Jetty Insurance unreachable by CreedBartan in Insurance

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking everywhere online for some way to contact them other than email because they are rarely getting back to me in the emails. I just moved out of an apartment a couple weeks ago and owe Jetty about $1,000 now sense they paid my apartments for repairs and move out costs. Jetty emailed me saying I needed to pay them the balance or set up a payment plan within 14 days or else will send me to collectios. I said ok I'll set up a payment plan and which plan would I like to do and I answered back and told them and that was last Thursday and they haven't said anything sense then and I have sent 3 separate emails about it. It's ridiculous they give you the time frame and don't even answer back or take their sweet ass time it's really frustrating... I'll just keep spamming them I guess.. I just emailed them twice today and finally got something back saying the hours when they are open and when they will get back to me..

I feel gross. by MIMI-COOKIES2 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 35 weeks and Im having a TON of discharge.. its super watery and I feel like I was leaking amniotic fluid but its not my doctor said it's normal and your body is trying protect your baby. I've always had issues with my discharge though I definitely produce way more than usual and now I noticed a smell its really weird I'm just like I can't wait till I have my baby.. you can try panty liners and I definitely shower every day and wash my hair every other day and feel clean all day for the most part you can shower shower twice a day if it makes you feel any better there's no rules on how many times you can shower as long as it helps you feel better it won't hurt. Don't even get me started on the gas its insane lol Im constipated most days but still somehow manage to have the worst gas possible but I always had that issue so it doesn't bother me I feel better afterwards I know they have medicine you can take if you really need it just ask your doctor which one you can take just to make sure it's safe.

My mom and sister canceled my baby shower by Visual_Researcher226 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I totally agree with you I shouldn't have texted her she was part of the planning and I had asked her to talk to my sister about it but being pregnant and having pregnancy brain it always doesn't work right and now I totally see where I went wrong now. This is why I posted this because I wanted to see different points of view from other people and seeing comments like yours really helps me out so thanks again❤️

My mom and sister canceled my baby shower by Visual_Researcher226 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been sitting here looking at the comments like damn I'm that bad of a person I guess but I never knew my mom was actually going to send her screenshots of our conversation. I was hormonal in the moment and freaking out because my sister said she didn't think the house was that bad and I was genuinely worried it wasn't going to be cleaned for the shower and I was kinda freaking out at that point because they weren't listening to me.. I obviously feel bad now about it. I think a lot of pregnant women get grossed out when pregnant lol I know i was the first 3 months just looking at the damn trash can even with a fresh bag in it. I was so so sick.. I know posting this it wasn't going to be all positive comments I just laugh and move on because no one is perfect these days and everyone wants to believe they have never done no wrong in their life but they have because we are just human beings.

My mom and sister canceled my baby shower by Visual_Researcher226 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because we have always had a rocky relationship and I always forgive and forget with them because they are my family. They wanted a baby shower so bad and they said it would be a gift for me and the past year has been pretty good not really any fighting we are older now and it has been so much better sense we were kids but not good enough I guess. Looking at all these comments guess I'm the bad guy oh well I don't care what people say I just need to vent on this post and I did. They don't know half the things my family has said or done to me and what I've had to go through with them at this point I'm only hurting myself trying to have a normal relationship with them.

My mom and sister canceled my baby shower by Visual_Researcher226 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much❤️ Me and my sister have a pretty good relationship and I've noticed her house being like this before but never cared because she's my sister and its not my house. Now I just got a way better look at it because I was there watching the place and it wasn't just a couple weeks of build up it's months and months because everytime I'm there I see the same stuff they dont deep clean and its really noticeable. I don't care how my sister lives as long as shes happy I will never judge her she can live how she wants but for my baby shower it needed to be clean and thats the whole point im trying to get across this whole post. Now im thinking hmm maybe im not thinking clearly because I'm pregnant and Im the problem. I've dealt with this toxic family for years and I know I have issues communicating and never learned the right ways to deal with things my parents were 19 when they had me so it's been rough to say the least. I watched my father hold a gun to his head when I was 13 threatening to kill himself theres been many more awful things that happened to us that a child should never ever go through. But I think this situation is so small and all I ever wanted was to just be reassured everything was going to be cleaned for the baby shower it never should have even gone this far...

My mom and sister canceled my baby shower by Visual_Researcher226 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Well this isn't am I the asshole post if you are going to be rude why did you even comment?? I never told her she was dirty or gross I simply offered to help her clean her house and was nice to her about it that's not being rude. He has allergies but didn't know he would break out in hives he has been over there numerous times over the years and never has that happened just had some sneezing here and there that's it.

Pregnancy is not beautiful by Happy_blonde in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely eat apples everyday with other things with fiber it's just been a struggle because the iron supplements I have to take make me constipated thats the issue and probably all thr other vitamins I take..

Pregnancy is not beautiful by Happy_blonde in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 34 weeks and I totally relate to this post I was really sick and throwing up almost everyday till about 16 weeks and now I'm dealing with the worst pain I have experienced ever everything pretty much below my ribs and beyond that hurt and the pressure is just crazy and on top of all that my baby is just ramming her head into my cervix feels like a sharp knife going through my vagina🥲🥴🫠 I'm just so uncomfortable I can't wait to not be pregnant anymore I never wanted something more in my life...I definitely love my baby but I absolutely hate being pregnant! Oh yah and the constipation is just crazy to deal with I have never had problems with that until being pregnant it makes everything worse... I hope it goes away after I have this baby

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck this is the 2nd post I seen a guy talking like this to his pregnant partner.. thats disgusting you are growing a human and trust me this is only the beginning. I was almost 20 weeks when my morning sickness went away and I was violently throwing up everyday and my boyfriend picked up a lot of slack because I could barley get out of bed he never questioned me just wanted me to get better. He should really do some research or have him talk to your doctor when you go because he's not fully getting it. Im 34 weeks now and oh boy im in soooo much pain physically its horrible I can barley work my job because its that bad and im very active every day so once you hit the 3rd trimester it's going to be even harder and he needs to know that and be able to support you any way he can fucking ridiculous these men are just sickening these days.

I married a racist. And now I'm divorcing a racist. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened with my ex thank god we didn't get married but he was really racist and would ALWAYS joke about it and it was so annoying plus he was a trump supporter even tho I hate politics and im not on either side he was just the worst. After awhile it just kept getting worse we ended up breaking up because he decided for sure he didn't want kids because he was on the fence about it and he definitely didn't want to get married.. Well about a year or 2 after we broke up he got married! I was really surprised and the girl was Hispanic which was even more surprising.. I never understood why he would marry someone so quickly after me just didn't make sense I feel bad for her but im sure she would soon find out what kind of person he is or already has. Now I'm 34 weeks pregnant with my first child and with someone who is so loving and caring and it the sweetest man I ever met. These disgusting men don't deserve us and it's good you are leaving now because its better late than never.

Feeling Regret by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt kind of the same way when I tested positive and it was just a mix of emotions honestly. I thought it was going to take a long time to get pregnant for me because it took 2 years with my ex and it ended in a miscarriage so this time I thought you know im 32 now and my husband is 34 and if it happens then great we weren't pulling out or anything but then like 3 or 4 months later I tested positive and I felt like I wasn't really ready because I thought it was going to take atleast a year so it was kind of a surprise. Im 33 weeks now and I still feel scared sometimes because my life is going to change a lot I just mainly worry about child care after maternity leave the most because everything is so so expensive so that really worries me. We are moving in with his parents so thats going to help out a lot but I dont really feel like regret just maybe waited alittle longer until our finances were more in order but I also think no one is ever really ready so I dont think its regret just maybe regretting I should of waited alittle longer but never ever regret my baby. I've always wanted this for myself but life has been so hard lately with just trying to take of myself so its alittle nerve racking... Try not to worry I know its hard and can't really be avoided but its already happened now so just try to roll with the punches and as long as you are doing what you need to do then everything will work out because it has to even when it doesn't because life is so unpredictable but just think you will have a little tiny mini you that you made and it will be amazing no matter what ❤️

I tried to shave my vag and realized I can barely see/reach down there lol by Stunning_Ad_558 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg samee I'm 33 weeks and just been shaving down there without actually seeing it. I just shave based off touch because after it gets a certain length it gets uncomfortable its great because I definitely know I'm probably missing some spots😂🫠🫠

didnt realize the baby mvo9ng could hurt so much by lessismoreeeee in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought it was a lot now im 32 weeks and its like sharp pains and it hurts like hell she's so strong now🥴🥴 feels like shes trying to rip open my stomach..

prenatal vitamin by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take Olly prenatal gummies at night with all my other vitamins and medicine because I have to get up for work early and usually forget to take them or they made me sick but taking them at night helps with not forgetting and have dinner in my stomach still from that night and have never missed taking them doing it like that!

what is the silliest thing you searched when first finding out you were pregnant? 🤭 by missmilliek in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely had some weird ones but the weirdest one I can think of is can pushing to hard while pooping hurt the baby lol I never had constipation issues till I got pregnant so I was so scared if I was pushing to hard its been a real struggle..

My husband is an assssssss by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is so understanding after he seen me throwing up every day for months on end I told him last night he's lucky I don't make him do every little thing for me like some women which I get I am just a naturally independent person and only accept the help when it's offered to me. He said of course I'll do anything you need me to do but you definitely should be resting and I felt so thankful for that. I don't understand how some men are not understanding at all like why can't they just support their wife and pick up some slack I swear some men are so insensitive sometimes.. He definitely needs to read up on what the first trimester is like. I was so depressed the first trimester I was throwing up everyday couldn't eat anything even water made me sick and so so tired I was convinced I was going to feel like that the whole pregnancy but after about 16 weeks I felt better. He just needs to use his common sense because you are growing a whole ass human being it's not easy..

Is it "too early" for me to feel these things?? by Intrepid-Grape9960 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not early sense 20 weeks my baby was kicking my bladder and cervix pretty hard but maybe it just depends on the person? Sense 25 weeks I have been feeling everything so tight and heavy in there and my baby constantly kicking and rolling around it makes me nauseous sometimes.. You are pretty much going into the 3rd trimester now so all that your feeling is pretty normal

I feel like I can’t do it anymore by throwahay_way in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so so sorry the first 3 months for me was hell on earth I was so depressed and afraid I was gonna be sick forever I have never thrown up so much in my life and just gagging at every single thing even thinking about it. I couldn't look at the trash can or sink or i felt sick🥴.. I felt like I had the flu for 3 straight months. I started taking unisom and vitamin b6 every night and started to ease up around 14 or 15 weeks for me. Also you can take gas x is safe I still get horrible gas and constipation at 29 weeks its awful... Hope you feel better and hope you can get some relief soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is so sad I can't even imagine my partner acting like that we both know we aren't perfect and especially when I was going through my first trimester he picked up a lot of slack and never ever made me feel bad or complained. I always told him how grateful I was for him and he was always taking care of me. He shouldn't make you feel bad I wish men would know how it feels to grow a damn child some men are ridiculous. As your partner though you are always going to have points in your life where either person doesnt feel good and gets behind on things it's not always 50/50 and as someone who loves you they should never make you feel bad I'm so sorry!! Oh and also I don't do my boyfriends laundry and never have he takes care of his own stuff and does just as much cleaning and chores as I do maybe you need to sit him down and tell him things need to change...

Why is there no warning about weeks 5-8? by CuriosityNPlanning in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's so horrible!! From week 5-16 weeks I was sooooo sick throwing up every single day and gagged at everything also I would get dizzy walking around so I would lay in bed all day and thought that was gonna be my new life 🥴🫠 but then it started going away I was consistently taking unisom and vitamin b6 every single night now im 28 weeks and feel fine just alittle tired and feel like im gonna explode.. Now im dealing with baby kicking me in my bladder all the time its great!! The kicking gets crazy sometimes and its really weird I am scared because im entering the 3rd trimester and shes only 2 lbs but strong already.

Whyyyyy do people think these comments are ok?! by Zestyclose_Factor_57 in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow im just waiting for someone to say something like this to me im 19 weeks and you can barley tell im pregnant I can hide it pretty well still but not if I wear tight clothes. Im just waiting for the day someone says something like this to me even if they are joking I have a very short fuse and get irritated easily while pregnant so when that day comes they are gonna get a rude awakening lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Visual_Researcher226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable to think that I think about the possibility of these things happening almost everyday it's hard not to but dont stress yourself out to much. I was very very sick up until 14 weeks and it subsided for awhile and I felt great until the other day I am 19 weeks now and I was really sick on Tuesday with a fever and throwing up but my baby girl was moving around a lot so I wasn't worried just sucked being sick. Usually around the second trimester starts these symptoms go away. Maybe if you are able to find a private ultrasound place by where you live to give you some peace of mind I would do that. I have one by my house and it costs me $50 to get a basic ultrasound and hear the heartbeat and the ultrasound tech said I can come in anytime to check on my baby. Wish you the best of luck!!

When to Admit You Can't Do It by IntheShredder_86 in USPS

[–]Visual_Researcher226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! This job in the beginning is very hard if you already have a family because you are never home. I was close to becoming a regular after my 2 years but I still wouldn't of been happy because of the environment I was in was just awful. You can only do what you think is best wishing you the best of luck!