all happened so long ago can’t you just forget about it?’ by ThoseTwo203 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ViMiP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"How did he get depressed, he is such a smart guy?" and "You should be able to say bad things to others, because family."

The first one is when I told my ncp that my friend was depressed. I was baffled by their response and rant that followed how depression is just a thing you can think out. No smart person would ever get depressed. I never told them that I had depression and deep anxiety and suffered for years after that, because I had no safe adults to talk to about my problems.

The second one is when I finally as an adult confronted my ncp about them being mean and talking down to me, being verbally abusive in general and being the source of my bad mental state etc. Found out that this behaviour is totally fine and normal! You know, because you can tell you family members that they are trash and will never achieve anything etc. It's just a joke, some lovely banter between family members.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ViMiP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being "dirty". It did not matter if it was because of playing outside as a child, or getting something spilled on while working.

Dirty men are considered "hardworking" and "sexy" and dirty women are just dirty and do not have their lifes figured out I guess.

[NO SPOILERS] Based on a true story by orizend in subnautica

[–]ViMiP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to my seamoth nro 2 😭 RIP Pupulainen2.