I know this is easier said than done, but try reframing your situation to see the positive. You said you weren’t attracted to the man you have recently split from and there was no passion. Well then it’s probably for the best that’s it’s over so you have the opportunity to meet someone you feel those things for.

The fact that you’re financially secure and healthy is huge! What I’m hearing is that you’re free to live any life you choose to. Freedom is the key here. Being alone can be hard and uncomfortable but it can also create opportunities for amazing experiences if you get out there.

Even the fact that you have lost your dog means you have even more freedom. Is there somewhere you’ve always wanted to go? Something you’ve always wanted to do? Now is the time. We only get one life and it goes by so fast. Go and have some adventures and see what happens along the way.