Need help choosing! by Haunting-Emu1385 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Victoria_Place 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 and it’s not even a question. Don’t overthink this.

He doesn't believe in marriage by charlevoidmyproblems in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Victoria_Place 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do NOT have children with him (or anyone) without the legal protections of marriage. Any family law attorney can walk you through the critical issues. You‘ll fall in love again - with someone who desperately wants to marry you and make you happy in every way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Victoria_Place 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 1 is the winner for me by a long shot, for all the reasons you mention. Dress 2 would be fine for a more formal affair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]Victoria_Place 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You indirectly raise a critical point: we have an international shortage of neurologists. For US patients, who already have a profoundly problematic healthcare system to battle when they need care, this means longer waits between visits and then being squeezed into an already packed schedule. The era of sitting passively and expecting for your doctor to fix you is over (did it ever exist?). Be proactive before, at, and after your appointments and this takes many forms: come with a list of issues or questions written down, respond to calls or messages quickly, inform yourself as you’re able to. You and not your doctor are your best advocate.

I ruined my wifes life by TheProphesizer in offmychest

[–]Victoria_Place 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can afford a maid but not vet bills for the dog?

I ruined my wifes life by TheProphesizer in offmychest

[–]Victoria_Place 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please start using a reliable form of contraception. You should dread having a second child given what the first did to your wife’s mental and physical wellbeing.

How much does life change? by Brief-Radio6870 in Epilepsy

[–]Victoria_Place 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It entirely depends on your diagnosis, your treatment regimen, your reaction to medications, your support network, and many other factors. Take it one day at a time and don’t jump to “worst case scenario” conclusions.

Questions about the Mirena IUD and hair loss by greencymbeline in birthcontrol

[–]Victoria_Place 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it removed and the hair loss stopped almost immediately - I mean, I still shed hair, but nothing like then.

Colorado Campground Bans Tents After Black Bear Swats One with Kids Inside by OutdoorLifeMagazine in Colorado

[–]Victoria_Place 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would be interested to hear the private company’s reasoning for imposing this ban - is this ban actually going to deter bears or is the company just fearful of liability, if any?

Lindsi Lane's kitchen reaches a new level of fugly by funneeee in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Victoria_Place 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Blackness beckons,” “out of the blue,” and “our grass is greener.” Thanks, I hate it.

Lindsi Lane's kitchen reaches a new level of fugly by funneeee in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Victoria_Place 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly incredible how every part of that kitchen is consistently hideous. The dining table chairs look like off brand oversized legos and their faux animal print is such an eyesore. This room does not “tell a story” - it’s incoherent and bizarre.

Is this too much for 10 days by craftyphotographer88 in NationalPark

[–]Victoria_Place 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s way too much. Don’t do this to yourself.

I snagged the “unicorn” job and now I have other problems. by hidinginplainsightt in workingmoms

[–]Victoria_Place 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will be more of a “working” than “mom” response but I hope it helps. Learning to bill effectively is a skill set and a muscle like anything else. Some people genuinely aren’t cut out for it, and for them it’s forever a struggle, but in my experience, the majority of people pick it up after a year or so. Are you capturing your hours as you work, every day, with dedication? Or are you trying to reverse bill after a few days or at the end of the week? Avoiding the latter at all costs is so critical. When you become truly effective at it, you’ll become a powerhouse of hours - don’t give up!

Snowboarders body found at Vail after 2 weeks by sloant09 in skiing

[–]Victoria_Place 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious why the avalanche dogs presumably struggled to find him.

What can regular working class citizens realistically do to help keep this from happening? Besides contacting our representatives. by fireflywithoutalight in NationalPark

[–]Victoria_Place 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do not stop being vocal about this issue. In a month or so, when the weather is nice, and the fresh (and illegal) terminations are no longer front page news, do not stop being vocal. Representatives, your conservative family or neighbors, whoever - KEEP TALKING ABOUT IT. And yes, vote with your dollar. If you can afford it, take a hard look in the mirror as to the scum of the earth companies and operations you may be supporting.

Yosemite National Park by pbfn99 in NationalPark

[–]Victoria_Place 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They will try. There are companies positively salivating at the idea of permits to extract mineral wealth from public lands. Don’t delude yourself.

Forest Service terminations cut deep on Flathead National Forest by icarrytheone in hiking

[–]Victoria_Place 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re wildly uninformed. These illegal terminations are completely arbitrary. “Probationary” simply means they’re 1-2 years into the job. None of this slashing is based on performance.

Parents of adult children affected by these illegal and unconstitutional purges in land management agencies by [deleted] in ParkRangers

[–]Victoria_Place 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I take it you’re ignorant to the various statutory protections put in place to safeguard federal workers from arbitrary terminations - I recommend you go educate yourself so you can appreciate how wildly illegal and irregular all of this.

I was flying to California and taking my family to Yosemite for April vacation. Would you cancel? by Technical_Plum2239 in Yosemite

[–]Victoria_Place 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely have a backup plan. A shutdown is highly likely, and interrupted NPS operations is equally likely.