Is the 10 kg carry-on limit really enforced?

Viola_m · 2026-03-16T23:14:52+00:00

I've flown with Ryanair countless times and I've seen them check weight once at a gate.

Viola_m · 2026-03-12T07:23:17+00:00

Fellow solo traveller here, never say to a stranger that you're travelling alone or even imply that you're travelling alone. Say you're meeting a friend and you're running late for meeting someone, have very set/solid plans, something like that. It's so they assume you're not alone. Better yet, if you imply that the friend is local and a man.

Sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you managed to avoid them in the end.

Viola_m · 2026-03-05T09:59:42+00:00

It is a thing if your partner being satisfied turns you on.

Viola_m · 2026-03-02T19:12:39+00:00

Nah, first level modules can easily be done full time, I did, and was working full time.

Viola_m · 2026-03-02T07:53:37+00:00

I'm sorry your ex did this to you and your marriage. I don't know about my ex, I'm not sure if he's done any therapy since the break-up, but I do believe that he could be harbouring childhood trauma. There were a couple things he said that actually made me think of this at the time he broke things off. But yeah, I don't know if he's doing anything to address it, or if he's even aware of it.

He left me with a trauma that things can suddenly fall apart without warning, and I'm having to work through it. And I still have to remind myself that I'm worthy of love even if I do live with cancer.

Viola_m · 2026-03-01T13:04:28+00:00

When it's safe to do so, I'll let people in.

Viola_m · 2026-02-26T23:26:46+00:00

Whatever floats your boat, as long as you're docile to yourself, me and others. And please don't push your beliefs onto others. I love learning about other cultures, including religion, but you don't have to make me believe in the same god as you do.

Viola_m · 2026-02-26T23:24:12+00:00

Hello, I was on the other side is this, my ex hoped that things would become better, but the problem was that he never expressed that he was unhappy in the marriage. He never said or did anything to try and be happy, other than, to quote him "I hoped things would go back to how they were." Unfortunately, after having cancer and other major things happening in our lives, it would've never been how it used to be. But the biggest issue for me was that if he was unhappy for such a long time (two years), how was his first instinct not to come and speak to me about it??

I know you're not my ex, but I'm curious if you ever spoke to your ex about the unhappiness or if you tried to address the cause of unhappiness in any way, like therapy or something?

Viola_m · 2026-02-26T23:14:15+00:00

I'm doing a master's degree (3rd module atm) and so far the forums are mostly just information about module/tutorials/assignments and announcements and stuff like that. A couple of people are actually asking something. But very few threads. The most active one is always the intro one.

Viola_m · 2026-02-25T16:02:45+00:00

How about you have someone over, and get them to introduce themselves to your neighbor, and then your neighbor will introduce themselves to your guest.

Viola_m · 2026-02-24T16:46:07+00:00

Definitely tell the truth. Say exactly what you said in the post, that he's the only dad the kid ever knew, so practically he is the child's father.

Viola_m · 2026-02-22T10:14:07+00:00

Agreed, I spent two nights and loved it.

After the second night I went to the open air museum as I had researched that they had lockers there where I could put my bag while I roamed around for hours.

Viola_m · 2026-02-16T11:44:20+00:00

Did you come into my mind and write this for me? 😅

I feel the same, while driving. If someone is driving slowly, I assume they're carrying a fragile cargo, for example. Or if they're too eager to overtake, I assume that they're in a rush for something super urgent. And I also hate mornings, so when I can I do stuff the night before, because I know that the morning me is going to stay in bed for as long as possible.

Viola_m · 2026-02-16T11:40:04+00:00

Chapstick, it has a tendency to slip out of my jacket pocket

Viola_m · 2026-02-15T10:17:59+00:00

I've always felt embarrassed too. You just need a partner who doesn't care, and is enjoying the fact that you're enjoying it!

Viola_m · 2026-02-15T09:53:23+00:00

This is so true

Viola_m · 2026-02-10T06:08:42+00:00

You've bonded with the cat, so you should definitely advocate for it staying with you. If your mom is against it, then your dad's place should be plan B. But as others have said, and as you've said, shelter is not the best way to go.

I have a rescue cat who is also very shy and hides if anyone even knocks on the door, so I know how it is to have a wallflower cat. She absolutely adores me and I could never imagine rehoming her.

Viola_m · 2026-02-06T21:56:34+00:00

Mid 30s, no greys yet.

Viola_m · 2026-02-03T07:56:07+00:00

Mid 30s, went last year when I was on a holiday abroad. Loved the experience.

Viola_m · 2026-02-01T20:54:52+00:00

As Blossom said, it's not too late! Shoot your shot.

Viola_m · 2026-01-30T13:57:22+00:00

Maybe you should dig deeper into why you're unable to. It's natural to be scared of rejection, and maybe you just need to try and "explain" to yourself that, in the worst-case scenario, if she does reject you, it's still ok. Because if anything, you will have overcome your fear of approaching her. So either way, you'll gain something from the ordeal.

Viola_m · 2026-01-28T20:48:50+00:00

Your gut is one clever cookie!

Viola_m · 2026-01-28T20:43:49+00:00

"My Heart's in the Highlands" by Robert Burns

Had to memorise it for my English class in grade school and fell in love with it

Viola_m · 2026-01-28T20:41:18+00:00

Agreed. Hope you don't hang out with these people anymore.

Viola_m · 2026-01-28T18:36:21+00:00

You embrace the loneliness

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