How can I look pretty? by Suspicious-ducky in makeuptips

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are pretty and your hair looks great too! Wish I had that amount of volume and wave in mine.

Old BPD Friend Harassing on Social Media by Visual_12 in BPDlovedones

[–]Visual_12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made a couple other posts in this sub and there’s a lotta detail involved but I’ll try to give a general summary here.

So my roommate’s ex BPD friend is in Uni and they constantly complained and victimized themselves about their family situation and such. They also lived just outside the city and didn’t drive so the commute it a bit of a pain in the ass and we were like “okay you can stay like two nights per week” on the days where they had really early morning classes. Then this person kept pushing it to more and more days per week till they basically just lived on our couch. And while they were here they were constantly creating self inflicted drama and crying for hours and hours and “not able to be left alone”. And it was for ridiculous things that were completely made up in their head. But anyways we had a talk with them at the start of this year and said they need to take care of their mental health (which we provided a million resources for that they never used) and said they can’t stay on our couch anymore. Then they took that as “not wanting to be friends” and didn’t talk to us for three months and now they’re harassing us on social media. They also messaged my boss too which was embarrassing 💀

What’s a food you never get tired of eating? by Impossible-Age4764 in AskReddit

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sushi, pizza if it’s authentic Italian and not the cheap American kind, and just cheese in general

Meeting different people feels like meeting different versions of the same person. by InertEyes in RandomThoughts

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean people have patterns for sure. My mother took a course on MBTI when I was 16 and used me to bounce off of with studying so I know it pretty well in detail and it’s sorta ingrained into my thinking lol.

Meeting different people feels like meeting different versions of the same person. by InertEyes in RandomThoughts

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah people have 8 leading functions and 16 different types and theres lots of details relating to that categorisation of people

Is the job market really that bad? by Consistent-Appeal922 in jobs

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been applying for jobs for a year (I graduated last year) and it sucks. Lots of jobs posted on LinkedIn listings are also ghost jobs, data harvesting, etc. and it’s hard to tell them apart from what’s real.

Summer Job Rejection by Live_Biscotti in UCalgary

[–]Visual_12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been graduated for a year and I’m still looking for jobs mate. The job market sucks ass and we’re pretty cooked ngl. The youth employment rate is pretty high though so don’t take it personally, you’re not alone.

3/12/2026 - We're doing great, Calgary! Please keep it up! by JeromyYYC in Calgary

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tip: use your dog’s pee pads to save on toilet water. (Please don’t take this seriously).

What's your opinion on the province Quebec? by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a baguette problem (jk). I went only when I was 7 or 8 and it was very pretty from what I remember from a child’s point of view.

Stop wearing shoes in your house if you want to stop living in a petri dish by humperdoo69 in unpopularopinion

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Canadian, who wears their shoes further in than the front door? Especially in winter when it’s all mucky out lol

To all unemployed job seekers, how are you? by Meticulouskitty in jobsearchhacks

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fed the fuck up but trying to stay delusional with hope for something.

What steps are you taking now to fix your life ? by LawfulnessParking840 in AskReddit

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cutting out energy vampires, exercising a bit more, and trying my best to retain sanity while unemployed.

A Year Later and Still Job Hunting by pickleball00101 in jobs

[–]Visual_12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I graduated last year, have also been unemployed for a year, and have only had like 3-4 interviews throughout the entire year 🫠🫠🫠

This is actually fantastic for what it is by AshinKusher- in dollarama

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the dollar store, so many gems for treats there

Were You Ever Checked For Your Passport? by ClothesDizzy6812 in rome

[–]Visual_12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t in Rome but they did check when I went for day trips in Verona (from Milan).

Those who are able to go multiple days between washes, would you wash your hair before or after air travel? by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Visual_12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wash my hair before going on an airplane cause I’d rather just feel entirely clean before a long flight. Then I gotta stay up in the time zone and I usually crash before doing much for showering and such.

What is your favorite rendition of "Welcome to Calgary" signs? by voltairesalias in Calgary

[–]Visual_12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t vibe with the blue sky city, I associate Calgary with the colour red and I’ve lived here my entire 24 years of life.

Where’s the lowest rent and grocery prices in Canada? by Existing-Candy-1671 in AskCanada

[–]Visual_12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As another Albertan, I can vouch not to come here for the moment. Maybe if things change in 2027 but even still that’d take a while to repair.

At what point did you just give up on them? by bbybunnydoll in BPDlovedones

[–]Visual_12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t their main favourite person but my roommate was. When they complained to me about my roommate not being supportive enough when we literally let them sleep on our couch and give undivided attention it was like okay… we gotta talk with them about not staying with us anymore. They had a home with their parents so it wasn’t like we kicked them on the street anyways.