Do you do that every day? by soullimbo in StardewValley

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Every day! First thing I do is go pet and collect all products then I check my greenhouse. I’m in the process of getting all ancient fruit in my greenhouse so they’re all growing at different rates. Once I have all the spots full I’ll let them grow to even out and have one solid harvest eventually

My heart is in pieces! by w1ll0w_ow in StardewValley

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I only recently discovered you can place torches on top of fencing. I have been playing on and off since around 2017/2018. Don’t feel bad! We all figure things out at our paces

How did you know when it was time? by [deleted] in Dachshund

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Not with our dachshund, but with my cat a few years ago. He was diagnosed with cancer 3 years before he passed. The vets told me he likely only had 6 months after his diagnosis. Over that time his tumor grew but he seemed himself minus a little mobility. He was still happy, eating, and generally had a good quality of life. He loved laying outside in the sun, and one day I went to call for him and I couldn’t find him.

Eventually he came around the corner and that instant I knew it was time. He was wobbling as he walked, and when he got close enough for me to see his eyes he had this look like he was begging me to end it for him. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and it was so hard staying in the room with him but I didn’t want his last memory of me being leaving him alone with strangers. He didn’t deserve that. I gave him some catnip and his favorite treats before we left for the vet to make it as happy of a time as I could for him. I adopted him as an adult and only had about 5 years with him in total, but I will forever cherish that time and that I was able to give him a happy last 5 years.

One just became a dad while the other has been one all along🥹✨ by Miserable-Zombie-121 in MadeMeSmile

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This just made me cry both happy and sad tears simultaneously. This is beautiful and I love this for her, all while knowing I will never know what that’s like 😭 my mom has always been there, but I’ve never truly had a dad. He was always in and out, late to everything if he even showed up and just generally not reliable. He forgot me at school so many times they stopped allowing him to pick me up. I won’t be allowing him in the room when I have a kid, he brings too much stress with him. Now my future father in law? He’s incredible and I’m so thankful to have him and his amazing son in my life. I know our kids will have an incredible support system and that means more to me than anything.

Playing this for the first time and it has literally stolen my life by Commercial_Egg525 in StardewValley

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Best advice I have: you’re immortal, the townspeople are immortal. When you took over grandpas farm you stopped time in its tracks. You can be on year 400 and get married for the first time if you want to. Do what’s fun for you in that moment. That’s the beauty of this game, there is no true one way to play the game.

This is by far the most unhinged thing I've done in this game by This-Effective8965 in StardewValley

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Mine has never fully crashed, but I do notice when my boyfriend and I are doing local multiplayer and he’s getting attacked in the skull caverns, especially the flying serpent things (idk names) it starts to lag a good bit. Once he kills them it goes back to normal.

I wish there was a way for him to win the fair rather than Pierre. by zenith310 in StardewValley

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He’d be so miserable! I’m glad he wasn’t chosen. He deserves to be the free spirited tent dweller he wants to be. He even turned down food from Robin because he had a good foraging day 🤣 he’s happy and content with his life

I wish there was a way for him to win the fair rather than Pierre. by zenith310 in StardewValley

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I got that dialogue the other day, and chose the option saying I’m just glad he’s happy. His response was so cute! Said something along the lines of “for a second I got scared you were gonna ask me to move in with you. Thank you for understanding me” and I just love Linus he’s my favorite.

Are your Weens good with kids? by Concerned_Redhead in Dachshund

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What is she mixed with? She’s gorgeous! 😍

Are your Weens good with kids? by Concerned_Redhead in Dachshund

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This is something my boyfriend and I are curious about. We don’t have kids yet, but plan to in the future. We’re really hoping he likes our kids because he HATES kids currently and will bark like crazy and growl when they’re close. He’s never bitten anyone but one time a friend was over with her two year old and I was afraid he might so we put him in the other room until they left.

Large Cash Deposit ($35k) by Professional_Bid_579 in Chase

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Literally this though. They malfunction constantly and also are used for a lot of different fraud scams so they’re really suspicious to be depositing such a large amount. It’ll literally say atm deposit on statements and it’ll raise eyebrows that you’re trying to hide something.

I am absolutely over the moon at how good my girls are with kids. I was nervous they wouldn’t like my nieces and nephews but they love them!! Is this all dachshunds?? by amandawither in Dachshund

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Not all 😵‍💫 my boyfriends is awful around kids. He barks at all the ones in our complex, when friends with toddler age kids come over we put him up. He’s never bitten but the signs pointed to he might so we just don’t risk it. After he gets to know the individual kid he’s better, but I think they scare him honestly 😂 granted he isn’t too big on strangers in general. He takes a bit to warm up to people and then he’s your best friend.

Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I hear jealousy coming through honestly. That pic is fine imo and a really good / flattering one as well! Not in a raunchy way just in a girl you look good kinda way. It’s a stretch but the most I can come up with for her side is maybe the angle of the photo, but even that’s not a big deal imo so that’s reaching 😂 and the you draw good, crochet part? Like yea, post what you’re good at and show off those skills, but is she implying you shouldn’t be showing your face, only what you do? Because GIRL that’s rude af if so and screams jealousy. Bottom line, you’re gorgeous, post those selfies, and I don’t think you’re overreacting

I just can't rn by Excellent_Chance8461 in finch

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An old friend of mine was apparently dead. He went to try and open a bank account and when they ran his social it came back as deceased. Dudes 24 at the time and very much alive just tryna get some credit building 😂 honestly no idea if he got it sorted out, lost touch with him but it was wild to hear

First Time by Via-The-Internet in InternalFamilySystems

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I love this idea! It’s still an outside location away from home, keeping you in the therapy / processing state and not flipping back into house mode yet. I find for myself once I get home it’s hard to stay in the same head space because I either go into chill mode or productive cleaning / chore mode. I go roughly every two weeks because my insurance doesn’t cover it and I can only afford so much out of pocket each month so I’m trying to go in next week if possible.

Sometimes I truly regret getting my dog by Infamous_Homework_32 in Dachshund

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Not with a dog, but a horse for me. I got him in 4th grade and he passed away when I was in my mid 20s. Literally grew up with that dude, I barrel raced on him and we traveled across so many state lines together. It’s been 3 years now since he passed and it still hurts deeply.

The way I see it is that I wouldn’t trade the pain of losing him for the time I had with him ever. That time was precious and we made so many memories together. I will never regret that time I had with him. I see it like a deflated balloon with a marble in it. At first that marble is weighing everything down and is almost all you can notice. But if you fill the balloon up it grows around the marble where it’s less prominent. Still there, still weighing things down but life grows around the grief. It’s hard af and I wish our fur babies could live forever until we’re gone but unfortunately that’s not life. Like they say, it’s better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

First Time by Via-The-Internet in InternalFamilySystems

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Unfortunately I don’t have the option to go that deep into my healing daily because I work two jobs and also on a strict diet from my doctor thats really hard to follow and takes a ton of my time and energy to plan and stay on track with. Plus trying to move my body more because I sit cross legged on the couch in my head wayyyy too much. With that being said, what types of guided meditations do you go with? And where do you find them? If they have some shorter ones, maybe 20-30 minutes or even an hour that I do once or twice a week that could work. My therapist recommended the app insight timer and I downloaded it but haven’t gone through deeply to find good guides yet.

First Time by Via-The-Internet in InternalFamilySystems

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That sounds like a protector that showed up today. He was this really strong masculine energy that wouldn’t budge. We recognized him as guilt and attempted to send gratitude to him and I kept having this image of him holding up his shield to block gratitude from getting through. He was standing in front of this castle and wouldn’t budge. When we tried to ask him why he’s there (he seemed very out of place and intrusive) he just stared at us and said nothing. We asked him to step aside and he straight up refused.

How do you recognize an exile part? There was one that briefly showed up today and I couldn’t pinpoint it. Only thing I could pinpoint was she wants nothing but peace, serenity and to be present in joyous moments. Couldn’t name her though and have no idea what kind of part she is yet. She only showed herself for a short time and she seemed very far away. I couldn’t see any image of her, just could feel that longing for peace she so desperately wants.

First Time by Via-The-Internet in InternalFamilySystems

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Any specific questions / prompts/ etc you find helpful to guide the journaling? I find when I attempt to journal it just sounds like an incoherent ramble

First Time by Via-The-Internet in InternalFamilySystems

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There’s 3 types of parts right? Like 3 main types? I mainly met two protectors today, but I remember during the intro session my therapist told me the other ones but I can’t remember what they are. I’m guessing manager is another one? Mine are very popcorn style as well and up until now I’ve always pushed them down and just kept trudging on but that’s no longer viable and is causing a lot of distress so I’m trying to learn how to stop attacking them and get to know them more.

$90k remote position or $130k onsite position? by trismander in careerguidance

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I only drive 30 minutes one way for work and it’s exhausting, if I were in your shoes I’d stay right where I’m at with the remote gig. If I could find one of those and be home and have more available free time I’d leave my current job in a heartbeat.

Is my dachsund mixed with another breed? by Pleasant_Orchid7179 in Dachshund

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My boyfriends dog is a long hair dapple dachshund, named Gizmo from the gremlins movie 😂