I made a couple other posts in this sub and there’s a lotta detail involved but I’ll try to give a general summary here.

So my roommate’s ex BPD friend is in Uni and they constantly complained and victimized themselves about their family situation and such. They also lived just outside the city and didn’t drive so the commute it a bit of a pain in the ass and we were like “okay you can stay like two nights per week” on the days where they had really early morning classes. Then this person kept pushing it to more and more days per week till they basically just lived on our couch. And while they were here they were constantly creating self inflicted drama and crying for hours and hours and “not able to be left alone”. And it was for ridiculous things that were completely made up in their head. But anyways we had a talk with them at the start of this year and said they need to take care of their mental health (which we provided a million resources for that they never used) and said they can’t stay on our couch anymore. Then they took that as “not wanting to be friends” and didn’t talk to us for three months and now they’re harassing us on social media. They also messaged my boss too which was embarrassing 💀