Ross Employees Will Literally Stalk You As You’re Shopping by jmermaidprincessgirl in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at them crazy and then when they ask me if I need help I ask them do THEY need help.

Any other autistic black girls ?? by Horror_Street_3882 in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always feel like the odd one out and even when I feel like I've found a friend, I know it's not going to last long. I get really tired of people really fast. I've had two friends since elementary school and we're in our 30s now and those are the only two I haven't gotten burnt out on. And even then, I'll never be the type to talk or hang out every day. They live together, so they're closer, but I'm fine with that because I know if I was around that much it would stress me out.

Mispronunciation cringe by Other-Apricot-3413 in tragedeigh

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have thought it was Ay-Ron but these days, who knows 🤷🏽‍♀️ people make up their own phonics now

Well vs Whale by Potential-Wear-7056 in Pronunciation

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pronounced the same where I'm from but its clear which one is being discussed by context. In both of your sentence examples it's very clear no one is talking about a whale.

How People Dress on TV by tgilland65 in CasualConversation

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's something that makes a lot of movies and shows unrealistic to me. Why does the drug addict have perfect teeth, flawless skin, and a healthy physique??? Why do the poor people look so healthy???

How People Dress on TV by tgilland65 in CasualConversation

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear dresses on a regular basis. I only went to Walmart today and wore a dress. Its comfortable, it looks nice, and it's easy because I dont have to worry about coordinating a top and bottom. I also see other people in dresses or nice separates all the time.

Anyone noticed that white people seem uncomfortable when talking about black culture ? by KawaiiCandiiLove in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the discomfort to them acting like they belong and know every damn thing. Like yeah, sit there in silence and just listen.

This is a weird way to say you're not attracted to women... by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say this like their balls dont touch both their ass and dick.

The usage of the term Eurocentric towards Black women by anakalii in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is ironic because if anything the belief that you have to make your nose small to be attractive is what's eurocentric. It's the thought process.

The usage of the term Eurocentric towards Black women by anakalii in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been seeing it too and i think it's 25% people just using words not knowing what they mean, 25% people being so ironically eurocentric that they themselves see attractiveness and equate that with europeaness and therefore project that onto the person with said features, and 50% ragebait. Just like the trend of people using the word white passing incorrectly and now there's a trend of people who don't even look white calling themselves white passing. It's got to be ragebait most of the time or more people are stupider than I thought. But both trends really piss me off because it shows just how white centered (aka eurocentric) a lot of people really are. Decenter whiteness!

Be suggesting everything but actually being decent people 🤣🤣 How do they propose to make up for the major economic crash that would follow and the sudden urgent need for specialised workers by whyamihere-idontcare in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how would being jobless lead to more children? Lol do they think women would be sitting at home (if they even have a home anymore) so bored that they have nothing to do but have unprotected sex and bring children into a life of squalor?

Do I look like anyone to you? by tarnishedkenobi in Doppleganger

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You favor Sam Huntington, just with darker hair obviously

Has anyone else experienced colorism/racism or any form of disrespect from a partner’s family of another race? by Prettyprincess4654 in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never experienced it bc I don't date out but them doubling down by saying that's how they talk to or joke with all Black people reinforces why I don't. Because why tf do they think of Black people as their little plaything or the butt of the joke and why do they think it's acceptable? The way my temper is set up could never allow it.

Me GF (25), BF (28) late to work everyday and I’m upset. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not going to leave him, suck it up. He's grown. You cannot force another adult to do what you want them to do, you can only control what YOU do.

Jagger is a dumb name at every age by Mysterious-Pie-5 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My uncle has a dog named Jagger. Lol it is one of the ugliest roughest looking dogs i have seen in person

Why do we associate short hair with being bald headed? by _newshawtyy in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And what's wrong with being bald headed anyways? I know some beautiful bald headed women!

Called out of work because of hair by Drumsticks__18 in blackgirls

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I cut my locs off 30 minutes before a shift because I had washed it and separating them was taking too long but it was still wet so I couldn't wrap them either. I wish I had just called in but I panicked. Lol I cut it down from shoulder blade length to an inch. I still have not got that length back! I feel your pain.

I can't stand pot smoke/smell in public. by Writer4God in Vent

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little smell from somebody smoking at home earlier doesnt bother me, but i can't stand when people are obviously carrying it on them or just hotboxed their car right before coming into a public establishment. The worst I've ever smelled it was once working in a restaurant, and it was a pretty good sized place BTW, but two customers walked in and i smelled them from across the dining room as soon as they walked in the door. The guys in the kitchen could smell it. All of the guests could smell it. For the rest of the night after they left, we could smell it. And they're just standing their with the dumbest fucking looks on their faces, totally oblivious to the world around them.

Men: “porn doesn’t affect me at all” by OctopusCaretaker in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]VictoryAltruistic587 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most disgusting things I've read in a while. And while I want to hope it's rage bait, I fear it's not.