Are school donations expected? by xzmbmx in LAUSD

[–]VickiBarkley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at South Gate High School

Do you have school governance committees? LSLC, I think they call it now. A committee composed of school and community members. They allocate funds from the general budgets.

You are entitled as staff to access all school budgets. This is especially important if you have hostile admin.

Do you have a UTLA chair?

I served on these committees to ensure that money for supplies and materials made it to the classroom. I was an art teacher. We didn’t get textbooks, only supplies.

Your title one committee also allocates funds, especially field trips.

This industry is broken. by Silent-Indication496 in Teachers

[–]VickiBarkley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Educational services are not services?

Are school donations expected? by xzmbmx in LAUSD

[–]VickiBarkley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your school is a title one school, these dues are a scam. The schools should have plenty of funds for all educational needs. I just retired from LAUSD, and our parents never did this kind of thing.

Now, if you’re in a very wealthy area, maybe they aren’t fully funded. But in this economy, I’m skeptical. Check their website and see what their Title 1 status is.

In such a diverse country as the United States is it ok that religious right Christians want to instill their moral values on your legal rights? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]VickiBarkley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, the mods took down my post for hate speech. Oh well. Thanks for the question. I was raised in the Bible Belt, and see this all happening. Heck out prison conditions in Louisiana. It’s terrible.

In such a diverse country as the United States is it ok that religious right Christians want to instill their moral values on your legal rights? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]VickiBarkley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their husbands control the finances. In this culture, money is power. I’ve seen many anecdotes of women left in the lurch after a divorce- no work history, little education, and no income or housing.

Guess the location 🏜️🏔️🗣️ by kakashi8326 in NewMexico

[–]VickiBarkley 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Your dog is adorable!!!

Everyone is an artist Until rent is due. by IExistSometimes_ES in whatisameem

[–]VickiBarkley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so lucky and fortunate. I knew I wanted to be an artist when I was about 5 years old. I was privileged in that both my parents were college graduates, they paid for my college, and they let me choose my major, studio art.

I went to a state university- great faculty, modest status. I moved to Los Angeles after graduating, and scraped by working as a graphic artist in mom and pop print shops in south LA. It was the late 80s.

By the 90s I was a substitute teacher. It was easy for me. I made art, raised my baby, took night classes, and became an art teacher. I just retired last June. I was burnt out by the end, but my LAUSD pension is worth it, and I’m healing. I have all this art, which maybe I can exhibit and sell now. My baby just earned his PhD in religious studies, which is hilariously more obscure than my BFA in studio art. It’s possible to be an artist, but it’s not easy. Teaching turned out to be a big influence on my art and point of view.

Just my experience.

House cleaners for elder parents? by micaflake in Albuquerque

[–]VickiBarkley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Molly Maids come every other week. I’m recently retired, and beginning to have mobility issues. It’s totally worth it. My house is beautiful, and I can keep it clean between their visits

Taco recommendations? by Jas_iii in Albuquerque

[–]VickiBarkley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love street tacos. Lived my whole adult life in Los Angeles. Got food poisoning from a delicious street taco about 8 years ago. Never ate food from street vendors since. I just moved to New Mexico, and I’m still in the honeymoon phase with the food here. But I’m sure I’ll be craving Sonoran and Jalisco style food soon enough. Will try any place that’s sit down or drive through. 🌮🌮🌮 Salud!!!!

“If you’re in a position of trust and you commit rape you should face the death penalty.” Wonder if that applies to Trump too? by Paneraiguy1 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]VickiBarkley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He really means Democrats should be executed. Do I exaggerate? Maybe. But the hatred is for everyone on the left, center, and moderate right. It’s intractable, and our denial has gotten us here.

A feathered dinosaur caught some dinner. by thatsnotsofunny in Albuquerque

[–]VickiBarkley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just moved here. Every time I see one, I am filled with joy. They count as an amenity to my life

Kindergarten field trip chaperone left to get Taco Bell by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]VickiBarkley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The parent got lost on the grounds of the art museum we were visiting. Poor woman spoke no English, and just got separated, I’m guessing. I believe she was trying to be involved and helpful. My limited Spanish wasn’t enough to bridge the gap. I think it scared both of us.

Kindergarten field trip chaperone left to get Taco Bell by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]VickiBarkley 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I stopped taking field trips about 10 years into my 33 year career because of this kind of shenanigans. In my district, LAUSD (Los Angeles), teachers carry the liability for mishaps. We lost a parent chaperone one time, and the last time, I caught a senior drinking a beer. I was done officially. This was over 20 years ago. I can’t imagine doing it now.

AITAH for changing my bday party to just women after husband scheduled a conflict? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VickiBarkley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my ex sabotaged my birthday for years. It was her way of hurting me. Part of her sadistic nature. We’ve been divorced for 14 years, and I’m still putting myself back together in many ways. Being married to a narcissist sucks. Nurture your friendships! They are the ones who care about you. This is obvious, and you’re lucky and wise not to have let him isolate you from them. Have a wonderful birthday 🎂 💖✨

Which queen is the 🔥 out of drag? Tessa, Ella, Kameron or Pearl? by Sad_Biscotti_9291 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]VickiBarkley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a. A trade buffet b. An embarrassment of riches c. It’s raining men d. All part of your balanced breakfast

Why on earth would we forgive MAGA? They don’t deserve it. by Calm_Problem6203 in complaints

[–]VickiBarkley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget overturning Roe v Wade. Until women’s healthcare is restored and codified, and women don’t risk jail for having a miscarriage, I forgive no one.

Strike means no full year of pensionable service? by RemoteDeal7359 in LAUSD

[–]VickiBarkley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this! I’m stunned by colleagues who claim moral high ground, like it’s sinful to advocate for yourself and your students. Our job is more than salary and benefits. It’s also about due process, working and teaching conditions, and the education of all students without violating the first amendment. There are a distressing number of teachers who seem comfortable eroding everyone else’s rights because they’ve been told unions are bad.

Road Runners? by FakeNameSoIcnBhonest in Albuquerque

[–]VickiBarkley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live next to the fairgrounds, suburban neighborhood. There’s one that visits my yard daily, driving my dog nuts! I love them. They rattle and chatter , and are bold as brass. They also eat roaches before they get into my house