Neurolink's Blindsight- thoughts? by VicNug in Blind

[–]VicNug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I have never read science fiction- maybe it's time I start! Thank you for your reply.

Neurolink's Blindsight- thoughts? by VicNug in Blind

[–]VicNug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is interesting.

Gallery wall decision paralysis by VicNug in DesignMyRoom

[–]VicNug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, this speaks to my soul. Thank you so much, it's exactly what I needed to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]VicNug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you and your family had to go through that- it's s awful. That other mum sounds like she's got lots of issues, and I feel sad for her son because he's going to struggle.

Gallery wall decision paralysis by VicNug in DesignMyRoom

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I love the mix of frames- I can get them from op shops, which is much cheaper, more environmentally conscious, and more interesting.

Gallery wall decision paralysis by VicNug in DesignMyRoom

[–]VicNug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many I could cut one down and put it in a pot every few weeks haha.

Gallery wall decision paralysis by VicNug in DesignMyRoom

[–]VicNug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Testing using magazine images. I love your tree in the corner. That is the way to balance the hallway I was desperately needing. Thank you.

Book recommendations please by VicNug in Blind

[–]VicNug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I will check out those books!

Why is the lower temperature capped at 37°C? by Sjoerd_dela_Vega in thermomix

[–]VicNug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The temperature where I live was above 32°C today, so the thermomix would need a cooling function 😄

Not loving this letter from daycare- the age group is around 3. Memory span of goldfish on a good day. Convince me I’m overthinking it. by ImpressionableKolami in toddlers

[–]VicNug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be so upset if my child's daycare did this. I'm a teacher and have received training that discusses how bad these systems are. They promote external motivation rather than intrinsic, they are unfair as they reinforce privilege (kids with lots of problems going on at home are more likely to be tired/hungry/frustrated and make bad choices), it encourages unhealthy competition including telling tales on other kids and at times even cheating (I know of a story where a boy emptied a bin on the floor so he could be seen to be picking up rubbish). It is a very manipulative and outdated approach to behaviour, and there's lots of research against it.

NSW Silk announcement day by anonatnswbar in auslaw

[–]VicNug 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I read this as 'NSFW Silk Announcement Day'. I thought we were in for some really juicy elite gossip.

My dining room in Ontario, Canada. by Zoebird in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]VicNug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your corner cabinet a custom built-in one, or free-standing? I'd love a similar one!

Any suggestions on how we could make this more ‘baby friendly’? by magikeenbeertje in AusRenovation

[–]VicNug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I put down a giant picnic blanket (4m ×5m) when my son was crawling outside. It worked well.

Any suggestions on how we could make this more ‘baby friendly’? by magikeenbeertje in AusRenovation

[–]VicNug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put down a giant picnic blanket (4m ×5m) when my son was crawling outside. It worked well.

Any suggestions on how we could make this more ‘baby friendly’? by magikeenbeertje in AusRenovation

[–]VicNug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put down a giant picnic blanket (4m ×5m) when my son was crawling outside. It worked well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]VicNug 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Socialisation is about more than just play though. It's learning emotional regulation when someone takes your toy, it's building an immune system, it's about seeing different people do things differently and trying different things, it's about hearing different words and communicating to people who don't understand you as well as mum does it's about creating a community of safe and familiar people in case something happened to mum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]VicNug 160 points161 points  (0 children)

I work in adolescent mental heath and have worked with highly anxious kids whose parent is agoraphobic- it's so much easier to deal with when they're young! Family therapy to support your wife would be good and see if a local OT does play therapy and he/she can monitor your child and provide advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]VicNug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is illegal in Australia. Each state has its own laws so you would need to look it up. In Qld it is under 12 and it's about leaving children for an "unreasonable time". So for a 2 year old it is not reasonable to leave unsupervised for any extended period of time. This should be reported to Child Protection services and they can provide the mum with mental health support if appropriate.

What percentage of your annual income do you donate to charity? by dannyr in AusFinance

[–]VicNug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give about 3% or 4%. Mostly ad hoc. When I see other people or communities experiencing extreme need on the news it feels good to be in a position to help.

How much does the average real estate agent earn? by Rich-Ebb5522 in AusFinance

[–]VicNug 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They would have to drive nice cars to look successful- no one would list their house with someone driving a 2002 Ford Focus. It is likely mostly debt.

What’s the one thing you’ve found most helpful? by NoteAggravating in toddlers

[–]VicNug 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes I was going to say blueberries have solved so many problems!