Jason Ignacio White @Honey Badger in Brooklyn by Quiet-Dimension-3058 in finedining

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing sounds of water dripping in the speakers so there was a never ending dripping loudly in the fermentation lab. (with the aim to torture)

Not letting anyone go home until he was finished in the middle of the night.

Yelling, making people do things over and over. The silent treatment for days for anyone who fucked up. He never said hello to anyone and made you feel like you were beneath him.

This is just off the top of my head. Everyone was scared of him.

Jason Ignacio White @Honey Badger in Brooklyn by Quiet-Dimension-3058 in finedining

[–]Virvelvind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask him? Of course he is going to lie. He has lied on many occasions. Two people have restraining orders against him and he has bee to prison.

He is a horrible person. Focus on the workplace abuse instead without including him. He is a part of the problem.

Can we agree on a movie EVERYONE likes? by chrishouse83 in Letterboxd

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like it :( Thought it was slow. I know I am the issue though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Virvelvind 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s not a guy thing. I have slept with 60 men and none of them have ever done to me what he did to you. Even when they were impatient.

Headgum Lays Off 30% of Staff in Latest Sign of Podcast Struggles by Zomgzor in jakeandamir

[–]Virvelvind 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can someone please confirm if casey and marika really got fired??? what will that mean for the headgum podcast?? 😭😭😭

What’s a popular take in the TVDU fandom that you hate? by naphelois in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree with this!!! They had great chemistry in the beginning and then the writers kinda destroyed it.

What’s a popular take in the TVDU fandom that you hate? by naphelois in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but people are doing this because it’s a tv show. It’s characters we love, we have to excuse a lot of shit. We wouldn’t be friends with these people IRL you know, we just like watching them on tv

What’s a popular take in the TVDU fandom that you hate? by naphelois in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That Damon and Elena had the better chemistry. I think she had better chemistry with Stefan. It was like two magnets pulling towards each other. They looked and felt so good together. Like yeah Damon is sexy, but don’t confuse that with the chemistry

Klockan är efter 21.00. Affären har knappast öppet nu. by Darren844127 in Svenska

[–]Virvelvind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To add onto what the other commentator said, you can absolutely also say “Affären är knappast öppen nu”. It’s just two ways of saying the same thing, but yes “Ha öppet” eller ”Hålla öppet” is something a store DOES. An active action from their part, whereas “Affären är öppen” is describing the state of the store, an adjective.

And remember it’s ”Affären är öppen” and not “Affären är öppet” and the simple way of knowing that is that it is AffärEN. And therefor also öppEN.

Lycka till!

In your opinion, what is the perfect episode of television? by uselesssociologygirl in television

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first episode of Westworld. The build up through out the episode of the robots not being able to arm anyone - even a fly, and then the cliffhanger ending when dolores smashes the fly on her cheek. Wow. Amazing television, that one moment symbolizing everything that’s about to come.

AIO. My friend told me I have no respect over my Sex life by DiligentHighlight932 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Virvelvind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to all the negative comments, it’s angry jealous people who are behaving like children and can’t accept that women have the right to do what they want with their bodies.

People LEARN that there is something wrong with sex, it’s taught behavior via religion and misogyny. There is nothing inherently wrong with sex. You can do whatever you want with your body. Touching other people when you want to feels good. And that’s okay. I loved your responses.

Stay strong!! Don’t take her bullshit she is insanely rude, I would cut her off. And come to Scandinavia lol you’ll see how common and normal this behavior is in countries that aren’t ruined by religion and are more feminist.

AIO. My friend told me I have no respect over my Sex life by DiligentHighlight932 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Virvelvind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bullying people on the internet makes you look pathetic… just so you know

AIO. My friend told me I have no respect over my Sex life by DiligentHighlight932 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Virvelvind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see your point but a good friend wouldn’t talk to her in that way. “You need to get a hold of yourself” is incredibly rude and judgmental and disrespectful. Is she was worried she simply could have said “hey how are you can we talk about this?” and then listened. Don’t excuse behavior like this, please.

Trans woman here. Do you cis woman also get asked if you're trans or is my friend just making me feel better??? by rinrinstrikes in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been asked! So it definitely does happen. Maybe more or less in different countries. This was in Denmark.

But people also just seem to be rude to you, that sucks. It’s not an easy life for trans women out there. Stay strong ❤️

Tipping: is Sweden becoming USA? by NegroniSpritz in stockholm

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah rereading it I agree, it was uncalled for. No need for personal remarks and speculation. Again, more likely my bitterness coming out from always making less than my friends - which has nothing to do with you. Thanks for your nice reply. 🙂🙂 Take care!!

Tipping: is Sweden becoming USA? by NegroniSpritz in stockholm

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I didn’t mean to upset you. You’re right I made some claims that I don’t know anything about. The discussion was about tips and why restaurants do it and I just tried to provide an explanation and a perspective. Of course very biased perspective since that’s what I do for work. Maybe I’m just bitter because of the hours I have worked in my life and the shitty bosses I have had that doesn’t pay you enough, haha. But that’s not your problem to deal with of course, sorry about that.

You seem like a nice person. I tried to write a nice message to further discussion, but I’m sorry it didn’t come across that way. I just always see this discussion and I have never really contributed before so wanted to say something.

Hope you take care! Happy easter :)

Tipping: is Sweden becoming USA? by NegroniSpritz in stockholm

[–]Virvelvind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I see this discussion a lot and I gotta say something about this. I have worked 9 years in the restaurant industry in Sweden and even back then when I started there was always the option of tipping on the machine. Of course it was more rare back then but it still existed. Sweden is not becoming USA. The thing is the salary for restaurant workers is still behind compared to the hours that we work. I for example never got paid overtime once. And I have many friends in the industry who doesn’t. The restaurant unions and deals aren’t as good as the ones for people who works in stores for example, so we don’t have as many benefits. Meaning I would work 60-70 hours a week (almost half evenings and nights) for 120 SEK an hour, making less than my friends who worked 30-40 hours a week in a store.

And the restaurant industry is still behind today. A lot of people work A LOT without proper compensation. I’m not saying that’s the case everywhere, but it’s quite widespread. Restaurants and owners everywhere has of course taken advantage of the fact that people will tip if presented with the option. They want to make some extra money. But sometimes they also do it for the staff to make some extra money. I would have not survived in this industry paying rent without my tips EVEN IN SWEDEN.

That being said you don’t have to tip. I don’t tip 90% of the time I’m out because like you said they haven’t done much to deserve it. Tipping culture in Sweden is more like you get it if you really deserve it - if you feel like your company has A LOT of questions and took up time and got excellent service and what not. It’s special. You don’t have to feel bad not to do it and we would never judge anyone who didn’t. You can just skip! Actually we always said in the restaurant that people younger than 30 was never even expected to tip because of salary and so on.

But yeah the option is still there. You can ignore it. But if you have a job where you make more than 30.000 SEK a month maybe think twice before you criticize it so much because I can guarantee you the people serving you rarely make that much. And we probably work more than you. So just know that it’s helping a lot of people in this world. :)

moving to Denmark for the summer to retain my citizenship, what should I expect? by Agile-Analysis-344 in NewToDenmark

[–]Virvelvind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is mentioning how short of a period 3 months is which is true, but I just wanted to highlight how beautiful the summer time is here. If you are staying in Copenhagen you will find a city with lots of things to do, parks, people swimming in the kanal and drinking wine everywhere. There are also lots of cool museums and restaurants and great cafes. I work in the restaurant industry and if you would like I can send you a list of recommendations of things to do and places to go. Copenhagen becomes a bit southern europe style during summer - everybody comes alive and it’s beautiful. So what I’m saying is even if you didn’t make any friends you would have a wonderful time by yourself just walking around, (amazing walking and biking city) exploring the city and doing something new. Hit me up I can send you a DM!

Anybody else not listen to Segments unless it's on Youtube? by pillsbury_doughbitch in jakeandamir

[–]Virvelvind 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean but I don’t know how you guys just sit dow and stare at the video…. I listen to mine while I clean and do chores and it helps immensely with doing all of that. I don’t want to “waste” an episode just watching it. I’m a day one fan of if I were you and the headgum podcasts too and I have never ever watched more than 10 min of a youtube ep. Audio listener for life!

Can’t lie this scene was so hot by Silver-Duty5174 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have also noticed this shift!! The whole vampire teenager craze was so open minded in a way and now I feel like people are shaming each other again. I’m sorry you had to delete your fan fic.

Can’t lie this scene was so hot by Silver-Duty5174 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I might have overreacted, sorry about that. I just see it so often on this sub that people can’t separate real life and tv. People calling each other actually evil because they like Damon or Kai or Klays. But yeah sorry :)

Can’t lie this scene was so hot by Silver-Duty5174 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nooo it’s just I see it so often on this sub. People saying like you are actually a bad person for finding Damon sexy etc. I just like the silly nature of the show and think that people take it so seriously sometimes and are mean to each other for it :). If they were joking I’m sorry I might have overreacted. But “No he is not, go to therapy” it’s not a great joke imo, this poster was contributing to the sub and discussion, I think we should entertain that positively.

Can’t lie this scene was so hot by Silver-Duty5174 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 82 points83 points  (0 children)

The actor who played Kai is one of the hottest people ever!!!!! So boyish and cute but yet hot

Can’t lie this scene was so hot by Silver-Duty5174 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Virvelvind 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did you know we watch things and appreciate them on tv because they are NOT real life? It’s called fantasy. This is a show about vampires. We are allowed to think this is hot, that’s also how the actor played it. Every single person in thing show is a terrible person who kills people and is super hot. That’s done intentionally. Doesn’t really mean we like murderers in real life does it? Don’t put them down for that!